Genuinely curious. She has a new phone and didn’t even give me the new number because she wants nothing to do with me after having used my money to go out of state and cheat on me. She knows I know.

After her cheating incident, I didn’t hear ONE word from her in about 2 weeks. I had texted her while she cheated all the details about what she was doing and that I knew everything.

Well a few days ago, I get a call from her old number (still doesn’t give me her new one). Here is how it goes:

Her: Why did you text me all of that crazy stuff?

Me: What crazy stuff? From 2 weeks ago? What part of it was crazy?

2.

Her: I put you on child support today. I filed.

Me: That’s totally fine. I’ll pay it. But I recall in July by yourself you said you would never put me on that. Did you change your mind?

Her: I don’t remember that. Well do you at least have money for yourself?

Me: Around $50 but I’m waiting on a new job.

3.

Her: Well I called to say that he (our son) is misbehaving. Tell him something. If he keeps it up I’m going to put him in Catholic school with nuns.

Her and I: Chuckle.

Me: Well maybe he is bored. Take him outside maybe? Or to the park?

Her: Yeah I should do that.

Me to my son: Remember how you were acting with your teacher? So nice? You should be like that with your mom too.

Her: You met his teacher? Isn’t she like 20?

Me: Yeah I met her. Nah she’s in her 50’s.

4.

Her: Okay we will call you later.

Me: Alright.

Well shortly after this, shit hits the fan. My son calls back and I answer. He starts ranting about how his mom is on the phone with all these guys and can’t stand it. I told him to enjoy his time and focus on playing his games. His grandma hears us talking (less than a minute) and starts screaming: “That’s manipulation! That’s manipulation!”

I tell her why, because I told him to focus on enjoying his time and playing his games?

She proceeds to start yelling and rips the phone out of my sons hands and make him cry. She hates the fact that he wants anything to do with me. It sounded loud and scary so I did something I’ve never done in my life: I called the police for a wellness check.

Well my wife and MIL were pissed. She called me 3x asking why I did that and I never answered back because I thought it was obvious.

Anyways, a semi cordial conversation went to hell pretty quick.

But my question is, why in the world, this woman who wants nothing to do with me, asked me for a divorce, used my money I sent her to fly out of state and cheat on me, and who is pining over said random guy over social media talking about “twin flames” calling me out of the blue after her cheating escapade with the above conversation? I’m sure my son has misbehaved more than that since the last 2 weeks she was gone to cheat and since the last 2.5 months since she removed him from the marital home and stopped me from seeing him.

What was the point of her calling? I cannot seem to get it out of my head. Was she checking up on me? Was she wondering why I disappeared essentially? My begging and pleading stopped.

My last message to her after telling her all of her cheating details via text was: “I’ll get a divorce! I won’t take back a cheater who went with a random dude. Throwing away 8 years for nothing.”

Her response 2 weeks later before calling me: “Nobody is with nobody. I escaped your narcissist abuse. Please don’t harass me!”

Trying to understand this woman’s mind. I cannot for the life of me understand why she wanted to call suddenly after so much no contact and blatant disregard for our marriage.