[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/28/13

Cheeseblockz · 2013-10-29T03:39:15+00:00

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throwawayseduction · 2013-10-28T19:10:12+00:00

Took this girl sightseeing around our college city for our first date. And as we're on our date, she mentions that we should go exploring more, implying that she probably wants to see me more, be around me. I slept over her place after the date and she denied sex but we got up to oral.

I don't know if it's me but I have an instinct that she might want a traditional relationship. At most, I would like for us to be FWB. How do I make sure I don't "lead" her on but still be down to casually date her?

abundantpecking · 2013-10-28T22:05:24+00:00

There is this AMOG at my school. He went to my middle school, and we never interacted at all until a few months before middle school ended. Out of nowhere, he suddenly starts saying things like "Hey Cory" or "Thats Cory" when he sees me. He basically says anything involving that name whenever he spots me, which isn't even my real name. He's certainly not trying to be friendly, and has a reputation as a massive douche throughout my school. He says things to me in almost an insulting matter, as if I'm someone to be made fun of. At this point, he is by far my biggest obstacle when gaming girls. He is rather popular and hangs with other assholes, even though he's the only one who has this hostile attitude toward me. How should I deal with him?

kikomeprease · 2013-10-28T20:43:03+00:00

How ones one make the frame more sexual? Is it just kino or does it have to be verbally too

puaCurveBall · 2013-10-28T23:49:47+00:00

I'm having trouble with the idea of being assertive, I'm an asian guy and grew up pretty conservative household where I was raised as a passive child. What is being assertive? How do you change your ways to become an assertive person? how do you differentiate from being aggressive?

puaCurveBall · 2013-10-29T01:06:02+00:00

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BurningPandama · 2013-10-28T21:19:27+00:00

Tomorrow I plan on asking out a girl like, we are both in college and taking most of the same classes. First we are working for a task for one class with a group and then only we two are staying behind and working on a project for a second class. This is where I plan on asking her:

2 things:

How should i phrase the question so I come off as confident?

I recently had a surgery so I'm on crutches for 2 more weeks, and good suggestions for a date that don't involve to much walking?

P.S: she is way out of my league

HelixR · 2013-10-28T21:29:43+00:00

I'll ask this anyway...

There's a cute girl in my class. I know she has a boyfriend, but I still wanna try my chances. I'm over my anxiety, but I feel like keeping distance of someone that already has a relationship, purely a matter of respect. (we talk of course, but to try to ''secude'' her is something I wouldn't quickly do in this case)

However, sometimes I feel there is kind of a bond between us, but sometimes it also feels like there isn't any. I know that this isn't some kind of primacy effect of mine, it really switches.

If I were to try it anyway, what would be a proper approach?

SWAG_DAT_HOE · 2013-10-28T22:30:27+00:00

Any tips on just saying things authentically and genuine? A couple weeks ago at Homecoming I told my date "I just gotta say, that dress looks amazing on you." And I meant it... But the way I said it probably didn't seem that way. How can I "own my words?" Is this inner game or should i just practice giving our genuine compliments better, which I have trouble with (I fear people will think I'm just saying it for the sake of saying it). Thanks :)

abc-cba · 2013-10-28T22:33:54+00:00

A female acquaintance texted me out of nowhere telling me I should meet her newly single friend. The friend is cute and I figured I would meet them out one night, but then she gave me the girl's number (unsolicited). Should I send a text introducing myself and try to get a date after a little back and forth? The friend seems slightly shy and may be too timid for a random date like that.

Devario · 2013-10-28T23:52:53+00:00

I've been hooking up with this girl regularly for the past two months. We have yet to discuss our relationship, but we sleep at each other's houses about 4 nights a week. We go out, usually with friends, and party together. We don't text often, unless it's to hang out, but we're slightly intimate when we do. We don't do PDA unless its in private. She doesn't really question who I hang or go out with, and I don't do so to her. We snapchat each other, but that's about it. I wouldn't necessarily object to an exclusive relationship, but I don't want one right now. How can I move the relationship into a more transparent FWB relationship?

hollymol · 2013-10-28T23:59:16+00:00

Models comes up around here constantly when talking about inner game. Is there similar go-to book for outer game? The Game is frequently mentioned, but also how out dated it nowadays is.

penisweed · 2013-10-29T00:38:32+00:00

is Neil Strauss' book The Game outdated and should it not be read by AFC's beginning pick up?

rajk45 · 2013-10-29T03:21:03+00:00

Last year, I was looking for a car and one of my friends told me her friend was selling hers. So I talked to her friend and saw the car. I wasn't interested in the car, but she sounded pretty cool so I thought I'd try to friend her. After asking her to hang out with mutual friends, she told me she wasn't interested. I guess I came off as I was trying to date her rather than friend her or I used seeing her car to try to get to her. We work in the same campus so we often see each other... which is always awkward.

Fast forward a year, I'm finding a lot of my friends moving away and I'm looking to make a new group of friends. Through mutual friends, I'm getting pretty close to one or two people... but they are best friends with the awkward car girl. I've also found out she's moving into my apartment building so we see each other a lot now. She also walks ridiculously fast so I've never had the chance just to say hi.

Suggestions? I've thought about breaking the ice and facebook messaging her to offer to help her move as a friend helping a friend out. I've also thought about just saying screw it and I'll run into her at the bar or party sometime when all of us are hanging. Lastly my other option is just to try talking to her, but her walk is essentially my run (and I'm in pretty good shape).

I know I shouldn't really care, and have already spent too much time thinking about this but I want to be in this group of friend and I want to remove the awkwardness...

2013-10-29T08:48:13+00:00

A girl contacted me by facebook regarding getting in to a halloween party I was invited to because I did not have a +1. I think she is just spamming to random guys. I've said that I might be able to get her in but that it isn't confirmed yet. She is really hot and so. What should I do next?

English isn't my first language.

TerriblePUA · 2013-10-29T10:36:30+00:00

Whats a cuter/funnier term for "friends w benefits/fuck buddy"?

scenny · 2013-10-29T14:31:30+00:00

Does anyone know if Models, along with Mark's other books (the travel one particularly comes to mind) can be purchased as a hard copy? I can only seem to find ebook versions, and I like to have hard copies of books.

Thanks

revosfts · 2013-10-29T14:57:46+00:00

What are some good methods of Demonstrating Value? I have trouble trying to stand out

2013-10-29T15:13:56+00:00

What are some books that focus on outer game?

PickupAccount · 2013-10-29T16:21:51+00:00

What are some basic date ideas for a college kid in the big city? I'm not old enough to go to bars yet, and honestly other than bringing a girl to a party or something (which really just depends on me being lucky and actually knowing a party that night) I have no idea what would be some fun things to do other than maybe going for a walk and grabbing food, and frankly that sounds boring. I really don't have a problem talking to girls at this point and keeping the conversation going, but still really don't know what I can actually DO.

_Fool_in_the_Rain_ · 2013-10-29T20:55:49+00:00

Give my number? Or ask for hers?

I feel that if I give the girl my number and she contacts me then that is a good sign that she is interested. Also it puts the ball in her court and would force her to peruse me. Of course this could backfire on me so what do you guys think?

Afeni02 · 2013-10-29T02:33:39+00:00

How to kiss?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/28/13
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Date	October 28, 2013 6:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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