Men: Have you ever been seduced by a woman? How did it turn out?

anephric · 2015-03-22T14:40:47+00:00

I went on a blind date with a girl a decade ago. We met at a Pizzaria Uno and had a beer. She was beautiful and good at conversation but wasn't feeling the usual sparks; I figured she wasn't feeling it.

In our way to the car, she grabbed me by my coat, slammed me against a lamp post and lip-locked me so deep I swear she was trying to touch my back molars. People were driving by and honking at us.

That was a good date. We saw each other a few more times but she moved back to Massachusetts.

Omnipraetor · 2015-03-22T17:26:02+00:00

My ex literally grabbed my hand and pulled me into her room when we first fucked. She was making all the first moves... I love it when women take the initiative. We ended up dating for almost a year.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-03-22T14:58:02+00:00

I was on vacation, had been talking to this girl at a bar. It was a playful vibe. We were on an elevator, alone. She leaned on me in the elevator "it's getting crowded in here, sorry" she said playfully.

Key was to not be too excited in a happy way, keep my cool. That doesn't mean detach from emotion and be so "too cool" your stoic. It just means don't start getting excited like a puppy because this sexy girl wants to fuck you.

I escalated, but I really held back. Almost as if I was playfully ignoring most of her IOI's. I was letting her tease herself. And all I was giving her in return was a bit of kissing and ass grabbing. Soon as we got into the entranceway of my room, I stopped the ignoring of the teasing ignoring IOI's, pushed her against the wall, kissed her while i stripped her. A bit of 69ing and we went back to the bar.

A dude at the bar who had been hitting on her earlier actually got "alpha", AMOGed threatened me, and told me to back off...While she was in my room fixing her hair back to looking at least sort of presentable...It was hard not to laugh in his fucking face.

Samokoske · 2015-03-22T20:01:19+00:00

Ok. Just so that OP is not a bundle of sticks, I'll just tell all the times OP was at least a faggot.

In high school, I had a very beautiful girl get her group of friends to catch me on my way down the main central hall. This was the most painful because it wasn't anything subtle, or seductive, she just straight up told me she was interested around all her dude bros. But I had just moved into the town and have been historically teased for my looks by attractive girls growing up, so I just figured it was some kind of elaborate joke. I turned her down, but the dude bros wouldn't let me live it down cause apparently I was one of a very exclusive demographic and supposedly it was supposed to be.

Later on, while working in a theme park, I met a plethora of chickies from all over. One was from Puerto Rico and although we hit it off as friends, I assumed 0 interest, and so I didn't notice what she was doing hugging up on me on her birthday and putting her ass on display for me. Seriously thought it was a tease.

Same theme park job, first night I meet this girl she doesn't want to leave my station to pick up an assignment. Instead, she takes advantage of my printer's positioning (which is hung at under waist height... The height of her crotch and consequently my fingers) to press herself onto my hand... And her chest on my shoulders. But I was working. Whatthefuck. And it really was a long day - I was tired. I didn't have to ask for her number either. She just gave it to me. I forgot how that didn't actually work out.

Same job. Sang "my dick" for the first half shift. Bagged Boston girl's number. None of my effort - I just wanted to eat lunch. Ran into her WEEKS after. Took a picture with our tongues talking French. Went to piss. She was gone.

Outside that job, I had a friend I met thanks to his abusive father. This was for many years before I met the rest of his family, but the night we met neighbor boy, he called the cops to get him under control. Years later, I find his mom at our local grocery store. Jesus fuck she was fit. She led the whole conversation... Didn't even realise what we were talking about until she mentions how stressed I seem. I think it was my birthday, which I hate, but she gives me her number so that we can talk more about it.

Another best friend of mine has a smoking hot family. 2 of the finest sisters ever and everyone who knows her was fapping to his mom. I was the loser in high school, but he is the school lady's man. His mom and I kept a platonic relationship well after he moved. One day she tells me to stop by another night with clear intentions of drinking... I am oblivious.

