Yet when I say I want a skinny women you assume that I'm some sort of neckbeard loser who treats woman like a doormat don't you?

HaveAGr8D4y · 2020-04-15T16:59:09+00:00

If you are a fat neck beard and say you want a 9/10 woman size 0 and in shape, then you are crazy and unrealistic.

If you are fit and in shape, and you want the same, then that is realistic.

Why do low-status fat women try to make a narrative that they are ‘high status sexy women’?

Simple, they want high status men.

If they went after low-status fat men, just like themselves, there wouldn’t be a female centric fat acceptance movement.

Lethn · 2020-04-15T17:03:45+00:00

I absolutely fucking love that title the FDS idiot wrote, you can tell they're pissed off with her for breaking away from the anti-male mob and refusing to go along with that bullshit.

So to be serious for women that happen across this, FDS is completely misrepresenting what men are doing when they're talking about women. They're not talking about them as if 'these are our demands' it's purely about preferences. I like boobs, that doesn't mean I'm going to automatically dismiss a girl who doesn't have D's or bigger. This is where the feminists in particular fuck themselves when it comes to dating and a lot of women actually it's like "Oh, I only want men above this certain height" and I'm just laughing at them because they've annihilated a huge chunk of their dating pool already.

C0II1n · 2020-04-15T17:00:05+00:00

We all like what we like. People need to get a damn grip!

spygrufunkopop · 2020-04-15T22:10:14+00:00

holy shit, the comments gave me a brain tumor

Deathless-Bearer · 2020-04-15T21:13:56+00:00

In reference to the FDS title, what does “hope she gets picked” mean?

rohrballs · 2020-04-15T21:08:13+00:00

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2020-04-15T22:23:09+00:00

And they wonder why men don’t want to share their insecurities or personal experiences 🤦‍♀️

Laudunix · 2020-04-15T22:52:54+00:00

I'm banned on their subreddit and I've never even heard of it

crightwing · 2020-04-15T17:44:41+00:00

I think finding skinny girls more attractive is also so much more then physical attraction too. It shows they care about their health and body. They are able to diet or work out shows they follow through on goals. There is a mindset/confidence/responsibility part to it that speaks about their character and qualities you might be looking for. Yes I’m generalizing and not everyone and situation is that cut and dry but you get the point.

love_ebato · 2020-04-15T20:54:16+00:00

"Well, are you?"

"Shut up, you. That's besides the point."

ShayJayLee · 2020-04-16T00:14:21+00:00

That whole subreddit is gross

TheodosiaBurrGoodman · 2020-04-15T16:19:38+00:00

Super true. Both partners should help the other to keep being fit and we all have our taste, why a man should desire every single woman on Earth as we don't desire every single man on Earth. Also normal weight men dating obese women have a deadly fetish they're not accepting. It's like dating a heavy anorexic girl.

HNutz · 2020-04-15T22:00:19+00:00

She's right

AdamChap · 2020-04-15T19:00:53+00:00

FDS women are all 30 something professional women who are looking for a Chad, yet are unhappy that the top 20% of men they are interested in can get any woman, and would rather a fun, young 20 something than some frumpy, depressed drone.

Men want less from women than women want from men. That can be seen whether in law (where women's crimes are overlooked), behavior (where men feel less disgust), finance (where all these women want a partner who earns more) and sexuality (where men and women rate women as more attractive than men).

DocHoliday96 · 2020-04-15T22:25:46+00:00

The responses in that sub completely discarding the point or finding a way to blame men for this legit disappoints me.

