How to react after a BAD or RUDE rejection?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-14T15:29:21+00:00

The club isn’t a place to have formal polite conversations with girls. They don’t care what you have to say, what your job is, or whatever bullshit you tell them because they know you are just willing to say any bullshit to have sex.

The club is a place to go crazy, to be the center of attention by everyone, to be the life of the party, and have fun.

It’s all about creating intense positive emotions, and brining value to other people, not taking it.

Your formal polite conversation in a club don’t give value they take it from them.

Who are you in this club other than an “older guy” who is hunting young girls to try to take them home or get their number? (aka taking value from them).

You need to think more in how you can make the club or the party better for everyone else, not to try to get some thing from them, but to give value to others.

In other words, in order to pick up girls i’m the club, you need to forget about picking up girls in the club.

You need instead to either make a show with your dancing skills, or maybe take the role of the magician of the party and do some magic tricks with cards, or take the role of the dj who brings awesome music for others, or maybe take the role of a public relations person whose goal is to make sure others have fun, are entertained and want to stay more time in the club, and not be there to pick up girls.

This all requires a whole different approach than trying to talk to someone politely, because while you may think politeness is a good value to have, the club is full of guys who try to use politeness to get something from them, and it’s not appreciated… So you instantly become “another one” to add to the giant list of “polite guys” who want to fuck them.

These-Calligrapher · 2022-05-14T14:55:23+00:00

Sounds like your approach needs to be improved. Learn to open without taking value. Or go indirect. Or have short interactions with people to create a social image of yourself and some pre selection then open a group and merge that group with the one you want. Takes practice. Have fun

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-14T13:52:27+00:00

Who gives a fuck about random whores , there's 3 billions of her out there

brianbria · 2022-05-15T15:14:54+00:00

The way to handle it is to leave her alone immediately. Don't say anything. At most you can say "take care" blankly. But your job is just to move away. You can heal your ego however you need to then go on approaching other women.

Whatever you do, don't further interact with the girl to satisfy your stung ego.

Also the way to PREVENT harsh reactions if you're getting a lot of these is to exhibit very confident body language and tonality (loud enough volume). Women respect guys like this even if they don't have sex. You will get much more nicer reactions generally if you exhibit confidence.

LBJ-Reddit · 2022-05-14T13:36:18+00:00

Ignore it

Tryingtokeepup3 · 2022-05-14T15:31:04+00:00

Maybe talk to women your own or closer to your own age. Approaching multiple times sounds creep imo

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-05-14T16:34:40+00:00

Next time you see her with her friends. Ignore her completely and go talk to her friends. For two reasons. If her friends accept you it’s easier to talk to her and you can fun her when she tries to join the incrowd you created.

-mental-balance- · 2022-05-14T15:30:03+00:00

Ignore it. And don't chase them. Let them approach you.

atomant88 · 2022-05-14T13:36:53+00:00

leave the kids alone you creep. whatever she said or did; you had it coming.

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-05-14T21:04:28+00:00

Just scoff and move on is probably the most mature way to handle it

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-14T15:49:11+00:00

I don't know who pissed in your cheerios this morning, but I assure you it wasn't me. I get it, you are good looking and get hassled a lot. So you want to try this again? Hi, I'm Bob.

Marshalldbdx · 2022-05-14T14:32:52+00:00

Would anyone be willing to suggest playing along? I'm sure you have to be extremely witty and creative to do it but like if she yelled "Ew!" Can you be creative and respond like "Oh yeah i 100% agree i find charming looking people to be a absolutely gross too? You wanna help me change that?" Wonder if anyone has approached it in that way and gotten results or flipped a scenario completely around that way.

yourcousinrafa · 2022-06-06T17:14:04+00:00

I wrote a post about that might interest you. Cheers

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/v5zqej/rookies_guide_to_approach_rejection_isnt_what_you/

Title	How to react after a BAD or RUDE rejection?
Author	Informal_Fishing5729
Upvotes	1
Comments	51
Date	May 14, 2022 1:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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