How do I tease girls?

kieflicious · 2015-01-12T19:11:18+00:00

It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. if you say "yeah whatever" with a straight face it's probably going to come off as mean, if you say "yeah whatever" with a big smile on your face, it comes off as more playful. You can get away with so much more when you're smiling. if I'm wrong by all means please downvote.

cewbren · 2015-01-12T21:09:19+00:00

You need to make them feel as though you aren't an easy attention seeking puppy who will run around following them about with a wagging tongue but at the same time actually still convey some sort of attraction. Hard act but it becomes natural after a while of trying.

Break it into two parts, conversational teasing and physical teasing. Conversational means lightly digging at her and making fun of her but not for anything that will bring her down, so make fun of her for something that isn't going to make her go home and question her life. This incorporates the classic push/pull technique where you talk with a girl about a subject and lightly build attraction before gently teasing her. Strikes a perfect balance between super serious guy (which on its own can only usually be pulled off by conventionally hot guys) and performing clown (which is never attractive really).

Physical is a lot easier to get down. It's literally building up kino, escalating that kino and then withdrawing for a bit...rinse and repeat until either you want to keep going or she can't take it any more. The last girl I was with was getting increasingly frisky each kiss, to the point she was trying to prolong each one and I stopped early just about every time and that drove her wild. Obviously every girl is different and not all will appreciate that constantly so gauge how things are going before continuing to physically tease.

SheepKing · 2015-01-12T20:57:36+00:00

when you we're 6 years old you we're a master at teasing. You poked her, made made fun of her, after all, she was ''just a girl''. Grow younger.

AlexBr88 · 2015-01-13T14:49:40+00:00

Teasing is great tool to build attraction if done correctly. The key is to do it playfully. You can get away with pretty much anything except calling a girl fat! The first step is to work on your delivery. Make sure you actually come off as playful and fun, and not as an asshole. So the key here is calibration. Once you're out in the field, build a little rapport first if possible, as that will go a long way in how receptive she is. But, you can even get away without rapport if you're willing to take the risk. For example, walking by and throwing up a high five to her, and if she bites making her miss and laughing at her. You can always come back and buy her a drink if you feel sorry and think she wants the D.

zomgitsduke · 2015-01-13T00:59:03+00:00

I tease women by trying to break outside of their expectations of social limits. How much of a jerk can I act like, in order to shock her, without killing attraction. For example, I'm talking to a girl, get her number and text her, she checks to make sure it went through. I'll say "oh you're an iPhone user? Deal breaker!" And walk away, only to turn around once I know that she's fully processed what happened as her jaw dropped. I usually discuss my knowledge in computer science so that kind of claim is justified, and as an added benefit it gives more conversation towards something I'm passionate about.

Another example is accusing her of just trying to take you home for the night, noting that she needs to buy you at least two more girly drinks before you'll even consider it.

With teasing, you MUST believe that what you're doing it funny, and know exactly what you expect her reaction to be. Body language, articulation, emotion, and timing are vital to its success. With that in mind, don't be afraid to fail, because I sure did many many times. Its best to practice this kinda stuff on female friends, just change the nature of the teasing(deal breaker becomes "we can't be friends anymore").

Finally, you gotta find out methods of teasing that fit your personality. Don't use the suggestions here as cookie cutter instructions. Be yourself.

shitonmycock · 2015-01-12T21:42:56+00:00

I'm currently involved with a hardcore psychological seductress that I'm trying to get away from. About the only thing good that's coming from it is I'm witnessing an incredibly skilled teaser and I'm learning a lot about how to do it.

What sucks is she goes beyond my limits and now and again I have to play "Dad" or "policeman" and set boundaries with her.

For example, she gave me a "playful" slap to the face this last weekend. To which I had to respond: "A word of advice, don't ever hit me again." She was PISSED, like I just took a toy away from a child.

I'm not in any official relationship with her, and that appears to be how she prefers it so she can get away with more. (Technically she has a boyfriend already but it obviously is not-at-all-serious.) She locked herself in the bathroom with me to grope and kiss me, which was fine. Actually it was like, *kiss*, then "get out!" then as I tried to leave she'd pull me in harder for another smooch and then yell again "get out!" Heavy. Then she followed up with locking herself in the bathroom with one of my better dude-acquaintances to do the same. Ow. But the only thing for me to do is pay it no mind - she's not my girlfriend, she's not my responsibility, and like I said "technically" she has a boyfriend already.

Later on she ends up making out with my friend's girlfriend as a performance art and to shut out all the other dudes, but she was pissed off as hell when I paid it no mind, so she started groping me. When I finally decided to leave the party she was pissed off again. "Hey! This isn't over! You can't leave now!" She was mad! I said, "Well, I love you too, but I gotta go." Then she said: "If you leave now I'm NEVER talking to you again!" To which I smiled and said, "Wow, now I have incentive to bail asap, eh guys?"

Here's what I'm learning about teasing, OP. If you are in a psychological zone with a woman, you ARE in a relationship with that woman whether you want to be or not or whether you think you are or not. My main advice about teasing is to respect a woman's boundaries and freedoms, but also force her to respect your boundaries and freedoms.

I wish I knew women that were more psychologically vanilla, but then I probably wouldn't learn anything. I don't think enough can be said about teasing. Too many Sedditors are concerned with "Tinder" and "text game" as if that shit has real weight.

EDIT

One other thing about the woman I'm talking about: she's short. Not to stereotype, but short women have their own little Napoleon Complex - it's just female styled. I once knew a short woman who loved horses. I went to see her horse once and I swear she had the largest horse in the stable and she LOVED commanding him. So maybe look for a short woman if you want to learn about teasing.

Dayman-Nightman · 2015-01-12T20:05:29+00:00

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ChaAznable · 2015-01-13T04:09:08+00:00

You don't need to. If she's attracted to you, playing elementary school games with her won't make her even more attracted.

SoftCriticism2385 · 2022-06-05T12:38:59+00:00

I usually like calling her a bitch or cunt. It works every time

Title	How do I tease girls?
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Date	January 12, 2015 6:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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