Hey guys, i'm 5'6 and i was wondering is this a deal breaker for a lot of women?

TonyDAbsolute · 2016-06-27T07:38:04+00:00

Not much if you have game. Women will say it matters, but take a midget and put him on Game of Thrones and he'll be throwing harem parties in his honour.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-06-27T08:30:44+00:00

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saxab · 2016-06-27T11:25:11+00:00

I'm 5'7 and get with fit girls all the time. In my experience as long as you're at least as tall as her you're fine. If she's taller than you that is an obstacle (but it's one you can overcome).

Jarwain · 2016-06-27T08:23:38+00:00

Your height is only a big deal if you make it one.

Don't worry about it too much, don't stress or linger on it. Most women won't really care, and why would you want to bother with the women who would care?

Atribute2 · 2016-06-27T16:29:45+00:00

Dude, there's SO many women out there. So if you take out all the ones that do give a shit about having a taller man, there's still TONS of women left that don't. And like another commenter said, you don't want anything to do with the girls that care about that anyway, fuck 'em. I'm 5'6" as well and get with attractive girls often. My height used to hinder me, then I developed game and confidence and it doesn't even phase me anymore. You'll even find girls taller than you that would still be up for some fun with a shorter guy. I recommend getting into a good gym routine if you haven't already.

Cynical_Doggie · 2016-06-27T08:37:12+00:00

For a lot of women, yes, for all, no.

But you can't do anything about it, so be the best you and you'll be set.

Murfdigidy · 2016-06-27T14:09:28+00:00

No more than a man who only dates girls with big boobs. Yea there are some guys who wouldn't ever date a girl with small boobs, but most would assuming she had a pretty face and a nice ass. You know, making it up somewhere else. So as a short guy make it up somewhere else, aka, be funny, outgoing, ballsy. I know a 5'6 guy dating a very pretty 5'9 girl (who also wears high heels!)

2016-06-27T14:24:17+00:00

genuinely enjoyed a lot of your responses, it really gave me a positive outlook, thanks guys

2016-06-27T10:58:19+00:00

Height is part of your looks so it affects your overall atracttion. Face, muscles and style are also part of looks so try maximizing these.

Insecurity and low confidence is a big no for basically every girl. With women don't show weak emotions, simply avoid it!

BTW, one of my best friends is your height and is drowing in pussy. However he is very popular and very socially skilled aka high status.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-06-27T15:24:14+00:00

Unless you have game, height is very important.

I'm 5'5 and my game is certainly lacking but I've done absolutely horrible with women. Much worse than any average guy would do. No I'm not ugly or fat.

Short men have to have very good game or something that increases their value just to be neutral in the average woman's eyes.

If I was as tall as my dad, 5'10, there is no doubt in my mind that I would have done exponentially better with women then I have.

farang · 2016-06-27T13:26:46+00:00

A good friend of mine only likes tall men, she says, which explains why her last (long term) boyfriend was 5'6. Ya know?

Inerthal · 2016-06-27T13:06:35+00:00

Maybe a tiny wee bit but not as much as you'd think and others would have you believe. I am 5'8 and never had any trouble with women. I've dated and had physical encounters with women taller than me before.

Not_Brannigan · 2016-06-27T13:55:25+00:00

Speaking from experience: yes and no. It's a fact that I was told a couple of times when I was younger that I was too short for chicks. But I also sucked at life then so who knows... I think a lot of women do prefer tall guys, and for a few it will be a dealbreaker. For those few: don't fuck with them, you can do better. For the rest: Just be an incredible guy, and don't give a shit you're not tall, and then your height won't matter. You'll be fine buddy, just be confident in everything that you are and you'll be just fine.

throwaray_ray · 2016-06-27T15:34:58+00:00

Being eye to eye with women is great anyway. Height on a guy can be a total waste when they don't work on anything else, so I just focus on making myself well rounded.

Height stands out, but being the whole package is for winners.

