As a woman I’m starting to really hate other women

SunSnows · 2022-12-16T20:00:03+00:00

Just remember that not all women are like this... Don't surround yourself in the woman that are, though.

Anonman20 · 2022-12-16T21:10:16+00:00

Based. I once got taken to HR at my company once by a woman on my team for joking with a friend of eight years about breast feeding because she is to cheap to buy formula. This other woman said I was sexually harassing my friend. But my friend said she wasn't offended at all and that I'm like a brother to her then anything.

-Parannoyed · 2022-12-16T20:25:00+00:00

I have to turn my brain off a bit around my female friends. Just... Yes yes, roe v wade oh it sure is something. Ah yes that hippy guy you like, do tell me how sweet and submissive he is.

All political talk I throw out the window with them, because I can't be sure if they'll stop hanging out with me if I reveal I'm antifeminist. Tolerance. Lol. Between men and women, women are far less tolerant of different opinions (left leaning women, I should specify haha).

ScottdaDM · 2022-12-16T19:57:07+00:00

I have heard it said that women don't have friends, they have rivals.

Any truth there?

Then there's the immortal words of Al Bundy.: Don't try to understand women, son. Women understand women and they hate each other.

As for you, in seriousness....maybe you aren't hanging with the right folks when it comes to women.

homerteedo · 2022-12-17T01:23:29+00:00

Of course women are all different, just like men. Someone’s gender doesn’t impact whether I get along with them.

But I’ve definitely found women who are “proud feminists” to be insufferable to hang around. Find something to complain about besides the patriarchy, please.

Mycroft033 · 2022-12-17T00:23:50+00:00

What you’ve experienced is the reality. That the biggest enemy of a woman is another woman. I’ve seen this happen to and the worst part is if you don’t play along with the only other girl in the party chat once you leave the party they passive aggressively try to get the entire party chat against you. Once that type of chick you speak up joins in they automatically start playing tug of war for attention. Super flirty with every one making comments to tease the guys in the chat so they respond in a flirtatious manner.

As for female bosses. I couldn’t agree more. Female bosses always resort to making things a power trip. They will favor the men that are kind to them over other females. If you question them about a task they take it as you’re judging them as not being fit as leaders. They take things to the extreme in their own head. Reality is they’re insecure about being in a management position and look to deflect responsibility to others. That’s not a gender exclusive thing but a leadership thing. However, I do see it more with women.

The truth is a lot of chicks have normalized this behavior. Everything that’s not agreeing with them is you challenging them. The behavior that a girl around other girls only one can have the spotlight. I personally can’t stand it either. Most guys are actually annoyed by girls who can’t just be laid back and can’t stfu because they feel the need to flirt with every one. I wish most men could just be more honest without being bashed. It’s a reason why most guys don’t speak out. I personally speak out. Have told chicks that flirting with multiple guys in a party chat makes them look trashy to the entire party chat.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-12-16T21:26:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing.
Id like to point out that imo they reason why there are so many dudes inexperienced with women is for the most part because of this women group behaviour of over exaggerating male creepyness that you are talking about.
Think about it, how are men supposed to get this ''experience'' under this agressive enviroment where if we make the slightess wrong move, if we breath the wrong way, we will be punished and our reputation stained, we cant even openly admit our inexperience and ask for help because doing that on itself makes us more creepy and lsoe the status we need to get accesss to that experience in the first place if that makes sense.
The mayor source of male inexperience by far imo is this agressive enviroment where ''practicing'' is stressfull to the point that many men decide to not even bother trying, where only the alpha top % of dudes who instead get approched by the women get to gain this experience since they get exempted from being creepy because they are hot.

traveller1976 · 2022-12-17T04:39:51+00:00

It's really sad that you feel alone with your own gender.

Makaveli961 · 2022-12-16T20:46:13+00:00

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Ogreblack · 2022-12-16T22:18:18+00:00

That behavior is widespread but just like all things, there are exceptions out there and girls like you that are kind of in that gray area. Don’t give up on girl friends but don’t take their shit either. That pecking order crap is so common nowadays. A group of women can be dead wrong about something and make you into that bad guy somehow by proving they’re incorrect or misinformed.

It’s a no-win scenario

Drakethepirate · 2022-12-16T23:16:38+00:00

I can see myself through your experience with modern women. I got kicked out from one guild in a mmo because I complained about how the female officer was treating me like a pile of garbage and she felt entitled to treat men like total crap. Some bitchy bossy women are really awful and they are so power hungry that they abuse their power to feel big. I usually feel more comfortable socializing with other men because they are more chill and not boring. The current false allegations of women are really out of hand today and the man-haters are making more men scared to interact with women and guess who this toxic behavior is going to damage? The good girls who just want to have a normal life and those who are looking for a good man.

