One of the hardest realisations I learned in life: Being Alpha isn't about money or what you do.

5_7pickup · 2022-05-01T22:08:29+00:00

Can confirm. I pick up girls all the time without using money.

It’s 2022. Women can make their own money. Majority of women I meet aren’t gold diggers and really dont give a shit. They have their own jobs and lives.

EnjoyUpdates · 2022-05-01T23:56:35+00:00

I think a lot of people forget that the "alphas" or just dude who get laid regularly aren't afraid to take a risk. They'll do the approach and make a move on the first or second date. Nice guys aren't willing to risk it. So you can be rich and in a Lambo but if you aren't talking to girls or making moves you won't be getting laid.

Kronuk · 2022-05-01T22:34:05+00:00

Don't need money to be with hot women. The goal is to be a high value man. Solid personality, unshakable frame, good financials, best physical shape you can be, good mental health, and sprinkle some bad boy on top. That will set you above the broke bad boys and the rich guys with no game who can't get girls. You will literally be so high value that girls will fight each other to get you. Aim high.

Erbium-Oxide · 2022-05-02T01:09:05+00:00

Every man admires the bad boy/thug who slays tons of HBB.

A bold claim. I do not agree.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-02T04:01:22+00:00

Now just combine the bad boy attitude with a somewhat attractive lifestyle, and you'll be set

modidlee · 2022-05-01T22:02:27+00:00

There’s one “toxic” YouTube personality that always says women don’t really care about money as much as men think. This is why a woman will go sell her body for money and come give the cash to a man. Men think women care about money because when they have money they notice they’re more successful with women. But the thing the money really does is make the man more confident. The broke guy who still slays with women has confidence that isn’t based on his money.

sarge4567 · 2022-05-02T05:48:54+00:00

I’ve personally witnessed fugly men flash money, and it removes panties faster than spit. I’m talking vapidly hot women. You’d be quite surprised at what women will do for cash, especially when they personally could benefit. World is chock full of women looking for an easy ride. I mean, fuck, even Reddit is full of them, most flocked to OnlyFans. Why? It’s insanely easy to part an idiot from his money. They don’t even have to leave their apartment. It beats standing on a street corner.

Downside, when the money dries up, no matter what you thought was going on or felt, they take off.

atomant88 · 2022-05-02T15:48:00+00:00

'being alpha' is a misogynistic myth perpetuated by insecure idiots seeking conformity as a cope

sarge4567 · 2022-05-03T02:24:52+00:00

Most bad boys have a lot of issues. They’re just like those crazy girls with daddy issues that seek a lot of attention. It’s not really something to be admired IMO.

loofyd · 2022-05-02T01:03:43+00:00

Your next post should tell about HOW EXACTLY CAN WE BECOME THIS BAD BOY

NineteenAD9 · 2022-05-02T03:47:03+00:00

Being obsessed with career and making it is basically a nice guy strategy to get girls that doesn't work. Your job or money doesn't really matter (at least not to most girls), it's really about how confident and alpha you are.

Stopped reading here. You do realize that you can have all of that right?

The choice has never been "focus on your career or focus on your confidence and becoming an alpha." Most men who have to learn how to be an alpha will never actually become one. You either have it or you don't.

And there has to be a reason for a woman to submit to you. You don't just puff your chest out and start saying a bunch of overly aggressive shit that you picked up on Reddit.

I'd actually argue that by making more money, you will gain more confidence. Men don't strive for money so they can get women. It's merely an outcome that arrives with it. And money is a reason for women to be submissive.

Yes, there are simps with money and women who are with them purely because of that, but making money doesn't mean you're choosing to be a simp. That's makes no sense.

Money does matter. A part of being a leader in a relationship is the ability to provide. It doesn't mean you can't get a quality woman otherwise, but if all things are equal men with high income certainly have the advantage.

If you don't make that type of money, then elite social skills and confidence are the next best things to possess. But it's not an either/or thing. You can have money, confidence, social skills, and lead in a relationship. Choosing to focus on either of those doesn't stop you from developing the other.

Sup3rHD · 2022-05-02T04:54:20+00:00

Beta pays, alpha fucks.

Toasty_Muffin88 · 2022-05-03T21:07:23+00:00

"You can't help but admire these bad boy BUMS who have some HBB clinging to them hoping they don't leave them. When 90% of us are clinging to our GF/dates and hoping they don't leave us."
Just an observation but imo this is just a quick personality tweak. I don't think it takes much to think of yourself as "the catch" and that "they'd be silly if they didn't want to stay with me" ( or similar slightly cocky attitude)
I always think I'm a catch ( because I am ) and in my mind I am determining if I like this girl or not. If after meeting me they don't like what I'm bringing to the table, that's cool, no problem -not worth my time and I'm off to the next one.
I am no Alpha male but I am also not clinging to anyone or hoping "they" don't leave me.
There is nothing wrong with knowing deep down you kick ass. Little tweaks like this will increase your confidence and game.

sarge4567 · 2022-05-07T20:05:13+00:00

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Title	One of the hardest realisations I learned in life: Being Alpha isn't about money or what you do.
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