The First Kiss:

DON'T ASK IF YOU CAN KISS HER!!!! I hate this; every girl I know hates this; I have never met a girl who says she likes/appreciates being asked. Many girls will say no even if they had previously wanted the guy to kiss her! It makes her feel like he isn't confident.

There are two scenarious:

1) You ask to kiss her. She will either reject or accept it.

2) You try to kiss her without asking. She will either reject or accept it.

Either way, you have the same outcome. The only difference is whether you emasculated yourself by asking.

A girl wants a confident man who can brush off rejection with a laugh. Don't look embarrassed or upset. Joke about it, say, "I see how it is," and take a couple steps back, but smile and change the subject. Don't ask about seeing her again. Talk about something funny and make her laugh. Don't move toward her again; let her come to you.

DON'T hesitate when you're about to kiss her - just go for it! Hesitating to think about it gives her time to hesitate and think about it, too.

Getting Sex:

If a girl says she doesn't want to have sex/wants to slow down/etc., don't pressure her.

If she wants to slow down but not stop, say, "That's fine. I could kiss you all night."

Proceed to kiss her, but take your hands off of her body and don't let them wander. Lean away from her, let her come to you and touch you. Once she's pressing herself against you and feeling you up (lol), hold her close. Let her set the pace. You will get farther with her and make her feel comfortable with you.

If she says she doesn't want to have sex, say, "Obviously I want to have sex, but we'll do whatever you want." Then move completely off of her and lay on your back. If she makes a smart ass comment or joke about how of course you want to have sex because you're a guy, don't respond. Let it linger. Don't make a single move toward her.

She will eventually say something like, "Seriously, are you not even going to kiss me?" Don't say a word, but kiss her and let her pull you on top of her. Kiss her passionately but don't try anything else. Let her get riled up and ask for more.

No matter what, if the girl doesn't want to have sex, you can't have sex, so you have nothing to lose by trying this technique. Backing off makes you seem like you respect her, are a nice guy, are trustworthy, and that it's her decision.

Gettin' in Dem Panties:

Don't just dive into her panties with your fingers or try to take them off without turning her on first. Kiss her and put your thigh between her thighs and let her rub against you. Use your hand to rub her through her panties until she gets wet. Then push the crotch of them aside and rub her softly. After that, take her panties off. She should be ready. If she's not, back off and go back to kissing her, and grind your erection into the crotch of her panties. Dry-humping is underestimated! Do it until she wraps her legs around your waist and starts moving with you, then try to take off her panties again. If it's going to happen, it'll happen then. If it's not going to happen, lean back and start jacking yourself off slowly while kissing her. The moment she reaches to help you, take your hand away and let her. At least you might get a handjay or some head.

Good luck!