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[–]WerkinAndDerpin 144 points145 points146 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Looks like someone just learned the f word
[–]PM_4_DATING_ADVICE 28 points29 points30 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously, the only thing missing from this post is * MIC DROP *
[–]Novasight 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Its Thursday dude where the hell am I gunna go? Dennys?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
a mall?
[–]Novasight 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those close at 5 here on weekdays and only have teenage girls roaming through em
[–]FarmerFred52 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find some happy hour bars by corporate offices. Go there on Thursday and Friday after 5:00.
[–]MetalPandaDance 32 points33 points34 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro
[–]lookingforapttolive 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Brooo, bro?
[–]harishblessyou 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Grim312 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lebrooo...n
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm playin pubg , tommorow I'll be going out
[–]brutusdidnothinwrong 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea its Thursday lol my sex life isn't even in the top 3 'lives' I care about
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn bro ready to rip a pussy in half after hearing this
[–]joenke36 73 points74 points75 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Christ, that was painful to read
[–]JamesDaquiri 47 points48 points49 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What an awful post
[–]SUCK_MY_DICTIONARY 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Men’s value tends to rise over time, so I would argue your average guy doesn’t just have 5-10 good years left.
[–]Wickedflex 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are alot of different factors though.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We're like fine wines
[–]PDX_Relationshipnerd 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly the type of post a 22 year old with no real game knowledge would make. It has no value but just urges people to go out and yell "Bro" at one another.
If you want to dispense good advice, start by learning yourself, refining your own game, and then sharing your experiences. It's fun to type into a keyboard the advice you should be taking on your own, but don't waste our time with directionless motivation. Save it for the gym.
[–]krivorukij 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I remember my first swear words!
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
C'mon, he's just trying to motivate people. Granted, his style is bit more blunt and upfront about it but his intentions are good.
[–]Jay_The_XXX 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What is RSD?
[–]braintrejo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Only the thing that changed my life
[–][deleted] 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]braintrejo 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's a thing called Google
[–]Aeon199 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I agree, but do you need the "status, decent career, exciting life, social circle" FIRST, before you approach?
If so, I'm screwed. I haven't the time left to get those things.
The only thing I can do now is approach, AS an autistic loser.. disabled by some metrics. I just have no time left for the other things, nor the ability to develop them adequately.
Some fools gonna say "no chance in hell" then? Because I can't have a normal life; my posture is always a little tense; I don't offer money or stability or much of conventional value?
The naysayers will not stop me. I guarantee some woman--eventually--will not care that I lack all that stuff, even at this advanced age. I'm going to get action, man.
Not going to listen to my inner voice anymore (I SUCK at everything; I'm worthless; can't do shit) nor the critics here ("build a good life foundation FIRST")..
I'm going to win.. so long as I try to meet women (as in your post OP.) Simple as that, but much easier said than done, of course. THAT I can use help with, not so much fixing what cannot be repaired (look, I can't have a normal life, that ship has sailed.)
[–]fuckingoddamnname 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Word.
[–]JUST_WANTTOBEHAPPY 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Read your comment and hope you doing well. I say go out and do approaches but also do , like you said "build a good life foundation" at the same time. While you're not approaching, fix your life. This is a journey and life process so take time and slowly groom it.
Edit: You can have a normal life, You just need help, and help comes when you start helping yourself first and slowly fixing yourself, be it woman or life.
[–]LimitedContributor 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been on it, dude.
[–]Kissofdeathxoxo 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Love it. Copy the text post it down here.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro. Seriously. Get your ass off the fucking chair and go out and do some fucking approaches bro. Stop being a little bitch and fucking watching YouTube videos all day and jerking off to RSD. That shit isn't gonna help in the real fucking world. You need to start being realistic. How many good years do you have left in you? Five? Ten? Are you gonna waste your fucking life sitting in your chair jerking off to infield videos or are you gonna actually take some action. Go out there and do the fucking work and the results will come if you're smart about it. Don't be a fucking chode who reads seddit all day and mentally masturbates to shit he reads from self-help books. I want you to go out and fucking approach one girl today. You know what, fuck that. Just say fucking hi to the person sitting down next to you on the train. Give the person walking down the street a compliment about how dope they look in those jeans. Just fucking start spreading positive energy and try to make yourself have fun. That's all this is bro. FUN. So go out there and take some fucking ACTION and stop jerking off in your mom's basement. PEACE OUT.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, this is advice? No thanks
[–]lexmarkpol 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
User name checks out
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Just don’t think you need to berate people and call them little bitches to encourage healthy social reactions
[–]lexmarkpol 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I admit the delivery was kinda unfiltered but the message is still there.
