Wanted to encourage anyone just going through their divorce or still struggling. It gets so much better. I just spent an amazing weekend with a girl I had been chatting with for a month. She's on an extended euro trip and was out of the country so we hadn't been able to meet up. But we finally aligned this weekend and I had one of the best weekends I've had in a long time. Great food, art galleries, and some really good sex. I love how now that I am single I get to travel more, get variety, and just have so much of a better time. I am pretty much living the life I always wanted I have kids which was something important to me. I get to be single and enjoy dating, I can travel whenever I want. It just gets so much better when you finally get out of a toxic relationship. I still have some lingering issues from my divorce but I am so much happier. So if you're down now just know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.