2016-06-27T15:40:02+00:00

Someone once told me:

"it's not how deep you go, it's how you scrape the sides."

Exhumed · 2016-06-27T16:48:01+00:00

Yes.

PepelePeaux · 2016-06-27T17:21:08+00:00

Yes it does but there are so many women out there that you will find plenty that it isn't a deal breaker with.

Some women love a huge penis. So what, I'm above average but barely. So what...It's their preference.

i prefer a woman with a tighter vagina. Think I'm kidding?? I fooled around with a girl that I could practically fist...scared the shit out of me. Not kidding...nor judging.

Own the glory that is YOU and trust me...it'll all work out

Aeon199 · 2016-06-27T18:41:28+00:00

Literally anything could be a deal breaker to some women, including height. I would say very few women would turn down a shorter guy if he was the fucking tits in every other way (awesome personality, style, confidence, social status, etc.)

You'll have a harder time than an otherwise equivalent taller guy, yeah. But don't go around envying tall guys, thinking they've got it all and can pick up women like nothing. I spent years as a handsome, tall, well-dressed guy, but with fuck all in the confidence department. I couldn't even get 200lb tinder chicks to fuck me.

Who gives a shit how much of a deal it is. You can't measure it, and it doesn't matter anyway, because you can't change it. Don't waste your time worrying about things you can't change, just accept that you are you, improve the aspects of your life that you can improve, and go fucking kick some ass.

skyburnsred · 2016-06-27T21:20:29+00:00

Nah man. I'm 5'5" and while I'm not pulling 10s probably because lack of social circle, I get laid often becau se of my funny personality, good career, intelligence and sex game. Of course my actual total game has been sealed pretty tight overtime too. A lot of girls look at me and probably don't think of me as a potential mate but most often I am good at polarizing girls in my favor. Just gotta create an undeniable presence around yourself

BestZed · 2016-06-28T01:58:01+00:00

I'm 5'4, and 120 pounds, I'm only 19 but I know how you feel man. Before I was 18 I blamed my height for not pulling women. I was still the same height and weihht so my physical appearance didn't change much, but the way I looked at life changed. Girls stopped caring about my height because I never brought it up, I embraced my height and decided I'm perfectly happy as I am and that was the turning point for me. I've talked to girls that say, "you're too short for me" the correct response? I tell them, "you're too tall for me." When you go around insecure about your height women can see that, they see that insecurity and it comes off as a weakness. LIke in game of thrones, "use it as armor, that way noone can use it against you." Now I'm with a girl that I fell in love with and I'm happier than ever. The only time we talk about my height is when I bring it up. Girls are still people, they see that you're short, just don't let them use it against you. Coming from me, I totally see your struggle, but first you need to believe that you are someone that just might change her life, whether height matters or not. Just say all your height went to your dick lol

z10z · 2016-06-28T03:24:47+00:00

It doesn't matter what your odds are. Don't waste your time trying to figure it out. You've got to work with your strengths and improve and act until you get what you want. Learn to play a few songs om guitar and you're golden.

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-28T04:28:39+00:00

It's called a self limiting belief. If you believe that your height matters, it does.

Confidence and good game can go a long way. Expect to be shit tested -- read all the side bar help. I'm your height and do well.

solambula · 2016-06-29T04:27:57+00:00

If it helps, I'm 5'5" but I hooked up with--and later married--the most beautiful woman in the building. She's two inches taller than I am, but the only one of us that's ever had a concern over my height is me. She couldn't care less.

Woujo · 2016-06-27T16:15:21+00:00

Yes, it is.

But so what? Find somebody it isn't a dealbreaker for.

Friendly_B · 2016-06-27T18:02:56+00:00

I'm 6' and have been interested in a woman who is about the same height. She's tall. She left the dance with another guy on Saturday, that sucked. He's like 6'4." I chose to blame it on this fact, rather than that he was more aggressive than I was.

Title	Hey guys, i'm 5'6 and i was wondering is this a deal breaker for a lot of women?
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Date	June 27, 2016 7:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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