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[–]jaybadz 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the formula! Plain and simple.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Diet, excercize, makeup, most guys prefer longer hair and a more feminine look.
Low cut shirts if you have nice tits. Leggings or tight skirts if you have a nice booty.
[–]shared0 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
And If you look hot women won't approach you?
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[+]thatnewaccnt -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ah yes we refer to women like that as “a bitch with great tits”. Have you got great tits? Nice. All you have to do is be a bitch: steal people’s boyfriends, talk shit about girls behind their backs and get frisky with men you know your female friend has a crush on. (Do not recommend obv, just be a normal hot girl it’s better)
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[–]thatnewaccnt 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Get yourself a personality, hot girls rarely have a personality. And you could always be a slut if you want to be different - it’s 2022 we don’t slut shame.
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[–]mistahARK 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It honestly sounds like you may have some distorted views on how all this works. I'm pretty in tune with my attraction tendencies, but what I find attractive is not what every other guy out there will.
You shouldn't be looking to be more attractive than your friends, you should be focusing on doing what you like, maintaining good friendships, ending ones that no longer suit you, having new experiences, and being self-aware enough to know when it's time to change something about yourself for the better.
If I walk into a room and see 4 hot girls who are friends with each other, I might think one of them is more attractive initially, but from experience, I can promise you that
A. The guy friends I walked in with will differ on who we think is more attractive
B. The girl who I might have thought was more physically attractive at first can have the ugliest/shallowest personality, and I am immediately turned off.
If you are eating right, taking care of your teeth, of a healthy-ish weight, and taking showers, then honestly just be confident in yourself, and improve yourself to be someone more worth being confident of.
Don't think about which outfits to wear out, what makeup to buy, which shades of hair dye, etc etc. I honestly think most women wear way too much makeup personally, and any name drops about the super expensive brands they like are also a turnoff to me.
If you chase status via shallow means, you will find yourself surrounded by shallow people, and the people you are with determine the people you attract...you can see how this is a feedback loop.
Idk how much of this was on-topic, but I hope some of it applies to your personal situation.
[–]Demonarke 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are only thinking about sexually attracting guys then you are only gonna get studs who don't give a damn about anything you have to offer except your body.
So if you are ok just sleeping around dress more slutty than your friends, but if you want to find a stable relationship then start developing your personality.
[–]Archyblackcat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Instead of being grateful for what you already have .. 🤦🏻♂️ the only thing you can do is get your self less attractive friends.. there’s nothing you can do to only appear hot to men because if you’re hot then both genders will recognize it.. and the hotter you get, the more some guys will get scared and approach you even less so women will be the ones complimenting you either way more often
[–]punittt 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let’s see what you look like first
[–]Electric_kundalini 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are a lot more in-tune with people than guys typically are. If you’re projecting sexual vibes towards Men you’re interested in and showing disinterest towards Women, they will naturally pick up on it.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long hair, tight & revealing clothing, fit body, boob job if flat chested, well done makeup
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you keep comparing yourself to your friends and saying you want to stand out over the rest of women. Stupid recipe for insecurities especially considering you say you are attractive, you could be already having the time of your life, satisfied, confident and happy.
[–]Aggressive-Dig6998 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you essentially have the looks part down, then maybe it's your attitude. If you want to be perceived as a guys girl; they are typically somewhat tomboyish and have more male friends than female. Things like a confident "bad ass" attitude, not being afraid to get dirty or do outdoorsy stuff. Many men are attracted to tough women that can keep up w the guys, but also knows how to clean up and use her sexuality to her advantage. There's got to be a celebrity out there that has vibe you want. Study them, find out what makes them appealing.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The answer is simple. Take a look at the top 100 female instagram models. The closer you look to them, the hotter you are. Hit the gym, have a slim body and dress well. This isnt rocket science.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And they are universally attractive to most men. Sorry but there isn’t any magic pill to male attraction. 90 percent of men want a hot fit healthy girl that is youthful, healthy and sensual.