MGTOW_Theory · 2022-12-17T18:32:56+00:00

Its not feminism. Its called intersexual competition and female in group bias. Read books on evolutionary psychology. May also look evolutionary biology if interested.

SegaNaLeqa · 2022-12-16T23:38:55+00:00

Girl, you completely read my mind! You definitely aren’t alone in feeling this way. As a female gamer, I also find it hard to play with other females because they tend to either flirt with the guys distracting us from the game, or if it’s all girls they get hella toxic and make misandrist comments. As for the boss thing, my first time truly experiencing sexism was a female boss telling me I couldn’t even apply for this labourer job because “it’s not the kind of job for a lady”, even though I’ve worked in labourer jobs throughout my whole life. We need to remember though, it’s not all women that are like this. Even if it’s the majority of women we come across, it’s not our entire gender to blame there’s good and bad in every group.

onesmoothbanana · 2022-12-16T20:46:16+00:00

I really think you're surrounding yourself with the wrong women. Tons of assholes exist everywhere, you just have to find good people.

I could be misinterpreting but it sounds like you might be very young, which makes it a lot harder to find good, open minded people. I used to think like this when I was younger and unfortunately deprived myself of making friends with wonderful people. While I mostly have male friends now, due to my interests and career field, I have some really dope female friends too.

I promise you there are amazing women out there.

Conscious-Charity915 · 2022-12-16T22:58:25+00:00

Choir, meet preacher.

Awkward_Buddy7350 · 2022-12-16T23:35:52+00:00

In my experience, most women won't even try to understand their kind and think better of themselves.

BloomerBlorbZ · 2022-12-17T10:22:12+00:00

As woman who also gets unwanted inappropriate cat-calling by creepy 30 yr old pedos working as garbage men while I was high schooler back then, it gives me an unwanted flashbacks vibes that makes me cringe. On top of that, I understand your inner frustrations and getting annoyed by those Pick Me Girls Chameleons harassing you and those other guys online. But I have few theories that one part you said that this psycho 304 falsely accusing against you saying that you "just stealing" her ex-boyfriend:

1) She just broke up with him after she cheating on him and goes after Chad/Tyrone with her body count.

2) He probably broke up with her because of her toxic attitude and behavior mistreats everyone, including her ex.

OR

3) She pretends that this guy was her "ex-boyfriend" that she had "crushed" with because she negatively assume that you're either "falling in love" with him or you just "steal" from her.

Sorry that you had go through negative toxic personal experiences with those deranged maniacs OP. Don't let these "gamer girls" interrupted and ruined people's fun while playing with your online friends, and don't forget that even girls can illegally doxxing against you and I don't want you get arrested by those female trolls. Be safe OP ✌️💛

Salva133 · 2022-12-17T00:07:44+00:00

Great, you are beginning to understand your own gender👍🏼

deadgamer10 · 2022-12-17T02:00:50+00:00

W queen

incarnate1 · 2022-12-17T01:40:46+00:00

It feels like it's mostly a western culture thing. Other parts of the world have a long way to go to catch up to the delusions of some Western women.

Facts and reality slowly become irrelevant in a culture that focuses primarily on feelings and coddling their youth.

Regular_Principle_66 · 2022-12-17T05:57:30+00:00

if i had a nickel for everytime a girl joined our tabletop simulator lobby and started loudly moaning into the microphone I'd have two nickels

which isn't a lot but it's weird it happened twice

DarkEnergy67 · 2022-12-17T07:09:24+00:00

The last bit of OPs post is sad, true and real. Many men are simply choosing to avoid women socially or not have them as friends. The reality for men is that they have to be constantly on guard and self censor themselves in case they accidentally offend a woman. It becomes too much hassle for many men. So when it comes to social downtime and relaxation, they choose to hang with other men. This leads to many women getting less male attention.

Of course, there are also the thirsty men who behave differently.

