I opted to stay in my own house and not be bullied out by my vindictive ex. After two attempts to swat me with the police, she capitulated and ended up leaving, leaving most of her stuff. Judge asked me to give her a date to come get her stuff. I told him this past Saturday was fine, I'd even stay out of her way the whole time. While she was here she cut the cord to my air conditioner and threw cayenne pepper all up in my bed and pillow case. Laid down to sleep and my face was on fire.