How many here have been physically attacked by a woman?

mr_throwz · 2014-04-28T19:53:53+00:00

Every LTR I've had, and half the women I've dated for more than 2 weeks, felt it was within their rights, and an appropriate response to being upset, to strike me.

The justification was "I'm just a girl, how could I hurt you? Man up." - the response to that is "If you can't hurt me, then why strike me?" - they get quiet after that.

2014-04-28T18:39:04+00:00

When I was 14 my brother who was 12 had a knife pulled on him by some kid fishing near us a lake we were at. I told the kid to get lost I was calling cops, his older sister who was 17 comes out of nowhere and bashes me in the back of the head with the trucks side of a skateboard. In self defense I threw 2 punches at her. One hit her chest the second landed and broke her cheekbone and gave her a black eye. I then black out. Wake up and the 2 are gone.

Her dad who happens to be a cop shows up at my house that night trying to intimidate my mom saying I was going to get arrested and I should have never hit a woman. I said it was in self defense and showed where I was cut which ended up getting stitches. After everything was said and done apparently some pot heads one of which was my neighbor came forward with a tape they recorded on a phone of the whole thing from knife being pulled to me throwing 2 hits then passing out. Nothing ever happened to me but a police report was filed against his children which nothing ever came of either.

MattBoBat · 2014-04-28T20:00:59+00:00

Freshman year in the dorms. I was hanging out with an ex girlfriend for the first time after we broke up. I had no intention of hooking up, and was mainly hanging out to see how she had been doing.

Long story short, she showed up to my room extremely wasted and insisted on sleeping over. I should have just kicked her out, but I figured what the hell and let her climb in next to me.

Here's where it starts to get weird. I'm starting to doze off and I suddenly feel a hand down my pants on my dick. I wake up and realize she is trying to jerk me off so I asked her to stop. She didn't stop, and when I went to remove her hand she started getting really feisty. Next she pulled her pants and panties off and then started trying to force my pants off. I stood up and told her to get the fuck out to which she responded by throwing a tantrum. She kept refusing to leave until I said I would walk her back to her room. I thought at this point I was in the clear until we got to her door.

She opens her door but then starts refusing to go in without me, and starts screaming at me telling me to go with her. At this point I'm really pissed and tell her to go to bed and that she'll be thanking me in the morning. She continued to throw a fit and her neighbors all started opening their doors to see what the noise was about. The neighbors started asking her if everything is ok and all of that shit, so I felt that I needed to get the fuck outta there before it escalated any further.

I started walking away and turned the corner and hit the elevator button. I turned back around and my ex-gf had started following me down the hall. I started to tell her don't follow me, only to be surprised by her right hook to my face. My glasses went flying, and I stood there in shock. I thought to myself "Am I going to let her get away with hitting me like that?". I snapped back to my sense though and realized I'd be ending the night in cuffs if I even pushed her away from me, so all I did was pick up my glasses and walk away.

To this day I still believe she should have gotten at least a slap across the face for that shit, but I choose freedom > prison.

Jabroni12345 · 2014-04-28T19:17:50+00:00

I got punched in the back of the head at a concert by a 22ish, drunk woman. I was 26 or 27 at the time. It was a Coheed concert.

I was standing in front of her, probably about 8 rows from the stage and people are dancing, etc. all the sudden whack in the back of the head. I turn around to see what's happening and this chick is screaming obscenities at me and trying to look scary and aggressive while her BF is sorta trying to hold her back. He had that "dude, I'm sorry look" on his face.

Just for context, I'm 6'2 about 195lb, this woman is prob 5'6' 130, and her BF isn't much bigger.

Anyway, when I turned around and faced her she swung again at my face. I grabbed/deflected her hand away and kinda laughed b/c this was pretty funny. As I've got control of her right hand, I know exactly what's coming next: knee to the balls. She tries to knee me with her left leg, but I was anticipating it and turned away from it. Then sort of out of reaction I kicked/sweped her right leg (her only leg on the ground) out from under her and she fell pretty hard to the ground.

I guess the people around us saw what happened and what she did, so there wasn't any trouble there. I gave her BF a kind of reactionary "take a step towards me and I'll fucking pummel you" look and yelled something to the effect of "keep your woman in line!" But again, this dude was pretty embarrassed by his GF to start with, didn't do anything, and looked almost apologetic.

The woman was down on the ground for a bit, I think she hit her head on the ground when she fell, then she got to her feet, grabbed her BF and I guess moved or went to the bathroom or whatever.

