Men Don't Approach Because They are "Scared". They Simply Don't Think It Will Work

KeepCopingBuddy · 2023-10-25T16:19:45+00:00

If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times.

APPROACHING IS COPE

Nothing can hold back the raw, primal lust of a woman. If she's truly into you, she will move mountains to make sure you know it.

Groundbreaking-Gap20 · 2023-10-25T16:38:57+00:00

Yes, that is correct. The reason why they know it won't work is because women never give them choosing signals to begin with so they know deep down they're unattractive.. spamm approaching women is literally the most cringe worthy thing you can do if you're unattractive . Cold approaching will only work if you know you're chad level attractive.

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-10-25T17:23:49+00:00

Yep. After approaching more than 100 that gave me the slightest of signals because my friends and people on reddit told me to do so i actually looked objectively at how many are interested like they are in my chad friends. Turns out-0. None put in 10% the effort that they did with them

So why should i approach?Just to get rejected?

la-pilule-noire · 2023-10-25T18:50:53+00:00

I KNOW it won't work, because it only works for 20% of men now, and that 20% is based on genetics.

IronHorseTitan · 2023-10-25T20:07:28+00:00

Cold approach has by far the lowest rate of success, Dating coaches just try to sell you the ultimate male fantasy, being able to get any girl you see in daily life. Warm approach is the only way to get a chance for normal guys

Complexity777 · 2023-10-26T00:40:01+00:00

Most western women have made it abundantly clear they don’t want to be approached, especially if you aren’t a Chad.

Cold approaching works better in other countries, you might get rejected but the women won’t be as angry and cold with you for simply approaching

ar_menelos · 2023-10-25T16:06:38+00:00

That is if you're not chad

IronHorseTitan · 2023-10-25T20:14:13+00:00

The main reason why cold approach doesnt work it's because 1. You are ugly 2. You are expressing interest right away, it's like "Hey I want to fuck you but I have to do this stupid talk ritual first"

The only way I know to make cold approach SOMETIMES work is if you met the girl thru a casual happenstance, something accidentally happened that got you and this stranger together for a few minutes, like lets say you are at a store and someone faints and fall, and you and this girl are the only people who can help him, something like that would give you a true excuse to get to talk to a random girl and she not blow you off immediatly. or lets say you are at the supermarket looking for a product and a girl is looking for the same, you both look, found nothing and get someone from the supermarket to say "oh sure let me see if we have more in the back", while you wait you have 5 minutes to talk to a girl without weirding her out by your approach, but then you fail because you are ugly. You get the idea, the approach needs a plausible excuse about why are you talking to this random girl on the street

anon12101 · 2023-10-25T22:58:31+00:00

Nah I don’t approach coz I’m terrified of making people uncomfortable. That goes for guys too, I just will not strike up conversation most of the time

rileysimon · 2023-10-26T01:45:37+00:00

When it comes to approaching women, my results are likely to be polite rejections or harsh ones

SmoothForest · 2023-10-25T21:51:13+00:00

Men aren't supposed to approach women, period.

Women are justifiably terrified of men, especially ugly men. Telling all the men in society that it's their duty to approach and they need to approach as many women as possible is a recipe for disaster. No wonder so many women despise the majority of men. The bluepill and redpill have been telling men to harrass women out of their league for centurie, tricking them into thinking that if they tell enough shitty jokes then she'll "develop" attraction for him. Such a thing is not possible The blackpill teaches ugly men to leave women the fuck alone and stay at home.

Approaching women is a delusional cope. If you're an attractive man, women will approach you. Even the most shy and introverted of women will tell their friends to approach you for them.

gigachud1337 · 2023-10-26T03:04:45+00:00

They use words like scared to taunt us but there's some truth to it, there's def more risk given the mental instability of the avg woman and their need to be victimized somehow by something

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2023-10-25T23:05:41+00:00

Dude you can’t talk for all men. There’s plenty of us who have absolutely no problem approaching women and getting approached by women. A big part of getting good at flirting and seduction is knowing how to read the non verbal cues and the other subtle signs that women you’re interacting with are physically / sexually attracted to you and want you to escalate or that they’re not attracted and that nothing romantic will happen with that particular girl.

Either way, whether you read attraction or lack of attraction in the cues that you’re getting from the woman you’re talking to, there’s no need for any talking. So if you know how to flirt you never get rejected because you read the signs without having to talk about it so if you sense lack of attraction you simply walk away. And if you sense attraction and sexual tension you escalate, also without having to talk about it.

Title	Men Don't Approach Because They are "Scared". They Simply Don't Think It Will Work
Author	FinancialMarket4985
Upvotes	59
Comments	79
Date	October 25, 2023 3:43 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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