Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.

sdarkpaladin · 2019-01-06T15:09:49+00:00

Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.

When I read the title I thought it was r/jokes about a strapon or something.

onkizomba · 2019-01-06T14:23:08+00:00

I'll save this in the event I might actually get close enough to a woman to use it

onkizomba · 2019-01-06T16:32:48+00:00

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innergamedude · 2019-01-06T18:04:15+00:00

So... you're saying... don't grab her by the pussy?

onkizomba · 2019-01-06T16:39:48+00:00

About the get her to come first, that’s great advice but as a girl and when I come, i don’t really feel anything afterwards. It’s great for the dude as it’s warm and wet but I’m completely dead after I came so it’s more like “okay do your thing”. My body just can’t move

My ideal suggestion is to ask the girl to touch herself as you penetrate her. Clit+ dick is the best combo for 90% girls. It’s rare to have women come with the penetration only. Discovering my clit changed everything and most girls don’t know the power of their clits/ignore how their own body works.

(The clit is like an iceberg, some part of it is internal but us women are mainly sensitive to the exterior stimulation. Some internal but it takes some education).

Parther05 · 2019-01-06T14:44:45+00:00

I'm a woman and this is pretty on point 😂 my husband needs to seriously up his foreplay game, can I send it to him? He's the I have to have sex now abs just gets on it type 😫

mseand · 2019-01-06T16:58:02+00:00

Bottom Line: PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODY

milatzo · 2019-01-06T16:30:21+00:00

Got a boner while reading this...

jackzander · 2019-01-06T18:04:16+00:00

This is a good read about one guy's successful efforts to make a particular woman orgasm.

But while some of your advice works for some women, it won't work for others. If 'How to finger a woman and make her come' doesn't make a woman come, it isn't because the woman is broken or you're just not trying hard enough. It's because 'and make her come' is an overgeneralization.

Some women cannot come from internal stimulation. Some can only come from internal stimulation. Some love dirty talk and some will think it's obnoxious.

Women are so different from one another. And there are a few queues and nonverbal inquiries that can give you hints about what a particular woman might like.

There are good examples of best practices in here, but committing this to heart and using it with every woman will result in frustration for everyone. As always, learn to improvise, and focus on the fun.

ricsking · 2019-01-06T20:35:26+00:00

XY sent you a message: "...Naked."

onkizomba · 2019-01-07T04:52:23+00:00

Yes these tips get it right. However I caution men from thinking the burden is entirely on them. Men don't fall into the trap of accepting all of the sexual responsibility. Make sure there is balance in the relationship. She also holds responsibility for her own arousal and pleasure, setting the mood, building the anticipation.

Not_World_War_Meme · 2019-01-07T08:34:16+00:00

Im 16 year old virgin who has never had s girlfriend or even touched a girl. Why am i reading this?

DiscoPhasma · 2019-01-06T15:49:01+00:00

To be honest. If you manage to pick up a girl, take her to bed, and you are really good there. She will return. Always.

I've found myself sometimes struggling to kiss a girl. But many times, once I do it. It's like no thing is done, I still have to keep fighting for it. However, if I manage to have sex with her, that's a different thing. She will be the one coming. And to be honest, I am pretty sure that's thanks to my skill there.

hydrolith · 2019-01-06T20:08:23+00:00

if you put your two middle fingers in, palm the clit and rub up and down quickly she will cum.

ResseXx · 2019-01-06T15:43:46+00:00

Can confirm, it works exaclty like that and it REALLY tranforms your sexual life. You just need a bit of practice, but then everything will come off naturally.

onkizomba · 2019-01-09T13:02:32+00:00

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challenger__red · 2019-01-06T19:04:56+00:00

You da REAL MVP 🙌🏼

onkizomba · 2019-01-07T00:25:42+00:00

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schneider5001 · 2019-01-07T02:39:51+00:00

Totally written by a woman.

eht_amgine_enihcam · 2019-01-07T23:16:43+00:00

6 times 0 is still 0 for me.

onkizomba · 2019-01-10T15:28:31+00:00

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onkizomba · 2019-01-11T17:15:23+00:00

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onkizomba · 2019-01-12T06:18:10+00:00

Not you, me! Sorry, but I was talking about what it was like for me, starting from Ground Zero and finally getting to know what I was doing.. I knew I was lousy in bed, but even when I asked my 1st GF what she’d like me to do, she gave me a blank look. It was 5 years before I was any good at it. There weren’t many resources back when I as young (Sigh.)

