The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-22T18:16:21+00:00

Reposting from a comment i made awhile ago:

Ok a few things to start with, most girls know that they are cute or look good. That's why they went out and look that good. Try complimenting them on what they are wearing or how their dress sits on them. Let them know what caught your eye.

Let's say you have a really nice car, you put effort into specifically your engine, it has nice struts, painted massive turbo and is all around clean as shit. Every person that looks at your car says "Hey man, nice car" over and over for weeks. It will get annoying. But one day a dude comes up and says, "damn bro that's a sick turbo, looks like you get an extra 150 HP out of that little guy. Is it custom???" Now all of a sudden your eyebrows raise, you want to talk all about your turbo and the amount of work you put into it.

Might be an awkward analogy but I hope you understand.

Xylymeurono · 2018-04-22T18:19:10+00:00

You don't say anything about what you do after opening. That is probably where your problem is. As long as she hasn't completely dismissed you, you can most likely pull it off.

Also, is that the only line you use? If it is, then that's definitely a problem too. You really should say something more personalised to the girl.

I recommend watching this YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/thenaturaltv

It's from one of the very best natural-style coaches, James Marshall.

donaldtrumpsmistress · 2018-04-22T20:28:08+00:00

I've been using that line for about 10 years now and results have skyrocketed the last 5 years as I got more confident, knew what I was doing, could joke around better after the open, got more used to bars and clubs and worked on my physical appearance a lot. The line is fine. Yeah if you're just spamming it at the mall 90% of the girls are gonna give you a wtf look. Some won't and will be down for dates, but best of all at bars it really doesn't matter wtf you open with, just come at them with confidence and the right energy and many will be receptive.

Dweebl · 2018-04-22T19:59:20+00:00

It's not the line that's important. The point of approaching and being forward with your intent like that is that it frames the following conversation that way. You need to be charming and interesting after that.

You're fine going with a line like that. Just do something with it afterword.

bruiser18 · 2018-04-22T20:40:23+00:00

Man, a lot of people here are recommending walking up and calling her beautiful or complimenting her fucking shoes or whatever. What the hell? You don't give a fuck about her shoes, so don't pretend to. You want her number, you want a date, you want sex. Express your interest from the start, don't let it be neutral and friendly, escalate quickly. Finish with at least a phone number. These are basics.

Here is something I commonly do, this is for day game, nightlife game is different:

Approach; "hey whats up, I noticed you and damn you look good, I just had to come over and say hello"; comment on her looks, does she look foreign? "you don't look like you're from Exampleland, maybe Polish? Latvian?" is she smartly dressed? "you look like somebody important, a lawyer? business manager?"; escalate, quickly get to know her: "you live around here?" "ohh what you working as?" "oh okay what you studying?"; do this shit as you would as if you know her, don't get too involved, but don't rush it; get to the finish "anyway I know you got places to be and so do I, but how bout you give me your phone number, maybe I'll give you a call sometime?" or if you're ever so bold: "listen I'm meeting up with some mates in half an hour, if you're not too busy, grab a coffee with me before I go?" you know, shit like that. Giving her a time limit like saying you're going somewhere in half an hour makes her feel more comfortable because she doesn't feel inclined to hang around all day with you.

It's pretty basic shit man, don't always say "hey I thought you were cute" because you're right, that does give off the inexperienced boy vibe. Be bold, be charming. "I seen you walk by and you looked real nice, it would be bad manners not to introduce myself"

You get the picture. I've been learning from mostly 2 guys, Dan Bacon and Tony Torero. It's been working like a fucking charm. I won't talk about them because I don't wanna seem like an ad. Hope this helps.

BetterBeLuckyThanGud · 2018-04-22T22:24:34+00:00

I'm currently learning sign language. Words are futile , its all about your energie and attitude when you approach. Ofc your enthusiasm will disappear after approaching the 100th woman on that day. Be honest with your self when you approach , it has to be genuine.

ConstantlyAltering · 2018-04-22T17:56:04+00:00

Read The Game by Neil Strauss. He talks a lot about approaching women in it.

Some examples of openers: http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/the-key-to-easy-approaches-2/

LingeringGnome · 2018-04-22T21:56:24+00:00

That's because it's a lazy line.

Use specificty:

"Golly gee I think you're cute."

versus:

"You have the nicest ass in this town."

which one sounds like it's coming from a guy who has so many options, he kinda doesn't give a fuck?

Socialinception · 2018-04-23T02:02:06+00:00

I know multiple guys who've approached 300 girls in a single week(myself included). This post is the equivalent of complaining that you're not making gains in the gym after 2 weeks of lifting.

Get to 3000 approaches, then you're talking.

It sounds like your mindset is rather negative - your expectation that girls won't like you permeates through your body language, tonality, etc..

You can successfully get dates by going direct with girls, if every girl you say that too is getting immediately turned off, a lack of confidence is the problem, not the line itself.

Personally, I like the line, "Hey, I liked your style and I had to say hi," a bit more than the "I thought you were cute line," - but honestly, any line can work if your subcommunications are on point.

bouncypoo · 2018-04-23T02:09:07+00:00

Depends on your swag bro. I’ve been hurt so many times by women, I frankly dgaf about them. I generally see them for more trouble than they are worth. Basically, when interacting with women I give an intensely disinterested vibe( sometimes I look upwards when I see them , maintain a stoic expression, mainly just fuck with their entitlement complexes also DHV). From this attitude I can ask or say anything to women with them eagerly responding. Cause I lack interest and just am shooting the shit they always reciprocate easily. I can sense they want me to number close them cause they become interested. But like I said I genuinely don’t really care right now to further things. Anyways few lines I used today...was at target asked 6/10 cashier in a patronizing tone , “ do you like working here”, ... she was like ,” it’s cool,” ... I was like “ what does cool mean” with a wtf face . Anyways more small talk continues she was eager, could have gotten number but I had ish to do. -Chick at target wardrobe , chubby (cute face)6/10 .... after I tried on 3 shirts I didn’t like 2 of them. So as I left I decided to fuck with her a little. She tells me to put the clothes down so I responded with an explanation with why I didn’t like the clothes . That being , “ this one was too small and let’s be real this color(baby blue ) looks gay af. She bursts out laughing then I dipped. No number cause I didn’t care.
- last chick 3/10 Kohl’s trick and next to her was a older 2/10(truly undesirable) but I wasnt trying to smash lol. Of course she’s like how are you, and replied , “glad you asked , I’m not completely dead inside” in a snarky tone. She laughed and in a flustered but humored tone she replied well that’s good. Older lady had a big ass smile on her face. - Reason I shared those stories is because they convey an attitude one can possess that reels chicks in. Just going with an idgaf vibe, bring them into your reality, throw them off balance ... have fun. Be outcome independent, drop your expectations and don’t take rejection so seriously -had I number closed would have been easy escalation to smash by texting them that they weren’t horrible and that I wouldn’t hate meeting up. Arrange date, meet up get drinks, invite to place , play it cool , you could care less , smash -life is your game

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-22T18:01:30+00:00

"Hey I just thought you were cute". Weak!

Try a more european line "You are beautiful, what's your name..." Don't be afraid to be direct, you're a man.

Title	The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...
Author	gtrman571
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Date	April 22, 2018 5:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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