The reason why I ask this is because I saw a video of a woman grinding on some latin singer on stage, and the comment section had quite a bit of a heated discussion. I figured it would be an interesting topic to bring up, especially since everyone has their own limits on what they’re okay with their partner doing.

Of course, it is worth noting that while this happens far more commonly with male singers and female fans, there are instances of a female singer giving a male fan a lap dance, for example - so this question is really for everyone.

Speaking for myself, i’m okay with some performance but there is a limit - ex. flirtatious and more innuendo based stuff is okay (ex. an artist holding a girl’s hand, giving eye contact then kissing her hand (Cirice’ing as an example), or Yung Gravy feeding women in the crowd beef jerky, i wanna say? in a suggestive way) is totally okay with me (ngl probably encouraged cause it is a part of the show), but something outwardly sexual like grinding is where i start to have problems.

where does everyone else stand?