Hello guys. Does anyone get called an Incel for having opinions that are against modern feminism?

killcat · 2022-03-24T19:52:53+00:00

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ResistOk9351 · 2022-03-24T22:18:43+00:00

Insulting people is all they have going for them selves. Sad really.

Gawernator · 2022-03-25T03:35:01+00:00

Yes. I’ve had a girlfriend for 5 years straight at least and get called Incel occasionally in far left feminist groups lol

2022-03-24T22:37:54+00:00

It’s their go-to method of discrediting facts that disagree with their bullshit self-serving narrative. Same thing has happened with the word “racist.” The consequence is that these words lose their meaning and we get lumped in with legitimately shit people.

C20H25N3O-C21H30O2 · 2022-03-24T21:55:58+00:00

It's normal. Disregard them. They have no proper counter argument for you so they attack you in a way they think they can hurt your feelings. Just say that you just wouldn't fuck them specifically because you have higher standards.

Neppy_sama · 2022-03-25T01:10:58+00:00

Counter incel with "Guess I won, you just used the word to accept defeat" in your heart or tell that person.

DavidByron2 · 2022-03-24T19:51:09+00:00

Well about 20 years ago they called you a pedophile and more recently mostly just a "misogynist" with "rapist" thrown in sometimes and a few "you must be afraid of strong women".

sigillum_diaboli666 · 2022-03-25T04:45:25+00:00

Yes, I was suddenly banned from r/offmychest today because I have post history within a “redpill/incel” subreddit (i.e. this one apparently)

Al_Modir · 2022-03-24T20:14:52+00:00

Yep it’s literally their only comeback… soooo creative 🙄

StingRayFins · 2022-03-25T06:32:48+00:00

Yes. I'm in a ten year relationship and I still get called an incel. The term incel, as well as simp, is used for everything so people don't quite understand what it means anymore.

Both are very real and very serious issues in our society but people rather just laugh at it and use it as insults instead of being genuinely concerned.

i_am_Deucalion · 2022-03-25T09:35:45+00:00

'Incel' word as a term has lost its meaning now with how frequently it's thrown around at people who don't agree with your opinion

chiquis71 · 2022-03-24T20:29:12+00:00

I was once called an incel for telling a girl she should mark her posts NSFW in a SFW sub (it was in the rules) hahaha.

AManWithBinoculars · 2022-03-24T22:29:56+00:00

All the time

_the_redditor__ · 2022-03-25T06:57:53+00:00

I swear to god I see people calling everyone uncles for having any political opinions that don’t align with them

“Oh he doesn’t think women are oppressed? What an incel!”

“What? He thinks that there are only two genders? I smell incel!”

“Did I just hear he thinks that white supremacy doesn’t exist and other races can also be racist? INCEL!”

AndyBrown65 · 2022-03-25T03:16:45+00:00

You're an Incel.

Translation - My pussy is my only value, so getting it has to be your highest accomplishment because I am the centre of the world, and since you can't get the thing that is only really valuable to me, you don’t have value. "I will insult your sexual ability because the ability to perform sex is the only store of value I understand and/or possess"

You must HATE women!

Translation - I have no valid argument for your superior argument, so instead of playing the ball, I will play the man and divert you from the argument/discussion we are having

kaijyuu2016 · 2022-03-24T21:23:45+00:00

Bruh I get called incel for not ´liking certain videogame. Any kind of disagreement of a man and a woman ends up with the men called incel, or almost any word ending with -ist.

Utertoq · 2022-03-25T00:56:56+00:00

Yes I've been called incel for saying that teen girls getting rich with onlyfans is stupid.

xTheVyrusx · 2022-03-25T05:52:16+00:00

There are people that say it but don’t even know what it means, they just repeat the diarrhea in the comment section to watch the likes pile on their comment for a euphoric trip.

shiftyfired1056 · 2022-03-25T04:17:54+00:00

It happens all the time. Anti-feminists and MRAs are Incels, Conservatives are white supremacists, etc. The left is always doing this. They don't respond to your argument's logically so they refer to name calling, strawmans and No True Scotsmans.

Parking_Tangelo_798 · 2022-03-25T03:11:26+00:00

Your 1st point of modesty and sex after marriage only applies to you. As long as you don't start putting it on others you are not an incel.

Wylanderuk · 2022-03-25T00:28:35+00:00

Have been yeah.

Early_Roll_7928 · 2022-03-25T03:05:40+00:00

I’m a Muslim woman and have never experienced chivalry :(

And I have noticed that many Muslim men are not accepting their role as providers these days

needs_grammarly · 2022-03-25T00:51:14+00:00

lol yeah, people just through around that word to deflect any criticism of their ideas

NukaJuice · 2022-03-24T19:33:44+00:00

I don't think they're incel opinions, I just think they're opinions that are standard of someone with your background

Potato-with-guns · 2022-03-25T02:45:39+00:00

Daily, because feminists can’t stand someone who thinks independently.

NidaleesMVP · 2022-03-25T01:40:10+00:00

Yes, a lot of modern feminists use the word "incel" as a buzzword to dismiss any criticism. Nevertheless, looking at your post and some of your replies, you seem like you are seeking some sort of validation. So let's sort out a couple of facts:

1- Infant male genital mutilation (circumcision) is cruel, inhuman, and barbaric. And the fact that it's a part of a religion that you subscribe to, does not change the fact that it's still cruel, inhuman, and barbaric.

