Sex frequency situation

AlohaMaui808 · 2023-11-08T22:48:11+00:00

Aside from the gigantic covert contract, what's so fucking hard about having a baby sitter take your 3 kids out of the house to the zoo for 3 hours?

She probably won't fuck you because you don't create time and space for each part of DEVI (such as immersion) when she's been in work/mom mode all day

(And because you don't Game her all day, and you haven't trained your slut to be able to drop into being your immersed slut at a moment's notice)

Don't try that higher level shit until you've sorted out the basics like covert contracts.

Actually, I take that back. Try it and make another post on the results.

Smuggler-Tuek · 2023-11-09T00:32:47+00:00

More connected emotionally has been and always will be bullshit. It just means she doesn’t know why she doesn’t want to fuck you but she doesn’t. Just look at the facts here. When you two are away from stress and somewhere more exciting than your house she’s into having fun? Shocker. Your home life is boring, I’m going to guess you’re boring as well when home. Not an insult just something that happens if you aren’t vigilant. Day to day shit is mandatory and boring so you have to break up that monotony. Also if you feel you deserve sex from her you are definitely operating with a covert contract. Cut that shit out, she doesn’t owe you anything and thinking she does means she holds all of the cards.

BecomingABetterMan1 · 2023-11-08T20:14:51+00:00

This is frustrating slightly because I feel I’m HV and deserve to be fucked daily without question.

Bitch, you don't deserve a single thing in life - no one does. Cut the entitled shit.

HornsOfApathy · 2023-11-08T22:20:24+00:00

Good sex is your responsibility.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2023-11-08T20:36:41+00:00

My question is we have short trips away together for her work. She is super feminine and we fuck like rabbits until I literally am not interested. We then come home and it all stops like a tap has just been turned off. We are super busy with our businesses, work, kids etc. I get it.

When she's away from home and responsibilites, you fuck.

But for example the sex literally stops for 2 weeks after returning from these trips. she has said she needs more to be MORE connected emotionally. This is frustrating slightly because I feel I’m HV and deserve to be fucked daily without question. I feel like I’m definitely attractive physically , communication wise and emotionally.

This is a huge covert contract: I'm high value so I'm entitled to sex. Listen to yourself. It's a ridiculous and weak frame.

I need more info on your wife. Was she brought up to be a good girl? Good girls put their responsibilties before their sexuality. You may need to schedule more excursions to get more sex.

Kevlar__Soul · 2023-11-09T01:40:39+00:00

Sounds like she is getting the fucking out of her system while away from home. Like a camel filling up on water before a long trip through the desert. She figuring if she front loads the sex going a week or two isn’t a problem.

Either go on more work trip or figure out a way so she can relax like your away from home. Kids to bed earlier, fuck after the kids are on the bus in the morning before work. Work from home and fuck on your lunch break while kids are at daycare.

scarletcapsule · 2023-11-09T20:42:24+00:00

Create large pockets of time and space for her mind in the house. If the house reminds her of chores, she would never be able to serve two masters- her motherly duties and you.

See what's actually bothering her and make her feel that you are legitimately there to not only be an alpha leader but also a reliable provider (emotional one too).

While you be there for her, don't fall into her frame.

Indubious1 · 2023-11-10T03:58:05+00:00

There are obviously a lot of variables to this answer, but to try and put it simply:

When you’re away, you’re probably confident in getting laid and focus more on having fun. When you’re at home, you get laid less, so you focus on sex more.

There’s almost a sweet irony in that the less you focus on sex, the more likely you are to get it.

A lot of good advice has been given, so to add my own perspective: focus more on having fun. IMO sex is a benefit, not a goal.

vitrael2 · 2023-11-13T22:35:41+00:00

6ft6 270 15% bf

Unless you look like this you are completely full of shit brother.

Rp_Guar · 2023-11-08T20:56:08+00:00

Hey thanks for the reply. Yes she 100% fits the good girl mould from PFP book. I understand you saying this is a covert contract. but IMO if a man knows what he deserves and is not getting it where is there a distinction between a CC and having expectations?

Ragnardanneskjunior · 2023-11-08T22:54:41+00:00

If she goes to bed before you then wake her up for sex but don't expect much enthusiasm or satisfaction. Quality is better than quantity at your stage imo. To increase the likelihood of great sex while not away then take something off her plate and give her psychological rest. I will send my girl to get her nails done or something she enjoys to help manage that libido. I'm not expecting anything necessarily but taking on more of the pressure myself gives her room to be sexually receptive.

big_ass_package · 2023-11-09T05:22:53+00:00

Covert contract. Go read the sidebar.

Spacemunky78 · 2023-11-09T13:52:27+00:00

lost as to why this js happening. What could be the reason?

Because you suck. You're lying to us here (6'6" 270 15%BF pssh). You're definitely lying to yourself (I'm HV! fuck me now!). And probably lying to your wife.

Title	Sex frequency situation
Author	Rp_Guar
Upvotes	14
Comments	48
Date	November 8, 2023 7:57 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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