Are men with Christian personality traits repulsive: the biblical priority on grace, humility, servant leadership, kindness, gentleness, and many other qualities

Independent-Mail-227 · 2023-10-20T23:33:47+00:00

Outside his group he will not be successful onless he's handsome, nothing dry pussy like a man with morals.

Fit_Kiwi9703 · 2023-10-21T03:17:07+00:00

If someone tells you that they're repulsed by your religion, I'd call it religious discrimination. This is different from religious disagreement. If someone holds different views, but does not attack you for having yours, it is not discrimination.

There is nothing inherently wrong with being religious. It's the people who use religious dogma to attack others who are dangerous.

upsidemaze · 2023-10-21T14:33:53+00:00

Christian men are created to serve women, they are created to raise child that are not their. Jesus was "virgin birth". They are meant to serve their wives. They are not supposed to leave their wives if they dont fuck them. They are supposed to protect and provide.

RPChristians have disability by being a christian

Failing_Lady_Wannabe · 2023-10-21T17:01:54+00:00

Many people don't understand the very basic values of Jesus. They just use their religion to judge others and to feel good about how "moral" they are. Real Christians are very rare. That's why I generally very careful with people who claim to be religious, in many cases it's literally evil hidden beneath "God told me".

toasterchild · 2023-10-20T23:14:43+00:00

I don't know that its because they are feminine as much as because they are annoying. Not only are they usually totally boring but also self-righteous and arrogant.

TransportationIcy896 · 2023-10-20T23:18:52+00:00

...no? Isn't there literally a dating site for people who value the traits you listed? Christian mingle or something like that.

Affectionate-Base645 · 2023-10-20T23:24:18+00:00

And who cares if others find his personality 'repulsive'? Would you rather be 'cool' and engage in questionable behaviors such as drinking, doing drugs, having premarital sex, watching pornography, being a glutton, etc.? It's worth noting that all these actions harm individuals' physical and emotional health, and they also have negative effects on society, being associated with car accidents, single motherhood, abortion, divorces, human trafficking, etc.

Imagine how much families and society would benefit if fathers, husbands, politicians, male teachers, etc., embodied the positive qualities you mentioned.

babazuki · 2023-10-21T00:45:23+00:00

Have you read the New Testament? It's not soft or feminine at all.

Here's Paul setting a clear hierarchy between husbands and wives

Ephesians 5

21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Here's Paul putting women in their place

1 Timothy 2

11 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

And then he just straight up calls them gossips and busybodies

1 Timothy 5

11 As for younger widows, do not put them on such a list. For when their sensual desires overcome their dedication to Christ, they want to marry. 12 Thus they bring judgment on themselves, because they have broken their first pledge. 13 Besides, they get into the habit of being idle and going about from house to house. And not only do they become idlers, but also busybodies who talk nonsense, saying things they ought not to. 14 So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander. 15 Some have in fact already turned away to follow Satan.

Jesus calls a Canaanite woman a dog in Matthew 15. Jesus tells a parable about 10 virgins and then 5 of them end up getting married to their high value groom in Matthew 25.

There are other instances calling out women as defiling towards men who are naturally more virtuous

Revelation 14

3 And they sang a new song before the throne and before the four living creatures and the elders. No one could learn the song except the 144,000 who had been redeemed from the earth. 4 These are those who did not defile themselves with women, for they remained virgins. They follow the Lamb wherever he goes. They were purchased from among mankind and offered as firstfruits to God and the Lamb. 5 No lie was found in their mouths; they are blameless.

New Testament firmly asserts men are above women just like the OT. It says they need to be led by a strong husband or they will end up lost.

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Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-10-21T06:47:12+00:00

It just makes me think he will be uptight and judgmental really. I am dating a Christian man and he is those 2 things. I still like him though, he is a lot different from the completely hedonistic types I dated in the past.

It actually is kind of jarring dating someone with a moral backbone and no longer being "the good one" anymore. He has enough edge to make up for that though, I really admire his massive gun collection and his belief in anarchism.

So you can still be Christian and live an alternative lifestyle.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-10-21T07:15:14+00:00

To non-Christian women,yes.

John 15:18-19

18 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.

coping_man · 2023-10-21T09:05:03+00:00

hes a sitting duck

LiftSushiDallas · 2023-10-21T20:59:33+00:00

Yes, absolutely repulsive to me.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2023-10-21T21:39:59+00:00

yes they're repulsive I cant imagine much being more repulsive to me

RelationshipSalty369 · 2023-10-23T14:16:53+00:00

I'm not turned off by Christian morals, I'm turned off by the horrific levels of misogyny and hypocrisy.

Ok_Cantaloupe2159 · 2023-10-25T14:40:30+00:00

The christian traits are the opposite of humility and peace and kindness. Just because this is how you see each other, it doesn’t mean that a white-centered view of the World matches with the reality.

In truth christian traits are seen as ruthless, arrogant and war-mongering. Cowards who never had the courage to fight against the oppressors (e.g. the French surrendering to Hitler), but then use all of their power against innocent civilians.

Christians are the ones who first try to exterminate the jews and then refund them with stolen Palestinian land. They are the invaders, the crusaders, the feminine castrated cowards who can’t have a fair fight but seek unfair fights against the weak.

Title	Are men with Christian personality traits repulsive: the biblical priority on grace, humility, servant leadership, kindness, gentleness, and many other qualities
Author	Gundam_net
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Comments	46
Date	October 20, 2023 8:08 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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