2022-12-17T12:21:46+00:00

LARPer

beckabunss · 2022-12-17T17:54:05+00:00

As a woman, I grew up bing told I was trash and that I wouldn’t really amount to anything, that I wasn’t allowed to drive fast cars, I wasn’t allowed to build things. A few years ago my ex acted like I couldn’t operate power tools even though I wanted to (after we broke up I taught myself- partially to spite him)

Why am I telling you this? Because this is part of my experience, I have a lot of male friends and I’ve dated a bit, and I have to say men are missing certain things in terms of how they date women, there’s so many expectations and so many times I’ve been undermined or been made to feel inadequate for no reason. Men compare women to other women a LOT. Society does too- but when someone you love does it? That’s the chef kiss of building insecurity. Notice that many of the issues you talk about towards the end are women in an environment with mostly men in it, while you might be comfortable with that some women are not.

You - have come into contact with severely insecure women- who are insecure as a result of what’s been programmed for their gender. This is what it’s all about, they are overcompensating because what else is there to do? They have to be the very overbearing boss because they feel like they need to prove something

I’ve been assaulted before and I get it, people process trauma in different ways. I was lucky in that I had a healthy relationship with sex beforehand, I never blamed ‘men’ for what happened to me- just the specific person that hurt me. Some people process trauma by taking up arms against the other gender, because they cannot separate their experiences and they feel like they need to fight something.

I hope one day you end up liking women, because it has to be lonely to hate half the population, and it’s more a reflection of your emotional state then a consensus on women in general. If you want to chat I’m here.

gamerlololdude · 2022-12-17T07:58:31+00:00

The saying stupid shit is also harmful.

But yes it is in fact this bad in a lot of parts of the world. People get sexually assaulted a lot since consent isn’t even taught. Sex Ed is shit in US.

FairRaven_101 · 2022-12-17T00:51:21+00:00

One of the very few actual good posts to come from this subreddit

gamerlololdude · 2022-12-17T08:00:35+00:00

This is all the same damn patriarchy. maybe join some advocacy groups to try to lift up women to not be bitchy like whatever is happening here.

sochan1998 · 2022-12-17T01:11:28+00:00

You are not the only female feeling the same.

I can literally swear on that

killaB310 · 2022-12-17T08:00:19+00:00

Women like the idea of “support/believe all women” but underneath the surface, many of them are catty, jealous, and highly judgmental of one another. A world ruled by women (which is what feminists actually want) would be 10x more oppressive than any nation ruled by men, past or present.

Past-Classic-7139 · 2022-12-17T08:39:52+00:00

I will marry one day but only if I find someone like you. Thanks for the facts, you are really right. I think you got the biggest problem of the modern society. I pledge my respect.

AccomplishedSail5456 · 2022-12-17T12:19:01+00:00

Women also use psychological violence more frequently which is not to underestimate. It is often more damaging in the long-term to a victim than physical violence.

Mohenjo_Elmo · 2022-12-17T15:31:40+00:00

Idk how to get a girl in this time... maybe i'm a pos and do not realize it. I would say I'm not bad looking now, have a good job and have always done everything I could for my ex-girlfriend. At least I think so. I am soon 28 and try for 2 years to find a girl. 0 chance. I just give it up, even if I can think every day of nothing but a girl who loves me, with whom I can fall asleep

aerial_coitus · 2022-12-16T21:14:23+00:00

Enough of the virtue signaling already. This is what you wanted and worked so hard for. Go enjoy it.

31spiders · 2022-12-17T00:57:21+00:00

But in the work environment women boss in my experience are always the worst. Idk if they feel like they have something to prove but they always are just super bitchy for no reason. I have gone out of my way to look for bosses who are dudes because they are typically a lot more chill.

I ran into this with women in any position of power, women cops, women judges, women HOA panel, etc etc. Feel like they need to “prove themselves” somehow that translates to “be a bitch to everyone”.

On the flip side I’m a guy who has always been “one of the girls” I used to take a bisexual female friend to the bar to act as a wing woman. I had a semi-regular girls coffee date. It was always worth seeing how the other half thinks. If you get too wasted there’s a lot less chance you’ll get into a fight. Oh sure maybe make out but not knock each other’s teeth out.

GerinX · 2022-12-17T13:39:56+00:00

I’ve going to save your post because It’s a great read into how you act and react towards other women today. Good on you for making this post.

PUMA-420 · 2022-12-17T13:31:41+00:00

This is the kind of mentality that runs in the feminist community, they generalize all men when something happens. Just know that not all women are like this and only some are.

Toanimeornot · 2022-12-17T22:58:29+00:00

When you claim to hate women who are pick mes but are a pick me yourself.

Title	As a woman I’m starting to really hate other women
Author	NotYourDrugDealerYet
Upvotes	326
Comments	97
Date	December 16, 2022 7:23 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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