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[–]boss34112 98 points99 points100 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Took me 52 hrs for my first dark souls 3 run took me 23 years to get to actual dates XD. But in all seriousness great post
[–]Eskeeetiiit[S] 50 points51 points52 points 8 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been playing league for 5 years and highest I’ve been is platinum, I’m 21 and still haven’t had my first kiss let alone a date. This is a hard game but seddit is the guide I need.
[–]Hodors_Bunghole 83 points84 points85 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
There's no shame friend. My first kiss was awkward as hell, and now she's a guy. I'm not sure how to feel about it
[–]taytayine 49 points50 points51 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wtf did I just read..
[–]baker2795 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao I guess it’s better than being the other way around.
[–]kinpsychosis 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow, that must have been a horrible kiss.
[–]Hodors_Bunghole 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It definitely wasn't good, but what bothers me most is that he/she now has more facial hair than me
[–]kinpsychosis 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You just can’t seem to catch a break...
[–]fuckboychadlmao 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf
[–]BrumbleNA 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You guys may be overthinking it. Ever been stuck on a hard or tedious level in a game, and beat it when you where not paying attention or distracted? Sort of along the same lines: Dont stress over relationships or sex, it will happen when your not obsessing over it. Foucs on yourself, life goals, improve youself in the way you want and you'll attract the right people. People are attracted to confidence, and that comes from within. Or at least thats what I've been making of it.
[–]Eskeeetiiit[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol I feel everyone misunderstood my comment; I commented that just because everyone was commenting their own experiences and stuff so I wanted to as well, I’m not bummed out or anything. Ever since I started following this seddit I’ve been working on myself and am much happier in general. I haven’t done anything with girls but that’s more due to personal reasons, overall I’m a happier person and I just thought this post was something seddit would like to see!
[–]LimitedContributor 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He did. Haha That was a universal answer.
I'm already body building, man. Approaching is fun. It is my life goal.
[–]fra403 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right up there with you, except im 22 turning 23 in a couple of months.
[–]slikayce 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey I was in the same situation as you at 21. Just go on tinder. It's good practice and low stakes.
[–]ImYourMajesty 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe slow down on the league
[–]Murfdigidy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't get laid until 10 years after my friends were, yes it was depressing.
Now in my 30s I can out game all my friends combined... From total dud to stud
Seddit is a great resource, keep learning, keep failing, but keep getting back up
[–]rathyAro 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Coach me to plat and I'll coach you to first kiss.
[–]DimitriT 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And you are still in Silver :D:D:D
[–]PhantomTroupe26 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Had a really tough day today doing daygame. I really needed this. Thank you
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[–]PhantomTroupe26 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha thanks man
[–]Fun2badult 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Except you don’t get extra lives or go back to restore point before you fucked it up
[–]easygo 57 points58 points59 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
But you actually do. Find a new girl
[–]Fun2badult 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You can’t continue on from the last progress point. It’s a game where you have to constantly start all over from the beginning
[–]easygo 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s how the game works. Now go out and try again buddy!
[–]ScottsdalePD 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You actually do continue. You may start over with a new girl, but you learn from every experience you have.
[–]CalfReddit 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not entirely true. Experience and knowledge is essentially your last progress point.
[–]destiny24 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So it’s like old Mario games. Gg ez
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's Dota2/Starcraft
[–]Rionius 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are just playing the wrong games. Take Super Meat Boy: You constantly die and start over until you deliver the meat to the girl. Just like in real life!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha that's so true fucking love it how it just tells you that you fucking suck
[–]phoenixLucifer 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Rock, Paper, Scissors has prepared me for this
[–]frogma 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't play too many games anymore, but I totally agree with the gist of the post.
Partly how I became so successful was by basically treating every interaction as a "game." I didn't need to win the game, but as long as I was able to play it, that counted as a success.
I followed Mystery's original shit from the book, back in the day, and who'd'a thunk, it actually fuckin worked!!
Nowadays, I just try to stay true to myself, but I still look at most interactions as a sort of "game" -- you don't need to win it, you just need to have fun with it.
You could say the same for life itself -- we're all just playing Minecraft and seeing what we can build. We're also dealing with weird vampire shit that slowly kills us. We drown in water, and we also get our voices drowned in conversation.