Yea. All this in my mind is platonic. I still have doubts of confidence, but I imagine if I knew any better, I'd be in a better place.

LtWorf_ · 2015-03-22T17:51:58+00:00

Yes.

I was doing physiotherapy at the time, I was around 21, and there was this therapist, about 12 years older than me, really hot and the kind of really self confident person.

Now, we were alone during therapy, she used to give me massages to my back and neck, which had absolutely nothing to do with what I was supposed to do there, and was overall flirty and complimenting.

Since I was an idiot I reminded her of our age difference, so nothing happened.

Samokoske · 2015-03-22T14:58:33+00:00

Many times. I am an idiot though and passed up all the chances. Their subtlety combined with my ineptitude was a recipe for disaster.

I'd love to tell you all the tales, but I don't have the time to dedicate for elaborate detailed accounts of what happened.

Remind me later.

EverybodysPoop · 2015-03-22T23:01:49+00:00

A bigger girl got me once;

"Your breath smells too much like whiskey and not enough like my p***y"

The big ones can be pretty damn slick sometimes :-/. They may not have as much physical attractiveness, so they are forced to make it up with personality.

Into_the_groove · 2015-03-22T14:52:06+00:00

It's happened a few times in my life

I was 18. This girl that sat behind me in french club had a wicked crush on me. (I was dumb and naive at the time). She asked me to the prom. I turned her down. We still are friends to this day, but I never got another chance to go after her. One of the regrets of my life honestly.
I was on a road trip in st. louis. I was in this bar with my friend and this british guy that was staying in the hostel we were crashing at. This pack of very drunk pharmacy girls came over to our table. We were in this huge sport bar in downtown st. louis. One of them just really wanted to make out with me. She pulled me into the corner and made out with me for quite some time. That was just the beginning of a super crazy night, but it was awesome.
I'm currently being seduced by a woman. It's pretty mutual seduction at this point. However she approached me! We'll see how this one goes, but it's been pretty fun so far. 8/10 so far. If it doesn't blow up in my face 10/10 would do it again

2015-03-22T20:21:47+00:00

She was sending out the signals big time but I had a girlfriend. She asked me to pull over for a cigarette, then jumped across the seat after and kissed me harder than I had anticipated possible. Things went downhill from there, but damn if how much she needed me didn't turn me the fuck on.

Cali_Val · 2015-03-22T18:39:57+00:00

Yes. I was younger, Very fit, well groomed, well dressed, & extremely nice. I spoke as little as possible and was one to the types to listen to a person more than speak. And when I did, I asked questions or said something nice and respectful.

This would bring girls that would ask me out to "do stuff" with them. Go hangout, go with them to some spot, take care of an errand, go to a club, a party, a kickback, a place to be alone.

It always turns out with me going out with them for a while or us having sex for a while. But its really those times where its hard for me to figure out exactly what was going on, other than my physical attributes

fucked_by_secretary · 2015-03-23T01:36:24+00:00

I was in my early 20s, a young professional at an office with about 1,000 employees. I was hard-working and largely oblivious to the receptionists and secretaries. One Monday, we received word of an office shuffle. Some of the staff were being laid off. It didn't affect me, fortunately. Later that morning I walked by the desk of a secretary to pick up a fax. I said good morning to her. She let me know that she was on the list, so she'd be gone in two weeks. She asked if she could give me something. She handed me one of those little folded-paper fortune-teller things that contain number/color choices. She told me to look at it back in my office. I opened it after a couple choices. It read "I WANT 2 SLEEP WITH U." In fact, every choice led to the same statement.

She was a tall, shapely, brunette, light-skinned latina, a few years older than I was. No, not "shapely" in today's "curvy" or "full-figured" sense, but rather "shapely" in the "fucking amazing rack" sense. I called her on the PBX to let her know I was interested, and she replied with a Saturday-morning date and time. She instructed me to wear a certain shirt that I'd worn in the past on causal-dress Fridays, and she told me that she wanted to ride on the back of my motorcycle, which I didn't think anyone at work knew I rode on the weekends.