NormalFemale · 2019-02-05T06:55:50+00:00

Bingo! You touch a woman everywhere except her pussy. Until she is begging you.

Plays-0-Cost-Cards · 2019-01-06T16:50:51+00:00

Anyone else immediately scroll to the bottom of the post to check if it's a disguised malvertisement?

Yodiax · 2019-01-06T17:58:02+00:00

Awesome post! Being dominant in bed (incl. light BDSM) and actually knowing what you’re doing is a MASSIVE confidence booster. It made me feel way more comfortable & confident sexually and changed my mindset to where I am the prize for the girl. + You end up having girls want to see you over n over who crave for you.

Learn how to be wild in bed and express yourself freely - it truly is extremely useful when it comes to dating & girls, experimenting is key.

Enjoy your gold buddy!

Yeahimahorse2 · 2019-01-06T19:22:24+00:00

This is quite informative

Meldeeann · 2019-01-06T16:05:56+00:00

Yes thank you it was very exciting to feel like I had lost it because I was afraid like your knees going bad of your eyesight or dementia coming on that you lost it so I feel like I’m still OK ha ha

cobalt172 · 2019-01-06T16:42:16+00:00

I love how sex is all about the women and concern for the man who puts in all the effort.

Fun2badult · 2019-01-06T20:44:35+00:00

How often do you do it? Can’t be doing this everyday but what’s your frequency?

onkizomba · 2019-01-06T22:35:53+00:00

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Trowawaycausebanned4 · 2019-01-07T01:16:29+00:00

Don’t forget that above pubic bone press thing

lazerturkey · 2019-01-07T02:13:54+00:00

I made my gf cum 7 times in 10 minutes straight in the same position but I had to actually put in effort to do that. Idk if I’m really good, my dick is magic, or if it’s really easy for her to cum.

onkizomba · 2019-01-07T21:54:14+00:00

Isn't this just natural knowledge what else would you be doing in bed?

yungdutch_ · 2019-02-11T21:18:08+00:00

19 years old looking to please my GF. She tells me not to worry about it so much but I know deep down once it happens she won’t be able to resist me. I love her & I’m trying everything I can to make it happen.

yaboimissesezlayups · 2019-03-11T11:03:46+00:00

Nice

The_2_Ton · 2019-01-06T15:53:40+00:00

Noice

schnebly5 · 2019-01-06T18:57:33+00:00

Ok, maybe this applies to like 20% of the population, but let me tell you every girl is completely unique and you have to tweak your style with everyone. I’ve been with girls that would love this and others that would hate this. There’s plenty of girls that don’t even like their clits touched and like getting fingered. There’s girls who like being dominated more, or being dominant etc. Etc. There is absolutely no one size fits all, so this isn’t the best advice

Remanis2 · 2019-01-06T22:54:16+00:00

I truly don’t see why you would spend so much time and energy when you can just jerk one off and be done with it?

Only thing in my life I spend time and energy on is my son and growing my business for my son to live life as a 1%er.

I used to spend energy on women but realized as I got older (I am 38 now) that it’s simply not worth the return of investment. Other than love, what do you get back? Nothing that puts food on the table that’s for sure. I guess I don’t need love personally to be happy.

As soon as I directed my energy elsewhere I became millionaire. No single person (other than my son) is worth so much of my precious time.

Meldeeann · 2019-01-06T15:18:03+00:00

Thanks I had no sex 8 to 10 years been widow 6 yrs I was just told (last weekend first time partner off Dating site called naughty date) that I was multi orgasmic a squirter and I had three bouts of five -six orgasms; all night so I was very happy and pleased; I still got it

AstaSilva · 2019-01-08T22:00:24+00:00

Too complicated, I'm getting a hooker

imusuallynot · 2019-01-10T22:41:33+00:00

Cool! I've been running a site specifically on sensual massage and have articles there on:

Sensual massage (how to/process w pics) https://www.sensualmassageart.com/musings/2018/5/29/a-full-rundown-of-a-typical-sensual-massage-session

Resources for sensual massage (oils, scent, lights, music to use etc) https://www.sensualmassageart.com/musings/2018/3/12/sensual-massage-resources

Female orgasm https://www.sensualmassageart.com/musings/2018/8/1/the-female-orgasm-g-spot-squirting-more

Just to share some resources that may be relevant/interesting!

kcxvi · 2019-01-06T14:55:41+00:00

This is terrible advice. Plus women want to cum while being fucked. They don’t want candles, they want to be manhandled and pounded. Gripped up and choked.

Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.

#1 — Foreplay: How To Make a Girl Horny For You WITHOUT Even Touching Her

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