The girls tend to like the guy who can speak the loudest, believe it or not. Also helps if he's the tallest, and generally handsome. I'm generally handsome, so I've got a long history with girls, but I'm not very tall (5'9") and my looks have faded with age. As a kid, I had bleach-blonde hair, and every old lady would walk by and run her fingers through my hair. Then I was on the swim team, and my hair has been garbage ever since.
Through the first 2 years of high school, I was basically a social outcast, and people actively disliked me. Then I realized that I could become a better version of myself (what would Brad Pitt do?), and I did it. I then went out-of-state for college, and basically reinvented myself there. My nickname was skeeter, because I "skeeted" on all my sheets.
[–]BonelessSkinless 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't enjoy frustration tho... lol
[–]Eskeeetiiit[S] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No one does. But momma didn’t raise a quitter!
[–]TiggerZ97 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dark souls 4
[–]GuyFromDaStore 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And don't be a spawn raper.
[–]superjj18 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Underrated advice
[–]SyrusDrake -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
If there was a game that was really hard and when you lost you'd, for example, lose your right hand, would you "keep practicing" because you'd eventually stop sucking at it and wouldn't lose your right hand anymore?
[–]petriomelony 25 points26 points27 points 8 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link
no, but you don't lose your right hand when you get rejected by girls so your point is moot.
getting rejected sucks. but it literally has no impact on your value as a person, or any physical impact other than your physiological reaction (which can be adapted also). just like losing in a video game. people bang their keyboards and freak out if they lose a video game sometimes, but it doesn't really change anything about their lives.
I imagine the point of the post is to show people that they can think about loss or failure as a growth opportunity, not just failure. for some people this analogy may work best with video games. for others it might be cooking, or lifting weights.
anyways, I hope you can learn something from the sub rather than just keeping the same negative mindset forever. welcome :)
[–]SyrusDrake -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Obviously you don't lose your hand but clumsy, unadjusted flirting can still have serious repercussions.
[–]ScottsdalePD 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Like?
[–]SyrusDrake 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
In my case, being reported to university officials for sexual harassment, getting expelled and losing everything I have worked hard for so far.
[–]ScottsdalePD 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You realize that kind of stuff rarely happens to most guys? As long as you’re respectful to the girl, you’re good.
[–]SyrusDrake 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Probably. But it still seems like a pretty high risk.
[–]petriomelony 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
talking to people is not high risk. "unadjusted flirting" which can be misconstrued as sexual harassment serious enough to warrant an expulsion is something completely different.
i'm sorry for your situation, but i imagine you listened to some really shitty advice from some so-called "pick up artists". i hope you can give back to the community by sharing your story so others don't do the same.
[–]ScottsdalePD 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Saying “Hello, I just wanted to say I think you’re beautiful” and chatting is not harassment. If she doesn’t wanna talk, she’ll let you know either directly or indirectly (through body language).
[–]SyrusDrake 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i'm sorry for your situation, but i imagine you listened to some really shitty advice from some so-called "pick up artists".
Not really, no. Luckily, I haven't made any personal experiences.
[–]frogma 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like this guy stalked a girl and then tried to get physical at some point, after she was already uncomfortable in the first place. Getting expelled from the school usually doesn't happen unless you cross certain boundaries. This guy almost sounds like he would've been arrested if he had done similar shit in the middle of a city.
[–]CalfReddit 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
At that point it's probably not clumsy unadjusted flirting anymore but harassment or something similar. Although in this feministic #metoo society, the difference can be thin
[–]SyrusDrake -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's precisely my point. How many times are you willing to be accused of sexual harassment to practice your game? How many times can your career and the life you built yourself survive?
[–]vivalarevoluciones -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
blind sheep cant seduce . learn to see through people too
[–]UnicornSquadron 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What does this even mean
[–]Mongolian_Hamster 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it means he's full of shit.
[–]vivalarevoluciones 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
be a true individual dont follow mass cultre traits and ideals because then you are not really youre self. by this people will find you more intersting and unique then having mass media cultre traits ideals customs etc. unique people always stand out. learn to see these people and get to know them and you will find more intresting personas and have better unique influences thoughts
or you cpuld go the other way use mass cultre ideals customs at youre advantage and make these people follow you like sheep . this to me is the classic popular guy that knows the current mass media cultre customes .
[–]vivalarevoluciones 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
nothing thats why i say you could go the other way .
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