Opiumbrella33 · 2020-04-15T23:43:11+00:00

It's something we all do. Sadly it seems that it is more acceptable for a woman to do it to a man, than the other way around. A man does it and he is a "sexist pig". A woman does it and she just has "standards". When nobody should be shaming people for things they have no control over.

ninjabunny1990 · 2020-04-16T00:54:25+00:00

There's nothing wrong with having a preference. My husband liked me more with the baby weight I gained in my ass and hips, and as I'm currently pregnant with baby 2, my double Ds are currently double E cups. But I want to get back in shape post partum, as having a little extra weight and lack of exercise will make me more likely for post partum depression, and I miss my regimen already. Everybody has a type, and when people get picky, they don't have many options. Don't limit yourselves, as I was totally out of the ordinary 'type' for my husband, and we just clicked, and genuinely love each others company. I might not ever get back to my modeling Physique, but my man likes that I got more ass than before

peterman86 · 2020-04-15T22:40:42+00:00

The same women who complain about our physical preferences, are doing so in the comforts of their own homes, alone.

Zeno1441 · 2020-04-15T23:22:22+00:00

Can the mods please block all content from that fucking sub?

h2kk · 2020-04-16T00:16:00+00:00

My husband and I gained about 45 pounds each right before our wedding. Now, in 2020, ice lost that much and then some. I can understand the distaste when it comes to an overweight partner. We went on our honeymoon, to Maui, Hawaii with those 45 extra pounds. I was nauseous, irritated, unwilling to try new things, etc. It's not a good look..or life. So when men say they want a size 0, women want it too. No one wants a lazy, nauseous, fat,slob who doesn't want to explore. It changes things. It changes your mood, outlook, and overall view of each other..even when that may not be your true personality. Being fit..not necessarily thin.. is a huge deal, and something every partner should look for in a match. It's truly life changing!!

chambertlo · 2020-04-15T20:44:30+00:00

It’s crazy, isn’t it? A woman can judge a man based on things entirely outside of his control, but mention one thing a woman can change (her weight, her stank attitude, her use of too much make-up) and she is reduced to a puddle of useless garbage. They are so fragile and weak.

Men, stop letting women do this to you.

wattpuppy · 2020-04-15T23:40:05+00:00

I’d date her

benderXX · 2020-04-15T23:53:40+00:00

Here is a thought. Sex between the sexes has no bearing on our legal or health rights. Social identity of gender belongs to the people who use it to their satisfaction.

lenard-laurencin · 2020-04-16T00:23:28+00:00

That sub definitely has some sexism going on me are literally banned immediately in no subs about men are women banned instantly

LeesephZaramorgan · 2020-04-16T01:06:43+00:00

As a large man, I tend to go after bigger women. Why? Because I have a better chance at success. Also I prefer it because they are more like me. I know what I am, and I know what’s realistic.

Avram42 · 2020-04-15T22:54:14+00:00

I don't think I've ever asked for such... at this point I've dated women that ranged probably 80 lbs of each other (mind you height was a large determinate). I find plenty of things more "offensive" but I'm a homebody and therefore understand some of said "flaws"... however my wife is trans and therefore I get free points on the acceptance scale.

Geeekus · 2020-04-16T00:43:37+00:00

lmao I like how they created a tag for when they deem someone not a real women, not a real feminist, because they don't support them. "Pick me culture" wtf

Valorandgiggles · 2020-04-16T01:59:56+00:00

There's a comment somewhere down in those dumps that says: "She'll probably be the one proposing too."

Fucking lol excuse me? And what the hell is wrong with a woman proposing to her man? That comment just proved in two or three different ways how sexist they are towards men and women. Yuck.

Rock_lee_69 · 2020-04-16T02:11:13+00:00

Most comments here : logical and understandable.

Mos comments on the og post : LeTs BeRaTe ThIs WhAmEn , BeCaUsE ShE SaId SoMeThInG LoGiCaL

nubnub4455 · 2020-04-15T19:00:51+00:00

Is this....someone on r/femaledatingstrategy saying something rational for once?

2020-04-16T00:01:46+00:00

Subs like fds exist because simps bow down to mediocre pussy

KICKERMAN360 · 2020-04-15T22:32:22+00:00

My "hack" to essentially say I don't want to date overweight women is just to say I like "active" partners who live a similar lifestyle to me. I mountain bike 50 km to 100km a week. No fat-ass, male or female, will be fat for very long if they can manage that!

