On an AskMen post asking about first time seeing breasts. Link to the reply in the picture will be in comments.

RacelessSexlessName · 2019-09-02T05:18:18+00:00

Anything to excuse female pedophiles and rapists. Anything.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2019-09-02T12:44:59+00:00

If breasts aren't sexual then groping a woman's tits can't be sexual assault.

Nolafaranono · 2019-09-02T05:01:26+00:00

echinguun · 2019-09-02T08:37:59+00:00

A more similar scenario would be if a male babysitter took off his shirt and asked a little kid if they wanted to touch it

Lol. Pretty much no one will bat an eye if a woman touched a man's chest, but people will lose their mind if the opposite happened and call it sexual harassment, if not rape (it is not).

But if it is to defend a female sex offender, breasts are suddenly just another body part like a stomach.

DanteLivra · 2019-09-02T09:06:52+00:00

Why is it always excusable when a women do something horrible ?

RedOrbPikachu · 2019-09-02T12:57:48+00:00

Feminist are kinda back and forth in “boobs are sexual” and “boobs aren’t sexual”

PM_ME_UR_ZITS_GURL · 2019-09-02T13:22:51+00:00

“A more similar scenario would be if a man took off his shirt and asked a 6 year old to feel his chest.”

HAHAHA and this fucking sicko thinks that’s actually better and that he made a good point!

If a man takes his shirt off in front of a 6 year old girl and asks her if she wants to feel his chest, HE IS A FUCKING PEDOPHILE YOU SICK FUCK.

pteawesome1 · 2019-09-02T12:52:15+00:00

The amount of people trying to excuse female pedophiles....

Gaki-San · 2019-09-02T13:53:31+00:00

And, once again, the double standard on responsibility and agency.

Men have an intrinsic locus of control. THEY control their decisions. THEY control their actions. THEY are responsible for the outcome.

Women have an extrinsic locus of control. They are the unwitting pawns of outside forces, just leaves on the wind, and are not responsible for the outcome.

It's quite honestly ridiculous how much this double standard comes into play in our modern world. Chivalry and gallantry can quite honestly go fuck itself, because it so successfully sold the notion of women as delicate flowers that need to be protected that it's still sunk in, 600 years later.

LegendarySouthPaw · 2019-09-02T09:35:38+00:00

This whack job defending her actions is the problem. Gross.

MBV-09-C · 2019-09-02T11:36:53+00:00

Honestly, unless you’re using them for breastfeeding, I have to agree that showing your breasts could only be a sexual action. But let’s be clear, if you’re attempting to breastfeed a 6-year old, you’re a pedophile, no excuses.

IrideTheDirt · 2019-09-02T13:50:41+00:00

As far as, forgiveness, path to rehabilitation, victims becoming victimizers, and someone not becoming a serial pedophile after impulsively acting on a teenage hormonal confused urge.... okay, I mean I’m pretty big on considering both sides to the situation, and having empathy for what lead someone down a path to make such a choice. Up to a point. And while it’s fine to discuss the grey areas and what is appropriate to respond with, how we can work as a society to rehabilitate... fine.

But try that shit for a half second if the genders were swapped and it would never fly.

The_Red_Mad · 2019-09-02T13:19:26+00:00

How does the fact she is a pedo matters? Even if she's not attracted to kids, she still touched a kid. Again, a rapist with rape fantasies and a rapist that did it for money are the same, they're both rapist. A rapist is the same as a person with rape fantasies, and if you don't act by your urges you should'nt be judged by them.

Evilcon21 · 2019-09-02T13:29:54+00:00

What scares me is the stigma. I mean some men would even say the boy is lucky or wishing they had a woman like that when they were his age. I just feel sick thinking about it

kamuiimist · 2019-09-02T07:57:41+00:00

What do u expect there lowly simpanzees/white knights

scrotumofthanos · 2019-09-02T13:31:56+00:00

Was just reading these exact comments about an hour ago, sickens me to think how the reddit hive mind normalises this kind of behaviour unless the culprit is a man.

