A five foot nine man who is thin but not muscular, so a bit soft, with kind but undefined facial features, is literally ground zero, physically, for a man when it comes to physical attraction.

It's where zero starts. There is NOTHING about him that's actively arousing. Hebis just NOT repulsive. Great, he's not too short, he's not bald, he's not fat, he's not ugly. Not being those things isn't enough to be actively attractive though.

Defined musularity - as in visible abs, shoulders that pop a little, a V shape torso, etc. This is where a mans body becomes ACTIVELY arousing. These are qualities that are starting to poke above average (though young women are exposed to men like this and better every HOUR of their life if they are active on social media and dating apps, they have ongoing conversations with these men on a day to day basis, so arguably it's the NEW floor)

Defined features, strong jaw, low far face eyes with some sort of masculine energy to them, etc, this is where a mans face starts to invoke something more than total neautrality.

6 foot is where a guy may be slightly above average for YOUNG men (who are taller than your standard "5 foot " is the average height man" speil you hear around here, dating age men are mostly taller than universal average which is what matters) This is what's attractive, the stand out quality, he's taller than OTHER men, not just her.

This is where a lot of frustration and confusion comes from. An "average" guy may think "hey, im thin, not ugly, and not even what you'd consider short....yet I can't get any matches or a second date"

It's because to be physically attractive, you HAVE to be better than what most men are in some way shape or form