I have to admit, when I was younger, talking to a girl I liked filled me with fear and dread. I would resort to things like leaving notes in their lockers, asking friends to ask them if they liked me, and even went as far as to pretend I was the messenger of a secret admirer (that didn't exist) and befriend them just to be close to them and talk.
And then, one day, I realized how utterly pathetic I was... I spent the next few years working on my self esteem and confidence and just overall social skills. I took the women of the pedestal and realized that the worst thing that would happen is she says she's not interested. She wasn't going to pants me. She wasn't going to taze me. She wasn't going to call the cops and try to have me arrested for harassment. Just a simple "No" and my world would continue to turn. And that was the WORST case scenario.

So here I am on Seddit... and I read a lot of the posts and questions and I even answer some and offer advice... But I find myself wondering why so many guys out there have such a hard time meeting and interacting with the opposite sex. It amazes me that in this day and age, guys still have a problem with something as simple as "Hi, my name is... what’s yours?"

I want to help, if I can... Seddit, tell me your fears and I'll try to tell you how to make it all better....