Looking back it's kind of a funny story, but it's ridiculous to think this idiot woman thought she could assault me and face no consequences. I'm not about hitting anyone, but if you're gonna play that game, don't be surprised when a guy with 65lbs on you protects himself.

I remember just being stunned that she thought there would be no consequences for her actions. It's like she thought she could attack me b/c she's a strong, independent, woman....yet at the same time she felt entitled, b/c she's a woman, to not have to face the consequences of a physical alteration. Reminds me of that Bill Burr bit when's he's talking about how guys know that other guys have a line and if you cross it, you're going to have it coming back to you, but women feel like they can do whatever and, by virtue of being a woman, the man cant react/protect himself. Well, she assaulted someone who's 8" taller and about 65lbs heavier. I felt I showed a lot of restraint in just blocking her punch, turning away from her knee, then defending myself with minimal force to end the engagement. It's her fault she fell on the ground....maybe next time don't try to physically cause harm to someone who could kick the ever-living shit out of you. If that was a dude, I'm pretty sure I would've gone red.

HumbleEngineer · 2014-04-28T23:16:25+00:00

Was slapped and bitten by a plate.

My response? Slapped her butt and kept fucking her.

dman8000 · 2014-04-28T18:19:27+00:00

My girlfriend (now ex) got drunk and hit me until she got me to react. She did this ONCE. I told her in no uncertain terms that if she ever hit me again we were through.

She justified it as "she was drunk", "didn't mean it". For the next few months before the inevitable breakup, I could physically see her stop herself short of striking me whenever we argued. Literally would make a fist, lift it, and stop.

I'd like to point out, she apparently was not so drunk that my "you never get to hit me. Ever. You do it again, and we're through" had a lasting impression.

TheIronViking · 2014-04-28T21:47:54+00:00

Wife smacked me in the face when I was holding our baby in my hands.

2014-04-28T19:32:05+00:00

Long story short- the relationship with my ex had fallen apart to the point that we were only in it to hurt each other. Everything she tried didn't affect me. I used TRP and all her emotional manipulation didn't work. Frustrated, she hit me. I just laughed. Her punch landed dead in my chest where I have a lot of muscle and I felt like Superman. She swore and said she'd tell people I hit her (which is what she tried to get me to do by hitting me). I told her everyone would know that's bullshit because;

-If I hit her she would be bruised and badly hurt, not fine like she was.

-She would run and tell everyone I did it the minute it happened, not wait two weeks like she said she would to make up for the lack of bruises.

She's very obese and living with a cat now.

Acksiom · 2014-04-28T19:05:44+00:00

Not I, but happened to my brother a month ago.

One of his plates shows up to his house drunk, unannounced, and wanting to fuck bc she knows no one is home including my niece and nephew. My brother asks her to leave bc she is being sloppy, she starts making food in the kitchen. Brother asks her again to leave, she starts throwing shit around the kitchen, breaking shit and being crazy. Bro sees shits getting real, turns phone on record and places it on top of fridge so it records everything, she is so drunk she doesn't notice. Over the corse of 20 mins, all of which is being recorded my brother is being hit, punched, kicked, slapped, spit at, dishes thrown at him, and all while she is FUCKIN HITTING HERSELF making herself bruise and bleed. He staying in kitchen on purpose to stay on film. He grabs house phone calls our mom. Crazy bitch leaves house and passes out in her car which is parked in driveway. Mom shows up and tells bitch to leave, bitch drives away drunk. Checks phone for video and shows mom. He didn't hit back or lay a hand on her. Video successfully recorded. Police report filed, restraining order filed, and locks changed bc bitch might have stollen spare house keys. That video was fucking crazy to watch. Bitch tried to lie to police and say she was hit. Video contradicts what she said and showed she made it look like she was beat.

That video was the only thing that saved my bro from being arrested, bc no one is going to believe that a 6 foot 8 inch tall navy seal, didn't beat the shit our of a 5 foot 1 inch tall woman if she cries to the police with black eyes and cuts. No way.

slcjosh · 2014-04-28T19:23:06+00:00

I had an ex lash out at me a lot. The epic end of relationship fight, she threw a fucking bottle of bleach at my head. It missed, but still.

Dont stick your dick in crazy.

