Damn it. My ex-wife went back to her baby daddy. Her kid did everything to put a wedge in between us and now her daddy lives together with them again. I am at my witts end. I also have a son with her.

xosto · 2023-08-15T20:31:44+00:00

Sorry man. One of the risks we take when we have a relationship with a woman who has a child with another man.

You've heard it before but women are like cats and they'll roam around looking for homes that put out food. They'll sniff and check out the other food and if yours is the best they will stick around.

Between women and men, We are the romantics. We believe that our love and loyalty is enough and that they should love us for who we are and not for what we do. Women are a lot more practical they may be romantic on the surface but deep down they're doing a constant value calculation. Value doesn't have to be material things we provided could just be that we emotionally connect with them in a way that's easy for them.

That's where the other men and their past comes in. Those relationships are a template of familiarity and comfort and ease for them.

If she left her baby daddy once she'll do it again. Do you want her to come back to you after she left this way?

Brother you deserve better honestly. Take this time to give yourself a break and heal your heart and your health and simplify your life and invest in yourself because I bet you have given everything to this woman and her kid and the kid that you share together and you need to be looking out for yourself for the time being.

It's a tough situation but it was meant to happen to you and what you do with it is going to make the difference

henrysmyagent · 2023-08-15T20:36:08+00:00

The best time to marry a single-mother is NEVER!

OutlawShah · 2023-08-15T21:39:33+00:00

How old is your child? It may be worth getting a DNA test. If she went back with her ex-bf it’s possible she was seeing him during your marriage.

Decorum1 · 2023-08-15T21:11:42+00:00

You have every reason to question the type of woman you attract and fall for.

BrandoBLC · 2023-08-15T21:02:43+00:00

So you had a kid with a woman who just broke up with her other baby daddy a couple months prior? Great decision. So now your sons mom has a different baby daddy for each kid. Maybe you and the other baby daddy can start a club, because I have a feeling she’s not done collecting baby daddies

G-Dub78 · 2023-08-16T17:50:39+00:00

It’s hard, but move on my friend!

Rportilla · 2023-08-17T02:31:56+00:00

Bruh not really related but i had a girlfriend that after she left me she bounced around 2-3 dudes before she found “the one” and got pregnant….at first i was hurt and even cried.Now i laugh at myself looking back 🤣 .I learned to not be surprised anymore by actions

probebeta · 2023-08-16T20:19:22+00:00

Taking an ex back who already left for another man is something I'd never do. So whoever daddy is, it can't be good news... 🤷‍♂️

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