From the start of uni, I have realized that most men that I found attractive/that pursued me, turned out to only be interested in a hookup.

I come from a background where this isn't a common everyday practice, and so at first, I was very shocked and surprised when they discovered this (I knew it was happening, but I wasn't aware it was so incredibly widespread).

How do I attract those that want a genuine, long-term relationship?

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Edit: thank you so much for all the feedback!:)