Mackowatosc · 2019-09-02T10:36:48+00:00

Male pedo vad. Female pedo glooorious. Sigh. That user is most probably a female, or feminist.

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-09-02T17:12:59+00:00

man sexually molests a child: "Literal monster, castrate and put him in jail"

Woman sexually molests a child: "she's probably repeating her own cycle of abuse, I feel sorry for her"

TimSalzbarth · 2019-09-02T13:25:28+00:00

If a male babysitter asks an 6 yo girl to touch his breasts thats still pedo ... (because that feminist said it is not pedo)

PuddleOfMush · 2019-09-02T14:52:51+00:00

"Breasts aren't sexual"?

I once had an ex tell me that she used to put on a low cut shirt any time she had to ask guy friends for favors. She knew what she was doing, as does every woman intent on showing off their chest. She just wasn't in denial about it.

zUltimateRedditor · 2019-09-02T14:53:23+00:00

It qualifies as child abuse if the child is premature and the other party is significantly older.

You need both, and this situation definitely qualifies.

2019-09-02T17:00:55+00:00

Lol the thing he quoted was a reply he made to my comment. He’s a nut

mmonstr · 2019-09-02T21:53:10+00:00

I had a similar situation in my own childhood, but I kind of enjoyed that because it was one hell of a thrill. I guess it'd be not so for a lot of other children... Not an excuse for her, as the child seemingly didn't think it was a good idea (good call)

CrossfitSmurf · 2019-09-03T01:10:57+00:00

My babysitter did a number on 8 year old me and her 9 year old sister. One two different occasions she told a lie to my mother to get me in trouble for stuff I didn't do.

One day she made me wear her sister's bathing and suck on her nipples. She made and her sister give each other oral. Eventually she had me and her sister sucking her boyfriend and eating her.

greyslopp · 2019-09-03T02:02:02+00:00

Oh im sorry she wasnt a pedo ThE kID mUsTvE bEEn gAy

N19864 · 2019-09-04T23:35:04+00:00

It's the opposite for a man. Even if all the evidence proves he is innocent, he is still guilty in many people eyes.

skier69 · 2019-09-02T14:05:30+00:00

People just don't care when men are harassed. at my old workplace there was a guy who was constantly touching and hugging my male boss, coworker, and students despite us (and my male coworker) explicitly telling him not to multiple times. In our last week, he gave my coworker a big hug and you could clearly see he was uncomfortable and not okay with it but my female supervisor and other female coworkers just laughed.

ibz646 · 2019-09-02T14:20:35+00:00

People are really crazy man

ImNot_SmallMouse · 2019-09-02T14:54:11+00:00

That's horrible. I can't even fathom how someone could or would justify pedophiles like this, there is no excuse for what happened to those children involved.

ThreeLF · 2019-09-02T10:36:02+00:00

Technically speaking, the downvoted person is right. According to psychiatrists, not every child-molester is a paedophile. In fact, many are not. (Source: Child Molesters: A Behavioral Analysis for Professionals Investigating the Sexual Exploitation of Children)

Also, I disagree with you that breasts are inherently sexual. That's a cultural viewpoint, not a biological one. Breasts are for breast-feeding. The fact that they can also be erogenous doesn't make them sexual, because many bodyparts can be erogenous, like ears, feet, armpits, etc. You could argue that they are a gender signifier, since they are secondary sexual characteristics, but gender signifiers on their own are not sexually arousing.

And yes, breasts and penises are not equivalent. Just like the sight of female breasts can be sexually arousing to some people, so is the sight of a male chest. In many cultures, female toplessness is consider normal. Walking around with your dick out, however, is not. They are not even remotely the same thing.

Title	On an AskMen post asking about first time seeing breasts. Link to the reply in the picture will be in comments.
Author	Nolafaranono
Upvotes	1035
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Date	September 2, 2019 5:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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