Don’t be me. I have to learn this the hard way it seems. Took the red pill too late and now from sex-starved marriage I’m moving to a long-distance one. She claims that it’s good for her career to go and volunteer in another country thousands of miles away for a year and that she would be fine with a long-distance marriage even if it wasn’t for 1 year, but 3 years or more. Translation into manglish: “I have no desire or respect for you, you’re boring as fuck and I want to get that dopamine from chads while you’re waiting for me like a lapdog, ready to welcome me back with open arms”. Although I’ve been working on myself for the past 2-3 months with great intensity, I don’t think that even after years of self improvement I can realistically get something better than an overweight single mom. I just cannot make that leap and go from 3-4 SMV to 7-8, I’m a short average looking guy with a small dick, it doesn’t matter how much I earn or how much status I get, or how much muscle I build, compared to chads I’ll just look like a kid in his father’s suit trying to act like a serious businessman - I just don’t look the part.