10 percent do prefer fat girls. Unless you have extremely low emotional eq, this is all common sense.
[–]Acquired_Note 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And healthy
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being thin will get you 90% of the way there. After that it’s just clothes makeup and hair pretty much
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Doing your hair, some makeup but not too much, nice clothes, a bra with a bit of padding, and being in shape.
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[–]Casanova-Quinn 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most men like the "traditional" female style:
[–]BeautifulTomatillo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men have no idea what the different fashion aesthetics are. I also don’t think they care what style you’re wearing
[–]Acquired_Note 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Light makeup. Guys can tell when girls literally painted on their face. It's hot at first, but natural beauty always wins in the end.
[–]kyberxangelo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends on the guy. In terms of fashion some guys like a girl who dresses and shows more skin. Some guys want a girl who dresses more modest. Personally I find it much more attractive when a women dresses less “slutty”. I’d imagine higher value men on average would like the women who dresses more modestly as a long term partner. For short term flings I’d prefer the girl wearing more revealing clothes. Depends who you want to attract.
[–]Thin_Protection5616 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Literally all you have to do is:
A) don't be fat
B) be clean
And c) don't appear as too easy
But it sounds like you're more after cheap validation, so scratch c
[–]naughtychick9999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
r/vindicta will help
[–]naughtychick9999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are many posts which discuss the difference between the male and female gaze and how what women perceive to be attractive is not how men see it.. Like low trust and high trust faces as one example.
[–]Deep-Advice7587 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you get hit on by girls a lot? You can just politely express you're straight
[–]CocoBabeNYC -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear a t-shirt with a woman drinking milk and caption it NOT MILK
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Low cut skirt, no panties and act approachable
[–]Mo3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How the fuck will not wearing panties help in otherwise fully clothed settings?
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She wants to look hot to guys. There’s nothing hotter then clam
[–]Mo3 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That you can’t see? Lol
[–]burncushlikewood -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is a lot you can do without surgery to appear more attractive to men. Most important diet, then workout, take supplements, get enough sun, sleep well, take estrogen boosting supplements, makeup/clothes/hair but that will help you appear more attractive. Other ways reduce stress, stop drinking alcohol or smoking, have frequent sex, all of these things will increase your hormones which will make you more attractive
[–]Codi_Banks -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear chokers
[–]Boring_Ebb7908 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me as a guy - I've always been more attracted to women who approach me. Maybe try flipping the script a bit, but once you start talking maybe give some leeway for him to also approach you to gage his interest.
Theres the usual stuff like taking care of yourself, but I think girls underestimate how hot it is to have the confidence to approach someone. I'd suspect its similar for gay men/women. Everyone always expects it falls on the guy to make the first move, some girls expect all the effort. But if you take control and treat dating as if you're a man, I think you'll find you're showing them what they always wanted.
I've known a grand total of 3 women who clearly had this in them lol, and to me atleast - I would have been attracted to them no matter who they were or what they looked like because of it.
[–]kyberxangelo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When you say hot do you mean how can you maximize Raw sex appeal? There’s differentiations between how I view women that could be short term partners and women that might be good long term partners. What are you core goals here?
[–]ChoppedBelAir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dress in a way that shows who you are. Otherwise you will only attract mismatches.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you’re attracting chicks & gays, then you look like you have a balls.. iow ur appearance/ vibe is masculine af.
If u wanna attract masculine men u like - work on feminine looks.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If u wanna look hot, then dress hot. Meaning provocatively. Show ur boobs+ass.. some good poses when ur around them, red lipstick, good care of ur skin and dress with sense.
As if i gotta teach u this.. just take a look what every other attention hoe does. And copy.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not looks. It's confidence and charisma. Confidence can be taught. Charisma is being genuine in who you are. That can't be taught. Some have it most don't. People can spot a fake from a mile away. You may not know they're being fake, but you feel somethings off. Be genuine and don't care what guys thing. And be confident in who you are. A confident woman is a confident lover.
[–]onyxengine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like a gym bunny who can rock form fitting clothes
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