2- Islam is undoubtedly a barbaric misogynistic religion.

Proof:

Men are in charge of women by [right of] what allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, allah is ever exalted and grand. Quran 4:34

Sources:

https://al-quran.info/#4:34

https://corpus.quran.com/translation.jsp?chapter=4&verse=34

And this is just one example, there are a lot more. I hope one day you get past this brainwashing religion nonsense.

Plenty-Green186 · 2022-03-25T02:34:47+00:00

Well considering most women have to work it would not be fair to also expect them to be ‘traditional’ when they are providers in their own right.

Incel is just a slur for anti woman

Lice138 · 2022-03-25T05:48:32+00:00

Yeah, that’s pretty standard. They get really mad when you show them pictures of you having sex with attractive women

w3tpuddle · 2022-03-25T08:45:45+00:00

Modern feminism attacks and attempts to abolish our patriarchal society and its effects, which include men being expected to be providers and prejudiced family court. There's nothing wrong with your religious beliefs, but feminism in general aims to abolish all the issues you have mentioned. The main problems in modern feminism are radical feminists and TERFs. Saying you are against modern feminism, does in fact mean that you are against basic human rights, which is what feminism stands for.

LittleDragonMaiden · 2022-03-24T20:07:36+00:00

The part about marrying four wives is really cool in Islam, I like that part.

maxlvb · 2022-03-25T04:38:26+00:00

I just ask any feminist/woman/etc that calls me an incel for any reason, what's wrong with being INTENTIONALLY celibate when there's feminists/women like them around?

Male privilege is the right to tell feminists what they do not want to hear.

AkatsukiGaara · 2022-03-25T07:01:59+00:00

I mean...if we say anything against modern feminism, we get called every name in the books LOL.

stunspot · 2022-03-25T09:22:26+00:00

Everyone who disagrees with them gets called names. It's their go-to move.

throwaway22558 · 2022-03-25T09:32:08+00:00

"You're an incel.""I'm a muslim! How dare you continue the oppression of my people and culture! Not all muslim are terrorists! Bigot! Racist! Learn religious tolerance!"

/win

Just play the oppression olympics with them.

DianeticDelight · 2022-03-25T11:08:40+00:00

The further FDS/TwoX loses an argument, they’ll 10/10 times resort to fallacies in the following order:

“Who hurt you?” or similar buzzwords, devoid of all meaning.
“lol ur frequent on ____” (this is somehow an argument in their minds)
“Small dick lol” (body shaming is fine when aimed at men)
“muh soggy knees” (in response to anything that isn’t explicitly pro-women)
Finally, my personal favourite: the i-word.

Raychao · 2022-03-25T11:25:57+00:00

It's just their way of dehumanising you because they can't discredit your actual argument.. Don't stress it usually means you are on the right track..

saturdayshark · 2022-03-25T13:18:26+00:00

Yeah thats one of their favorite words when they cant defend themselves in a good argument proposed by you, same case with the word misogynistic.

Ok_Medicine_7662 · 2022-03-25T15:06:32+00:00

Yeah no matter what Lol. Funny thing is, Im into the punk rock scene a little bit and I do sexy time with a lot of the same type of girls who think they're rebels for hating masculinity.

These women that hate masculinity should, theoretically, be attracted to the incels. Incels lack most of what masculinity actually is. Thats why they can't get laid and are unwilling/unable to make themselves fucking hot.

Lift weights 3 to 4 times a week, keep your bank account balance above $10,000, and have a good time wherever you go. Thats literally all you have to do unless you are unacceptably unattractive in some other major way.

Toddelaw · 2022-03-25T16:56:49+00:00

Yes. I am quick to remind them that women live a privilege lifestyle, and living a fairytale lifestyle absent the truth easily triggers women to make such silly comments

cymrich · 2022-03-25T22:12:41+00:00

you get called an incel for having opinions they don't like period. "anyone who disagrees with me is ________! " fill in the blank with hitler/nazi/sexist/racist/incel etc

MiddleCantaloupe3326 · 2022-03-27T19:18:40+00:00

Yea , I’m Muslim too and I agree with you. Unfortunately it’s like this. We just use men and when they have opinions they just shut them up.

TitanicPat · 2022-03-28T11:25:21+00:00

Name calling a great way to change the subject.

You make a good point

You get called a name for it

You then either abandon the conversation (feminists rejoice) or allow the topic to change to defending yourself/disproving the other person's accusation (feminists rejoice, once again)

Try instead, ignoring the ad hominem attack entirely and taking the opportunity to make your point AGAIN, HARDER. You can elaborate on it or articulate it differently, or expand on it etc They have literally granted you a 'Free turn'

But always remember, against any modern grievance activist group, you will be arguing with a mentality/ideology that faces no requirement to be correct. Being consistent, having a solid argument is literally not a standard that applies to them. Feminism in particular has spent a generation losing its debates but keeping its slogans.

Fair-Lie7125 · 2022-04-08T13:27:51+00:00

As a Muslim myself, i can say your beliefs are dog shit

Title	Hello guys. Does anyone get called an Incel for having opinions that are against modern feminism?
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Date	March 24, 2022 7:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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