In other words, she'd planned out exactly how this was going to go down, and she'd been observing me for a while. I'd never knowingly been the target of a fantasy, and yes, it was probably the most massive ego-boosting turn-on I'd experienced to that point in my life.

Saturday came. I wore the green shirt. She showed up on time to my apartment, dressed in this form-fitting elastic black exercise outfit that showed off every inch of her assets. My roommate was home, and because he and I didn't have the kind of relationship where we'd share amazing developments like this, the girl just stood awkwardly in the hallway while I got my motorcycle helmets out of the closet and my roommate puttered around in the kitchen. I told her to come into my room and sit on the bed. She said quietly to me that she was waiting to put her hands on my chest. Being the clever and creative guy I am, I replied that I couldn't wait to get my hands on her breasts. I saw her shiver for a moment, and then she blushed and said she'd promised herself that she wouldn't get wet. She stood up quickly from the bed.

We rode my bike to the hotel. She'd reserved this dark fuck-palace room with mirrors on the ceiling and walls and thick curtains over the windows and even drawable across the door, which I now think were there for better soundproofing. She took out a portable CD player and tiny little speaker from her backpack and put on this music that thankfully wasn't Celine Dion but was in the same chick-ballad category.

We kissed briefly on the bed. I pulled off her pants and went down on her. She came pretty quickly, and then I slid back up to face level. She gasped as I started pushing myself inside her, and her eyes got big and round. After we were done and resting, she said mine was the biggest dick she'd ever had, which at the time I didn't believe, and I only recently (years later) changed my mind when that penis-size study came out and I discovered that I'm 65th percentile in length and 60th in girth. Not enormous but above average. Anyway, whatever. I was happy that she seemed to enjoy it. I certainly did.

Next she wanted to take a bubble bath with me. We did.

Then she gave me a backrub on the bed with scented oil, followed by a blowjob. It wasn't fantastic, but I came and she swallowed.

A bunch of small talk for around an hour, and then she looked at me smokily and asked whether there was anything else I wanted to do to her. Obviously there was one thing left to do, so I said it: yeah, I want to fuck your ass. She smiled and rolled her eyes in this combination of "I hoped you were going to say that" and "I wish you hadn't said that." She stretched her arm across the bed, reached for her backpack, and pulled out a sample-size tube of KY jelly. She said it was her first time doing anal, but she trusted me to go slowly. This time the mirrors really did their job. I could see the contortions on her face changing as I thrusted deeper inside her. I put my hands on her shoulder blades and pulled myself down against her back, and whispered in her ear, "I'm fucking your asshole!" Not so much because she needed to know that, but because I wanted to hear myself saying that to a girl. I then asked "Are you OK?" She said it hurt a little bit but was starting to feel better. She told me not to stop, and she started making noises timed with my thrusts, and then she asked me to come inside her. Which I did. I then rotated her onto her back while still inside her to kiss her. I had to push her legs back to make it all work.

By this point I'd come three times in a single morning, which was impressive even for my age. But I was getting overstimulated and just not interested in getting off anymore. We rode back to my house. She got in her car and drove off.

As expected, she and many more of my coworkers disappeared a Friday or two later as part of the layoffs. She did call again and ask if she could see me again, but (idiot) I said no. It wasn't going to turn into a relationship, and I'd already fucked her every way my pre-internet porn-free mind could imagine.

I never saw her again.

Levitz · 2015-03-22T22:24:54+00:00

I chickened out.

She pretty much stated that she wanted to make out with me and I just panicked, blurted some stupid shit and that was it.

Now, that honestly sucks, both for me and for her, but it gives you a LOT of perspective and I like that a lot.