I feel (and am glad that) the tide seems to be turning on this "positive" fat culture. There is nothing good about being overweight. Nothing! A very small minority of the population has genuine reasons why they cannot maintain a healthy weight. The rest are simply lazy and/or have emotional problems.

What's most amazing is it is entirely possible, as well, to lose substantial amounts of weight by not even exercising. So perhaps those people aren't so much lazy as they are fucking stupid.

Mudkip330 · 2020-04-15T23:45:00+00:00

Jesus the comments on that post is so delusional...

VideoGamesAreDumb · 2020-04-16T00:08:20+00:00

Well she dates Superman sooo...

meatballs2117 · 2020-04-16T01:26:20+00:00

The comment section on the OP is full of gold.

Greg_W_Allan · 2020-04-16T01:46:19+00:00

It may come as a surprise to many people but boys and men DO have a right to consent.

2020-04-16T02:44:57+00:00

Looks like another sexist subreddit. A lot of the comments are really negative towards men and how they perceive themselves. Ouch

ThinkerBunny · 2020-04-16T02:51:12+00:00

FDS poster is just pissed this tweet hit them with their own kryptonite...accountability.

2020-04-16T04:41:07+00:00

What a refreshing viewpoint from a member of the opposite sex. Bravo.

dracoofsodom · 2020-04-16T08:43:18+00:00

"Pinkpill" or radical feminists are even bigger misogynists, notice how they completely hate women who don't agree with their ideology and absolutely vilify such women as ''pickmes''. I have never heard of a single man using the term ''pickme''. They hate ''libfem''/''pickme'' women more than men can ever hate them and that is honestly saying a lot. Even feminists hate other women lol

Ogreblack · 2020-04-16T09:38:06+00:00

It’s crazy they call girls “pick me types” just for voicing reason. This has got to be the equivalent of calling a man a pussy or a simp for not being abusive to his girl.

2020-04-16T10:38:11+00:00

You know it's a female subreddit when the comment section of every post is three bibles and two qurans long

AkashUK · 2020-04-16T19:27:28+00:00

"Fat is beautiful" - No one

MrHupfDohle · 2020-04-15T20:23:37+00:00

Nice, a nice woman with logical thoughts!

sp3ci4lk · 2020-04-15T19:30:35+00:00

Do us men a favor and learn the difference between "woman" and "women." Thanks.

Folamh3 · 2020-04-16T04:33:26+00:00

Opus-The-Dog · 2020-04-16T06:13:09+00:00

Bro it’s such a cesspool circle jerk in there about how height is so important...

2020-04-16T06:56:50+00:00

the sexual revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race

citemebitch · 2020-04-16T08:28:00+00:00

Good lord I browsed that subreddit for five minutes and was amazed.

It's so shallow and borderline psycho.

iamjesus1991 · 2020-04-16T08:40:35+00:00

GUYS, I fucked up.

As a pretty fit lad who enjoys being active and going on adventures. I lowered my standards and dated a fat girl.

We dated far longer than I expected. But truth me told, it just didn't work.

A lot of women on FDS don't get it. But why would a fit, active guy (Even if he was short, ugly, small-dicked) date a fat woman long term?

It's not about preference. It's about living your life to the fullest. You just can't do that with someone fat and lazy.

Ogreblack · 2020-04-16T09:36:13+00:00

Wow those chicks on female dating strategy are fucking head cases. Just read some of their comments

277103 · 2020-04-16T02:20:06+00:00

What's the relation to men's rights here? This reeks of an incel's grievance.

cucker_spaniel-cuck · 2020-04-16T00:32:18+00:00

Whole victim sub reddit lmao

Yet when I say I want a skinny women you assume that I'm some sort of neckbeard loser who treats woman like a doormat don't you?

Crosspost "Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets picked" from /r/FemaleDatingStrategy:

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Title	Yet when I say I want a skinny women you assume that I'm some sort of neckbeard loser who treats woman like a doormat don't you?
Author	Floater88
Upvotes	2895
Comments	144
Date	April 15, 2020 3:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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