Been blackmailed

Ok_Iron_4317 · 2022-08-21T08:19:56+00:00

Dude, she's a woman with Child porn, I think it's in your favor, go to the cops and tell them she coerced you into doing so. And on top of that, she's blackmailing a minor.

Monster3gamez · 2022-08-21T08:20:32+00:00

Call the cops show chats of etempted blackmail

KalzK · 2022-08-21T09:06:20+00:00

You have this knife by the handle here. They can get in much more trouble than you by having or distributing that content. Being a child as you are this is grooming and the police don't take these things with humor.

Huffers1010 · 2022-08-21T09:37:00+00:00

If she posts it online she'll be guilty of distributing child porn, so there's that.

I'd agree with others here: take it to your folks.

619ec · 2022-08-21T10:16:33+00:00

It's not a women, it's a con

Boopfoop122 · 2022-08-21T09:19:00+00:00

Call her bluff. You’re the victim. They took advantage of you. If you’re afraid you can send in an anonymous tip to the police depending on your state they might have their own website for cyber crimes. At least they’ll be flagged, so if they do publicly post your nudes the cops are already watching

odysseytree · 2022-08-21T10:14:12+00:00

A woman possessing child pornography. She will be charged for making sexual chats with you, gr00ming, coercing you to send her nudes and possessing child porn plus threatening to redistribute them. You can easily tell your parents you were coerced to send her and tell the police of all 5 crimes of her.

For your information, it is the fault of an adult if they ask for nudes and the minor gives them. This is called gr00ming and coercion.

shiftyfired1056 · 2022-08-21T10:56:57+00:00

PLEASE READ: I've had a similar experience. "She" tried to blackmail me by saying "I'll leak them to everyone you know unless you pay me." It's a scam designed to scare you into giving them money. They way they do it is by either hijacking legitimate Instagram accounts or creating fake ones then hitting you up on Instagram. They'll ask for your snap and start off innocent in your Snap DMs and this is where I fell for it and this is where you fell for it. You start thinking they're real, they'll send a couple of nudes, then they'll ask for nudes back. You're horny so you send. Then, she will ask you to send more and more photos of different things. Nudes with your face, videos of you masturbating, etc. When you don't send them, she'll get angry and say that she'll leak what you sent unless you send the nudes she wants. If you further refuse, she'll threaten to leak them unless you pay her. At this stage, I blocked her snap and Instagram and nothing came of it.

I'm 100 percent certain what happened to you was a scam. The fake profile probably spoke terrible English (assuming you live in an English speaking country) and sent a lot of angry emojis when they tried to blackmail you. Try not to worry about it, if you block their profiles, they have no way of leaking it to people you know. Like I said, nothing has come of mine.

Make sure you stay safe online and avoid sending nudes to anyone. If you need to talk more, drop me a line, because I know how it feels.

sanem48 · 2022-08-21T10:22:50+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it, it's a classic scam, they're just bluffing (probably a group of men in Africa or India).

Facebook would instantly take it down and report "her" to the FBI.

Kumquat_conniption · 2022-08-21T10:32:15+00:00

Nothing will happen if you do nothing. It's a scam. And probably wasn't a woman.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-08-21T08:48:33+00:00

Mate you need to tell your parents. I think you are in SA. If you can’t trust your parents or need someone to help, I’m in SA. Feel free to inbox me anytime and I will help you resolve the issue.

Izalias · 2022-08-21T10:25:16+00:00

You're underage, which means the law treats you as not having metal capacity... so... just go to the police and watch the hammer come down, just asking for the nudes is an offense. Sheesh.

If you had any idea the sort of power you have over this person now you KNOW they have your nudes, you have literally no idea.

The police will use their powers to scrape their phone, who it is registered to, where it was located, and the owner, knock on their door, nick them, confiscate their tech, scan it... then release them on bail if their day of questioning yields no results. Their life will be in shambles within a day, and if they actually have the nude on the device whilst they are in custody, it is straight to jail, and not the nice jail... they might actually get stabbed to death in jail for blackmailing a minor with CP.

It might be somebody who says, just a prank bro... let me tell you... the crime of possessing CP, has no mens-rea, there is no "just a prank" you're guilty if you have it, end of story.

Like... you have no idea how fucked they are. Go to the cops.