First, I'm still kind of kicking myself over it (happened almost a month ago)

Second, I actually feel bad for her, I feel guilty for rejecting her because I honestly believe she deserved what she wanted, I frankly admire that she had the guts to do what she did how she did, fucking bravo, and I feel guilty for acting like I did.

Third, it made me feel wanted, which is a so very satisfying thing for a male.

Above all it made me respect her more as a person, she is younger that me too, I fucking wish I had the guts she has now when I was my age, it wasn't a turn off in any way at all, but it was a little bit too sudden and I was a little bit too drunk

V4refugee · 2015-03-23T05:51:29+00:00

She was my younger cousins friends older sister. I visited my cousin and she was there. My cousin had a jacuzzi and we all bathed in it during the day. She stayed until late at my cousins house where we flirted a bit. After everyone went to sleep she tells me we should get in the jacuzzi again. In the jacuzzi she asks me if I didn't like her and when I looked up her tities were out. We made out and then went in the house, showered together and she "slept" over. She sneaked out the next day after everyone went to work.

2015-03-23T06:34:46+00:00

I Love it. It makes my game so much better.

jmatre · 2015-03-23T19:41:57+00:00

Are you a dude or a girl? If you are a dude stop messing about, you are the man and its your job. If you are girl, do your best to help the guy out because not every guy is an alpha leader of men and women.

the_colon_poweler · 2015-03-23T13:38:05+00:00

I just would like to add that women have no idea how much of a turn on it is when a woman actually knows what she wants and goes for it head first.

Those are the ones guys think about years later. Not the one they had to chase down like a lion chasing a gazelle.

bigbooblove · 2015-03-22T18:13:08+00:00

Nope, never; well, to be more precise: never when she took the initiative. In my experience they all waited for the man to seduce

Jetzki · 2015-03-22T18:42:53+00:00

Was in a club, she grabbed me and kissed me.

Had lots of sex.

rustypete89 · 2015-03-22T20:33:26+00:00

I have.

We had sex.

Things went OK.

We still talk

haberdasher42 · 2015-03-23T00:02:17+00:00

A girl once opened by asking me my sign. Then she told me our signs make the best lovers but are awful in relationships. She's the best lay I've ever had.

I've never had that line work for me, the few times I've had the balls to try.

2015-03-23T00:52:13+00:00

I had a fwb relationship for a while with a woman who made the first move and took a lot of initiative in pushing things forward. And there have been other times in a bar here and there where I get a cold approach from a woman. Depending on who it is it can be a fun or not fun experience when it happens, but I don't ever count on it or hope for it to happen. Being a man who takes the initiative to approach is more important.

jamesgfilms · 2015-03-23T02:40:08+00:00

Its only ever happened when I have been in Relationships, and while it felt incredibly hot and tempting, I am not the kind of guy to play around so nothing came of them. Since breaking up with those girlfriends, they are always the first thing I think about...! In the right scenario, it would be nice but I think it would take a fairly headstrong girl who wants you for functionality over anything else... If you don't mind being the 'tool' for the job I see it as a great thing for both sexes. I wish more women would open men.

adam_bear · 2015-03-23T07:56:35+00:00

I'm usually too caught up in my own head to think about seducing anyone, but attractive enough that women often make the first move- if they don't I probably won't.

It's cosmo crap with a solid foundation in stereotypical gender roles. If the person you want fits the stereotypical male persona wait for them to make the first move; otherwise anything goes.

2015-03-25T11:59:07+00:00

My housemate climbing into my bed, we sexed, later we fought.

DaygameCoach · 2015-03-22T14:37:47+00:00

A few times. What do you mean by "turned out"?

2015-03-22T21:25:20+00:00

90% of girls who approach me are ugly or crazy. 90% of the high quality girls I date had to be worked for.

Title	Men: Have you ever been seduced by a woman? How did it turn out?
Author	TheCuteScientist
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Date	March 22, 2015 2:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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