Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ?

demonhunt140 · 2014-12-07T23:58:04+00:00

Actions speak louder than words, so never ask her straight up if she wants to have sex. Have sex when you want to. WHEN YOU WANT TO. just grab her.

As for when, well.. that depends. Have you met with this girl before? Have you hung out with her? Did she EXPLICITLY ask you for sex after the movie? Your title seems to mislead me as it isn't congruent with your first statement.

ASSERT DOMINANCE - cesar milan

poonishapines · 2014-12-08T01:58:29+00:00

I think you both know you're sexing that night. Give her a warning that opening credits turn you on like no other, and it can't be helped. Start making out with her when the movie starts. Then blame the movie or her for turning on the movie. "Look what you made me do! You naughty girl..." Be playful through all this. Have fun buddy!

p3riod · 2014-12-08T03:40:24+00:00

Step 1: You are going to sit down first, and put your arm on top of the couch spread out, make a little nook next to your side for her to nuzzle. Knowing women she will probably sit across the couch from you. Tell her, "Come sit next to me pretend like you think I'm cute or something," with a knowing smile. She will sit next to you but not touch you. Put your arm around her, grab her leg, and pull her as close as you can get her, then grab her hand, and put it under your shirt on your abs.

Step 2: make sex

Seriously though at that point it will be easy. After you follow step 1 you will both be slightly uncomfortable as the sexual tension drips through the room but once the movie starts you'll relax and things will come naturaully. you'll start stroking her hair, shell rub your arm, then youll kiss her and you'll start grabbing each others downstairs.

Into_the_groove · 2014-12-07T23:56:51+00:00

This is a question way more suited for /r/sex

Here's my explanation of it, but YMMV

I like to think like girls are like flowers, if you try to force the petals open you'll break it. Just like girls if you try to force her vagina open you're going to be disappointed. It requires a bit of energy time and coaxing to get a flower to bloom. Girls are like this. If she's worth her salt, she'll let you know when she's ready for your penis.

Method: Lots of kissing on face/jaw/neck, give her some build up to touching her sensitive areas with some passionate kissing. All girls like different things, don't be afraid to experiment a bit with your kissing style/areas. Some girls like a nice soft sensual touch, some like a more aggressive rougher approach. Lots of kissing and making out will help gauge this. Don't be afraid to touch her body. Don't be too aggressive.. remember you don't want to break the petal off.

Whatever style of sex she enjoys try to indulge her a bit into what she enjoys. For example. if she like neck kissing, do that more frequently to her.

Most girls need to be warmed up before they can handle penetration. So after you have got her worked up for kissing, kiss all over her body. Stomach, inner thigh, pubic area, boobs, etc. Tease her a bit with your kissing, then when you think she's ready touch her vagina slowly. It's a delicate thing. Don't be afraid to put your tongue in her vagina carefully (she'll probably return the favor, you'll get a better experience if you initiate first too). Maybe slowly put a finger inside her (make sure your nails aren't sharp/long, or else you might have an early night).

after that. Just enjoy yourself. Talk to her a lot, don't be afraid to tease her. Focus on giving her build up, eventually you'll get to put your penis in her, but you'll have a better experience if you cater to her needs a bit first.

lejohanofNWC · 2014-12-08T01:32:16+00:00

In my experience, so take this with a grain of salt, you're going to watch the movie. For about five minutes.

Don't be afraid to sit/lay down directly next to her, if she was explicit about the sex part the movie is just a super easy excuse for light conversation and cuddling.

From there it's up to you how you want to get that first kiss, maybe you tease her and you laugh and smile at each other and you just go in for it. Maybe you're cuddling and you compliment her something along the lines of "you know you're even more attractive in person than your tinder photos" as you gently push her chin to face you and you kiss.

Go about it however you want, but if she really was explicit about the sex you don't need much of a set up.

Best of luck friend!

SpaceTire · 2014-12-08T07:29:15+00:00

A good way to get the ball rolling is after a good amount of time into the movie, like 15-25 minutes, if there is a pillow around just take it and smack her with it playfully. They always find their own pillow and try to smack you with it. then just start wrestling, kissing, you know what...

j4ck0ff · 2014-12-08T11:26:01+00:00

Just do the naked man, i mean sex is already assumed so naked man has to work.

livinglogic · 2014-12-08T16:31:57+00:00

So my response is a bit late, but I'm going to keep it simple. Go over to her place, sit and watch movie, and don't initiate sex. Rather, initiate contact and eventual kissing. If you go into it thinking 'sex' rather than first developing the comfort necessary to even get there, you'll overthink yourself into a rut. Sure, you're both there for sex, but you don't go from movie to sex with a stranger, not unless you're paying for it or if you show up at her door and she's wearing nothing.

Making out will lead to the sex naturally, but you gotta get to that point first.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-12-07T22:56:54+00:00

/r/askSeddit

letsgofightdragons · 2014-12-08T09:03:33+00:00

I knew someone who use to watch Forrest Gump when they had a girl around. Apparently its so long and boring that it would usually lead to sex just to end the movie early.

Felix500 · 2014-12-08T06:19:12+00:00

What movie you two gonna watch?

2014-12-08T14:56:48+00:00

ask her to meet you at the taco cart

nofapfuzzy · 2014-12-08T20:11:48+00:00

you just pull out your cock and wink...

Wait... before you do that you should probably get in the mood and get her wet by kissing her, then rubbing her tits, then spitting on your hand and rubbing her pussy, then maybe gently touch her butthole , etc.

You will do this in a very natural way. You are relaxed and she loves it.

then pull out your cock and wink ...

gexxx007 · 2014-12-08T20:51:04+00:00

After the movie's been playing a few minutes, just unzip your pants and push her head down on your dick, she'll get the idea and take it from there.

freefromdesire · 2014-12-09T02:01:59+00:00

Dude, SHE invited YOU to watch a movie at HER place. She did most of the work. It's very obvious she's interested. This isn't even forum worthy haha. Just escalate physically during the movie, go for a kiss at some point, and considering she wants to do it, it should be organic and easy from there on. Good luck

exzactlycabin · 2014-12-08T07:01:25+00:00

Assume nothing. she might just want to watch a movie.

2udaylatif · 2014-12-08T16:00:11+00:00

Don't do anything. Make her make the first move and when she does reject her 3 times. Women like guys who are hard to get.

G00dHumor · 2014-12-08T10:42:02+00:00

After 10-15 mins of talking/cuddling etc just say "I'm gonna kiss you now". that's how

ZuphCud · 2014-12-08T02:34:56+00:00

Leave the initiation to her.

Title	Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ?
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Date	December 7, 2014 10:27 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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