International_Risk82 · 2022-08-21T10:26:33+00:00

She's the adult in possession of child porn, she's the one in trouble not you. Just bear the consequences and tell your parents, better to get yelled at for a couple of days at most than to suffer blackmail for years.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-08-21T10:28:08+00:00

If you have proof of those interaction (you likely do, right?) go to the police youreslf.

jacktibs31 · 2022-08-21T11:30:37+00:00

They’re almost always bluffs, if you send money they’ll keep asking for more and more. Best thing you can do is report to cops but don’t send money under any circumstances

Effective-Help-7353 · 2022-08-21T12:45:41+00:00

If I were you, I wouldn't tell my parents or do anything really. It's probably actually an Indian or Nigerian scammer using a fake profile of a woman. Embarrassingly enough, I was in a similar situation when I was about your age. I just ignored their messages and they didn't do a damn thing

StripedFalafel · 2022-08-21T09:53:32+00:00

You aren't alone. This has been happening a lot lately - USA, Canada & Australia to my knowledge.

Don't panic, you'll get through this. Here's some sensible advice offerred to Australians in this circumstance: http://www.thinkuknow.org.au/sites/default/files/2022-06/Online%20blackmail%20and%20sexual%20extortion%20response%20kit.pdf

For better advice it would help if you could say which country you are in.

ld2gj · 2022-08-21T10:56:44+00:00

Over all; you need to report her.

1) Let her know you are going to the cops. Highly encourage you have one to all parents present.

2) No matter what she says, stop talking to her once your inform her you are going to the cops.

3) If she does post them, you will have to be prepared for that; but doubt she will as that will only make her charges worse.

PandaFoo1 · 2022-08-21T11:26:44+00:00

Yeah get authorities involved. The blackmailer solicited CP.

Cassandra_Moon · 2022-08-21T11:32:08+00:00

This is your chance to be brave.

thesilentkill93 · 2022-08-21T11:51:17+00:00

This happens to everyone. Don't give her any money. She'll do it anyway

KidRetro_95 · 2022-08-21T12:00:35+00:00

Bro, don't even sweat it. You're a minor, just do what woman love doing and say you were groomed/emotionally manipulated. You're a hormonal teenager and she can go to jail for it if she's over 18. Just tell the cops and show them the messages she's sent you. That'll be the end of it.

bluehorserunning · 2022-08-21T12:21:42+00:00

'She' is already guilty of having child pornography for having your nudes. If she posts them, she'll be guilty of sharing child pornography and possibly of revenge porn as well. YOU are guilty of nothing. Talk to the police and get this disgusting low-life thrown in jail.

treeerty · 2022-08-21T12:24:03+00:00

Police please. This might be a trauma for you later if you don’t involve police and get it dealt with. I hope your parents are understanding, my mom created an environment of trust. I hope you have the same, If* not I am here to chat if you need.

spartan3159012 · 2022-08-21T12:36:23+00:00

If it was me, i'd just say do it. The off chance she was serious and actually did it, not only would she be in possession of CP, but she'd also get something for distribution of CP as well

vhisic · 2022-08-21T12:53:51+00:00

they have more to lose by distributing child porn than you do as a horny 15 year old, dont even sweat on it.

KellySummerlin · 2022-08-21T13:00:15+00:00

Facebook terms of service don’t allow the posting of nudes

AldrichIsDaddy · 2022-08-21T13:14:03+00:00

Just ignore it, they won’t do anything. Block and forget about it. And fyi it’s probably not a female.

JP_Reeses_Pieces · 2022-08-21T13:15:19+00:00

So I think I was in the same situation about 1 year ago; one thing I did was just report that account. See what Facebook does, and even text their customer support for further assistance. Get everyone involved; don’t block the woman tho. Make sure Facebook bans her account for good, and then u can go block her to try to limit the damage control she already has over you.

Yeah man, those Facebook women are really fucking creepy. All of them are catfishes and they do the same shit; groom you and flirt with you and they want a pic of you naked lol. It’s all the same shit; I’m thinking this is like an enterprise or something. Good luck, OP, and hope you get that resolved.

TAPriceCTR · 2022-08-21T10:29:19+00:00

you screwed up big time... but giving into her will only give her more power over you. accept that you're in trouble and report her to the police to take her power over you away. you might face legal punishment, but she will face more, and if you don't it'll only become worse.

pomegranate2012 · 2022-08-21T08:52:45+00:00

Don't have nudes that show your face.
Don't send nudes to men in Asia.

Considering you have already done both of those things you just have to let this guy do whatever he's going to do.

DREAMY-KNIGHT · 2022-08-21T11:47:12+00:00

Ask her to post them, she probably won't, even if she does, book her for pedophillia and also, considering your face probably isnt visible in the picture you should be just fine

ReasonVision · 2022-08-21T13:32:38+00:00

How was this determined to be a false accusation?

Title	Been blackmailed
Author	RidingWithJack
Upvotes	91
Comments	83
Date	August 21, 2022 8:11 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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