Also to be fair, I always wanted to post the "user name checks out" phrase so yeah, thank you for making a mans dream come true!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha anytime my dude!
[–]terrorium 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah this is not what motivates me and it especially doesn't help that it seems directed to men only with all the 'bro's. There are girls here too!
[–]tiredofpinging 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just curious. Why are there girls here? Assuming you keep your looks up, know how to smile and have a conversation, isn't it significantly easier to find guys to be with or talk to you than it is for dudes who have to actually approach, open, keep things interesting, etc?
What do you want to get out of this sub? I hope you didn't take this comment the wrong way. I'm just genuinely curious.
[–]terrorium 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You may not realize it but some girls are also into girls. Banging ladies as a lady... No matter how hot you are, it's an adjustment when you first start out. Ive never kissed a woman and that's my goal. Seduction helps because, unlike my attraction to men, I am not looking for a relationship. I'm romantically and sexually into guys but just sexually interested in women. I'd always just date and fall for a guy (traditional style) but I never had to use seduction before.
[–]tiredofpinging 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is a pretty damn interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing!
[–]hunterpua 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If someone throws a gold brick at your face and it draws blood, will you not keep the gold brick and exchange it for money?
It doesn't matter how nice you're treated when getting value. All that matters is you're getting value.
This man might have been abrasive in delivering his message but is he wrong? Is it bad advice?
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
go out and do some fucking approaches....
It should be added that there's no reason not to supplement the more traditional "approaches" where you're walking over to female strangers, with the "approach" of placing yourself in social situations where the wheels are greased because people are meeting up expecting strangers to talk to them. Things like:
[–]Apophyx 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/justlearnedthefword
Amen
Just play the numbers game.
[–]I_Axiom_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks teletubbyman!!!
[–]uniquan 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I learned from public speaking course that a wall of text is like a speech. But we are not trying to listen to you, we are trying to read. Where are the spaces?
[–]Effingehh 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Someone talked to a pretty girl on the train..
[–]Effingehh 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fair point
[–]AvocadoBeats 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for this, this made me do my first approach ever today!
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
How did it go?
[–]AvocadoBeats 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
She said she had a boyfriend... but hey one small step?
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How did it all happen? Where did you meet her?
[–]AvocadoBeats 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Walked into Target, made eye contact with a cute girl working there. She was my type so I was thinking of approaching her. I continued shopping for a while and then she came up to me and asked if I was finding everything ok. Asked for advice on some shampoo and tried to converse as much as possible but it was pretty awkward since i was nervous. She went back to whatever she was doing and minutes later i found her again and said "hey thanks for the recommendation, I actually thought you were cute, are you single?" she said thanks but i have a bf. I replied with oh well take it as a complment, have a nice day.
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Good on you for asking her out. Ita kinda tricky when dealing with a woman at work because you cant tell if shes feeling you or just doing her job.
[–]AvocadoBeats 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah true that. I really got the feeling she was feeling me. Also, it's hard to find more of these situations, where I WANT to approach a girl vs approaching just to approach.
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think if you wouldve approached her differently it probably wouldve gone a different way. I think the upfront approach probably scared her off a bit and maybe she said she had a bf just out of a defense mechanism since she was caught off guard. Maybe Im wrong though what do I know.
[–]AvocadoBeats 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah true maybe. It was the best I could do at the moment tho lol. #learning
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
At least you made the approach and had balls unlike me lol.
[–]NikeOil 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know if I feel more sorry for this guy or people taking him seriously. Follow your own advice bro bro
[–]dancier -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feel like a looser already when i came here for some inspiration. :)
[–]aatpacalypse97 -3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Already tried that. DIDNT WORK. They don't reciprocate. It only works if you are at least an 8/10 white male whose at least 6ft tall.
[–]fuckingoddamnname 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it's hopeless. Ask yer mom if you can move back in to the basement.
Srsly, i saw the softest, soyest, bespectacled dork with a cute girlfriend last night doing karaoke. If he can, you can. Stop crying.
[–]aatpacalypse97 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
what was his race? If he was white, then it doesn't count because whites have no negative stereotype. he probably still has more value than a tall 8/10 ethnic guy
R u fucking serious? Here's the short list: racist, greedy, callous, cant dance, goofy, less virile than any other race except maybe asians, priveleged, smell like wet dogs, small dicks...
Dont play that victim shit with me. Or yourself for that matter. It will get you NOWHERE.
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