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eszibit · 2022-08-02T18:19:05+00:00

It's funny how so many people have it backwards. Hell yes or no is actually from your point of view and i find it to be really true. It's to honestly measure your interest and if it's not at peak then you should not pursue the woman, you'll both just waste time and it's all about making your life as optimal as possible and only doing hell yes activities and hell yes people, meaning the ones you really want to spend time together.

It's meant to make your life easier.

sidbunch6 · 2022-08-02T17:13:58+00:00

I think the 'if it's not a hell yes then move on' thing is more to do with a cold approach. Like, any of us who have been at this for a while and also watched lots of premium infields etc know that nobody can 'turn' a girl from 'no' to 'yes'. Like if you open her and she's basically ignoring you, making it clear you're not her type or maybe even telling you she's not interested etc, then no amount of 'game' in the world will help. It's a number game and a game that is played on the attracted girls

However, i think if it's someone who's agreed to go on a date with you (already had 1 date), then she was clearly attracted enough and maybe it's more of a 'game' issue. And thus maybe it's worth playing the game with her a little more to see if it's salvageable

helpMeOut9999 · 2022-08-02T17:00:41+00:00

That hell yes/hell no crap is such bullshit.

A girl will ALWAYS be like "hell I doubt it" at the beginning. Unless you are some Brad Pitt look alike with the charm of Thor - which we all are not.

A man should only do 20% of the chasing. You make the offer, you create the opportunity for sex to happen and that's it.

You don't over text, you don't ask twice, you don't put up with maybe and ho hums.

If a girl says "maybe" you say "no problem, why don't you figure out your schedule and get in touch with me when you want to get together - would be great to see you again."

And 👏 THAT 👏 IS 👏 IT.

koseabjitt · 2022-08-02T21:09:51+00:00

The thing about the times we face "no/hell no girls" is when we get rejected , we can never convince ourselves that no amount of game or physical/financial improvement could turn it into a yes situation & it's impossible for us to accept rejection . e.g the girl on the street doesn't stop to talk to you & you always feel it has something to do with you . "maybe if i was taller or more handsome..." "maybe if i was wearing designer clothes..."

& when we turn a "no girl" into a yes ( getting laid with a girl who showed no interest at first ) we NEVER know it was our sharp game & skills that made the girl fuck or we could do it anyway by just pushing and asking .

how can i know the girl who refused to meet me on sunday but came to my home & swallowed my cum 2 days later did it because of the amount of game i applied or it was just she felt like fucking a guy that day? i never know.

cobraCL · 2022-08-02T21:21:49+00:00

Move on if her uncertainty becomes a pattern. Sometimes people are genuinely busy or have personal things to deal with, so be lenient but cut her off if her tone in the next few interactions is wishy-washy.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-08-03T19:25:14+00:00

no this isn’t always true. and it’s stupid to think the girl should be “hell yes” when she just met you.

it’s more likely that the hoes are “hell yes”. And the loyal girls just take time to warm up.

It’s kinda dangerous if she’s “hell yes” at first cause she’ll probably be easily seduced by other men

Contango6969 · 2022-08-02T17:26:26+00:00

The goal is to have enough abundance that you aren’t worried about her fickleness. Like you should try to not be in a position where you are speculating and trying to understand what’s impossible to know

BlancheCorbeau · 2022-08-03T01:02:04+00:00

Nope. My best relationship ever started out as a mutual hard maybe that built into a hell yes over a lot of time.

Visualize_ · 2022-08-02T18:58:25+00:00

Well "hell maybes" are going to matter more if you have a low volume of leads. In a perfect world where you have like an abundance of women in your life, you really only need to pay attention to the hell yes girls. In a practical standpoint or I guess based on your situation, you obviously shouldn't just jump the gun and move on right away just because of a maybe. You leave it as an option but keep searching for the women who will give you the time of day

Environmental_Lie561 · 2022-08-03T04:51:53+00:00

Yes 💯

incognito3107 · 2022-08-03T07:42:26+00:00

It may be not an absolute rule, but girls are frequently making some cheap and safe excuses that many guys would not ever consider as polite "no". That being said, to avoid emotional struggle and waste of time, it is better to assume that she is not convinced to get into relation with you. You can still back out and maybe a situation will change some day, but pushing her will definitely turn her off more.

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