My Dad started watching redpill content

Want_to_do_right · 2022-12-05T00:05:24+00:00

Lot of people here saying move out and let mom deal with it. I agree 70%. But you're still his daughter and this is affecting your relationship with him. Consider approaching it from that angle. Consider telling him that you don't like that and it hurts you. Or something similar to that.

LightOverWater · 2022-12-04T22:47:29+00:00

This has more to do with your dad's underlying issues and not with The Red Pill or Kevin Samuels.

As an analogy, maybe someone has an underlying issue with anxiety or an irrational fear/phobia and going to a boxing match triggers their underlying issue. Is boxing the problem?

Nowhere in TRP or from KS does it say, "act like an asshole and make women hate you." It's more like, "improve yourself, focus on your mission, be confident, charismatic, and a leader."

mixed with drinking and a high adderall dosage.

say things to my mom such as fucking bitch and cunt

Let's just say I have a hunch this isn't the first time this has happened in their marriage.

sunglasses90 · 2022-12-04T21:58:10+00:00

Time to get roommates and move out. This is mom’s issue to handle. She’s a grown woman. She can handle it. She also knows your dad on a deep level.

hannita · 2022-12-05T01:13:14+00:00

if he called kevin samuels himself , kevin would not have nice things to say to him. For some reason lot of men like to cherrypick this content, and only watch when they talk specifically to women but ignore the hard advice he gives to men.

Also the women that would go on the show, were specific looking for men with 6 figure salaries and wanting to be stay at home moms and he would ask them what did they bring? and then women would get mad. Does your mom sound like any of that? chances are she's not because they're married. For some reason I see men that don't fit the blueprint themselves, pick on good women in their lives that are nothing like the women these men are talking about. He sounds like he has other issues and is just using this as an excuse to act out. I'm sorry you and your mom are going through this because I know it can't be easy.

Kevin was hard on men who called in and was constantly telling them to get their act together.

cohost3 · 2022-12-04T23:34:57+00:00

Sounds like it’s time to move out. I understand feeling hurt for your parents, but it’s none of your business. It can be hard to watch people make mistakes in their relationship, but they have the right to make those mistakes for themselves.Moving out will take you out of the drama.

You’re dad will figure it out eventually. My guess is you reprimanding him will only make it worse for eveyone.

AutoModerator · 2022-12-04T21:20:30+00:00

Title: My Dad started watching redpill content

Full text: My Dad (55m) started to watch Kevin Samuels and I don’t know what to do. He is already married to my mom (57F)and he has now been calling her every name in the book everytime they argue. It has become a hell on earth because this content is also being mixed with drinking and a high adderall dosage. I (19F) don’t know what to do in this situation since it has been causing me more depression. Hearing him say things to my mom such as fucking bitch and cunt really makes me resent him.

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TheBunk_TB · 2022-12-05T12:21:32+00:00

"Hearing him say things to my mom such as ... cunt"

He isn't learning it from Kevin Samuels, he is just doing that on his own.

He also is bent from drinking and adderall, which sounds like liver destroying power.

No man of normal function would use the "C-roshima" and not run, then never come back.

He isn't getting anything out of it, or at least anything worthwhile. (I quit watching that stuff after I started feeling worse).

henrycatalina · 2022-12-05T01:13:09+00:00

Fire Kevin Samuels and hire John Gottman. Your dad might be trying to solve real problems but got the instructions from the wrong source.

Seriously, give him "why marriages succeed or fail". Not really your job but maybe Mom can give it to him?

Name-calling by either spouse is death to a marriage. I'll suspect there are problems like everyone has, but yelling and calling names is only making things worse. Mostly, my wife is the name caller (looser, delusional, whimp, failure, pathetic...). I said bitch once and she stated how much that hurt. That was 30 years ago and never said it again.

Kevin Samuels did not seem to use abusive language. He was more focused on making sport of women having such high standards for men that were not likely to be met.

thepretendchristian · 2022-12-05T10:45:23+00:00

I’ve watched a lot of KS stuff and never once heard him call women bitches or cunts. I think your dad and mom are going through something entirely different than just him watching KS and something very deep rooted.

You really can’t do much. All you can do is say your piece and leave. Tell your dad you don’t appreciate him speaking like that to your mom, ask him how he would feel if a man spoke to you that way, and then separate yourself from the situation.

breemakin · 2022-12-04T23:28:08+00:00

He's a grown man let him do what he wants

pearlsandstilettos · 2022-12-05T12:47:28+00:00

OP this is off topic and has been removed. We do not give advice on behalf of others. Your parents aren't here and there is little we can do third hand. Good luck. This isn't your battle to fight.

Adventurous-Worker64 · 2022-12-05T13:33:39+00:00

A man that's happy with his wife and family life doesn't embrace the red pill, perhaps finding out why he went this way would give you perspective. Redpill is not going away so you might as well learn to deal with it

Title	My Dad started watching redpill content
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Comments	25
Date	December 4, 2022 9:20 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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