I approached a model the other day

Turlast · 2016-09-27T20:52:29+00:00

Good job. Rejection or not, most people wouldn't have dared putting themselves in that position.

TheAlphaCarb0n · 2016-09-27T22:39:17+00:00

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take! It takes balls to try this, I applaud you.

john_dune · 2016-09-28T00:57:54+00:00

awesome job man. Though word to the wise, there's an old adage "tell a beautiful girl she's smart, and a smart girl she's beautiful, and they'll be yours forever"

She gets complemented EVERY day, multiple times a day on how attractive she is. Complement her somewhere else, choose her shirt and tell her that she's got great taste in fashion, pick her phone and tell her she knows about technology.

hussef · 2016-09-27T21:36:38+00:00

I'd try to be a bit more nonchalant about the compliments or maybe just omit the beautiful part and just mention the eyes at least at the start I though you had messed up going as far as talking about the party since you compromise yourself to being busy maybe she was down to do something a bit more personal or calm but if she kept asking stuff and giving you data then she was legit interested if she also complimented you I feel you kind of had this in the bag already but maybe messed up "forcing" her into the party idea, "we should do something" leaves your options open to date and activity, and even if she can't today you really should try to get a number ( Facebook might work but I hate trying to seduce via chat it's good post seduction not prior to imo) while you're ahead so you can try some other time

Good job on going for it don't take anything of this negatively, a probably great looking girl was into you !

yummbeary · 2016-09-27T22:50:49+00:00

Very good job for approaching her. I saw you did not do several things which are absolutely crucial to get a solid number.

Qualification: So what do you do? I'm a model. Ah really, so are you a good model. - The point is, let her qualify in a fun way. You can use this structure for anything, are you a good lawyer, nurse, doctor etc.
Tease her a little bit. This can start from the qualification question above.
Small, specific, personal compliment instead of huge all-encompassing compliment. Saying that she is gorgeous is already all the validation in the world. There is nothing left for her to chase. Even better give her a small compliment and a small tease. "Ahh and you have such cute wrinkles around your nose when you smile! 😄
Some cockiness, assertiveness. After all, you do need to give her something to look up to if you want to make sure to get her number. Don't exaggerate this of course.
KINO, it's a huge difference if you haven't touched her at all and if you have brushed her hand. You don't need to have pulled her right on the spot and give you a blowjob in the nearby park, this is possible if you do the 4 things above, but give her some of your valuable touch at least once!
Specific to your situation, you would have needed to tease her when she made you a compliment "Ah come one, are we flirting now?" ☺️, tease her about the party, so the party is for really cool people, but I'm not entirely sure yet if I should invite you!, You can't stay home tonight, because well... now you've met me haha, so we're gonna change your somewhat boring night into something a bit more adventurouusss (wiggle with your fingers).

Some smaller things: Make her laugh her ass off because you are so funny, make fun of her in a fun way, teach her something ("Alright listen, next time this happens you have to do this and because of this and that. This was even scientifically proven, because this and that. Women love that.), some cute role play.

All in all, she needs to feel some superiority from you. She isn't going to want to have sex with someone who is younger, less successful, who can't teach her something. But if you can, and then say I see you're the adventerous/cocky/demanding type, maybe we should do something together?, then she might be all over you.

Furthermore, you need to do things without trying to impress her, but casually. This comes with experience of course. Hope that helped!

Drogba006 · 2016-09-28T12:06:32+00:00

Why are you complimenting a model on her looks?

poonishapines · 2016-09-28T02:27:26+00:00

Grab your balls. See how they're harder now? Good job.

mad-n-fla · 2016-09-27T22:01:24+00:00

"no hah I think I'm going to stay in tonight"

"Your place or mine?"

Jacob_961 · 2016-09-28T09:48:54+00:00

Yep. Well done. Next time spark emotion and then ask for compliance. Flirt, "I'm not that easy but I'll take you to the party with me because you are nice." Say it in a playful manner.

But well done. Really proud of you.

thedeadserv · 2016-09-28T13:17:02+00:00

From where I stand, 'maybe' followed by a 'could' is very very beta.

Strike it off your vocabulary when closing.

Tell her to do it. Don't be bossy about it. Just tell her to do it. Be assertive.

Something along the lines of 'You should come! etc. etc. Fun"

'Maybe you could' shows lack of confidence and provides an easy way out for her.

And if she still goes for the no, bust her balls on the 'lazy night at home' make her laugh and ask for her number 'to get her off her cave for a coffee' ;) Edit: Oh and congratz man. Just getting out there is amazing on it's own! Keep it strong and keep it fun!

smoochie100 · 2016-09-27T23:17:19+00:00

Come on, what's her name. What is the matter about sharing the name if she is a public person already

iamthesage · 2016-09-28T13:57:33+00:00

I agree with some of the comments here. I would have gone direct. If she is attractive, just go tell her that. You have nothing to lose. The false gift card approach might across as weak.

TBomberman · 2016-09-28T14:32:48+00:00

The important question was where do you go to school as a qualifier. What was your answer?

supremelummox · 2016-09-28T16:26:05+00:00

The -me, -her tags are confusing. I was convinced you're trying to tell me a supermodel started complimenting your out of the blue.

puabookworm · 2016-09-28T21:36:39+00:00

I'm not sure why everyone is critiquing your choice of compliments or conversation topic. She was clearly interested (to some degree) and you said what came naturally to you. Really, the only problem is that you didn't press for a hangout on a different day or a number close after she said she was busy.

Thewelshpill · 2016-09-30T10:29:54+00:00

the compliment let you down in my opinion (but hey good effort!)

i would have gone with something like...

Her: "oh no that giftcards not mine..."

Me: "well you seem like such a stylish girl i figured you'd shop at (whatever fashion retail store the card is from)"

see how much better context and more natural that compliment seems?

Chuggachuggachoo · 2016-09-27T22:47:16+00:00

Which model was it?

Damn_Croissant · 2016-09-27T23:40:34+00:00

Big if true

ep1939 · 2016-09-28T08:08:43+00:00

"You're really gorgeous--you have such beautiful eyes"

You showed her like you're the other countless beta males trying to hit on her everyday.

Good job on trying too.

zhico · 2016-09-28T12:26:16+00:00

but took the L on the number

L?

AshyBoneVR4 · 2016-09-28T06:11:07+00:00

I'm so bored at work that I took the time to edit the meat of this post. I didn't understand it that well so I think other redditers might appreciate it. OP, tell me if I was close.

Me: Hey I think you dropped this when you passed by me shows gift card

Her: Oh no hah it wasn't me,

Me: I'm _____ by the way. hand out for handshake

Her: I'm _____" (not sure if she shook OP's hand)

Me: You're really gorgeous--you have such beautiful eyes

Her: Thank you! You do too!"

I let her order her food and skip to the front to buy a drink (Fuckin cutter) and ask her what she's doing today. She said she was staying home tonight then asked what I was doing. I told her about this party I was going to. She seemed interested so we talked about that for a while before talking about where I'm going to school. It was about time for me to walk off before it was seemingly obvious what was going on. I tried doing a line like this "Maybe you come to this party with me later on tonight?" To which she replied "no hah I think I'm going to stay in tonight." I feel like I could've executed that line better, felt like she was interested in me as a person at least but took the L on the number. Still proud of my self by approaching a super hot model.

Title	I approached a model the other day
Author	rentmypie
Upvotes	320
Comments	68
Date	September 27, 2016 8:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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