RedPillScare · 2014-04-28T20:47:44+00:00

I used to date this little Asian chick on and off in high school. Captain of the cheer leading squad and a former gymnast but bipolar as fuck. Broke up with her right before prom but said that I'd still take her cuz I felt obligated. She tried to grind on me and shit but I wasn't having it. I just sat down and chilled. Her friend came over to point out that she was getting grinded on by like 3 dudes at once on the dancefloor. I'm straight with seeing that so I walked out into the lobby and sat down alone to chill. One by one girls came out and sat down with me, laughing and joking and shit until we had a whole table of girls. All of a sudden crazy comes out with this scary look in her eyes. She grabs me by the leg and says we need to talk. I'm like na, I'm good. I just wanna go home. She walks calmly around the table, picks up a glass candle holder and chucks it at my head. Shit shattered on the wall next to my face. The girls at the table all froze while crazy ran out the door. The vice principle came running over to ask me, "WHAT DID YOU DO?"

I was like I said I wanted to go home. Dude looked at me like I had 3 heads. Ended up copping dome from her later that night. Shit was volatile.

LowlandsMan · 2014-04-28T20:13:53+00:00

Yup, several times by different woman. I'll just elaborate on the last time, since I think RP will like it.

A few friends and some of their friends and me were having a good time in a large club, one of the girls tagging along got really abnoxiously drunk and had to be removed by security because she kept climbing on stage and harrasing the DJ. At this point our group had split up a bit and the only people witnissing this were me and one of her friends. As the security guard try to remove her, she starts acting like a small child, throwing her arms around and letting herself sag to the floor. In the end tow security guards grab her by the arms and throw her out on her ass.

What follows can only be described by the phrase batshit-insane.

Stumbling around in a drunken stupor, in an alley behind the club, she states the intention to go pick a fight with the security guards who ejected her. She starts running towards the entrance of the club. At that time I was a huge beta, so the white knight in me stupidly decided to grab her from the back and try to keep her from running towards the entrance, while her friend tried to calm her down. Big fucking mistake. She pulls an impressively coordinated move of butting her heel in my nutsack, swining around while I let her go and punching me twice in my eye. (Literally directly on the eye, I had a nice bruise for at least a week). I loose my grip completly and off she goes.

It gets even better.

Not five minutes later, with me and the girl still standing at the back of the club, Four huge security guards come round the corner carrying her, all the while she's scrweaming and trying to punch, bite and scratch them. They explain that she assaulted two of them while trying to get back in, and they would be holding her in the office in the back untill the police arrive. I try to defuse the situation, but to no avail, they have already called the police. A couple of minutes pass and the police arrive and enter the office. I somehow thought that this would make thing calmer, because surely they would see she was very drunk, calm her down and send her on her way.

I was wrong.

Five minutes pass and our girl comes out, still screaming her lungs out, but no longer swinging, since she's been handcuffed and is being led into a cop car. A policeofficer with a red cheek explains that the moment they walked in the door she immediatly punched one of them, and then tried to hit the other cop. I shake my head in sadness, and we all decide to go home, since there is nothin more we could do for her. We're all a little bit shaken, mostly by her incredible stupidity.

the NEXT day:

She's released in the morning and absolutly nobody has pressed charges. I didn't (since I was/am a dumb ass beta white knight, and she was a friend of friends), nor the security guards (I assume since they probably had to be pretty rough to restrain her), nor the cops press charges. She sees my black eye and bruises, and starts hamstering away. Only after several of our friends pointed out that she had yet to thank me and apologize to me, I got a soft and wholly unsatisfactory; Oh well, I'm sorry, but... etc. etc.

tl;dr: Blonde assaults me, two security guards and a cop. Get's away with it.

2014-04-28T19:15:45+00:00

Like the common theme here it seems, it was my ex. It was an argument and things got heated. We had both raised our voices, and after I told her she needed to calm down she slapped me. I backed up quickly and so she got me in the chest instead of my face. Now we were both college athletes, me hockey and her a rower, so we were both in very good shape. I looked at her straight in the eye and told her that was the only time she was ever going to hit me. She said "Oh really?" and swung at my face again, this time with a fist. To her wide eyed surprise, I caught her hand by the wrist. (It was a long looping hook, saw it coming from a mile away). After a couple seconds she starts squirming and telling me to let her go, I did and left. She came over to my place an hour later, had totally forgot about the argument and was horny. And that is also how I learned (granted this was before TRP subreddit existed) that TRP works.

phil_mcrevis · 2014-04-28T19:49:36+00:00

During one of a million arguments, I called my ex a heartless bitch due to how she had forced me to treat someone else (she was always incredibly jealous and accused me of wanting to fuck other girls weekly...she made me cut off all contact with someone without being able to explain why and I hated that).

Anyway, it's super complicated but she got pissed when I called her that and full on punched me in the face. Broke my glasses (thankfully not the lens or the cunt could have blinded me) and left a red mark on my right cheek but luckily no black eye. I told her to get the fuck out of my car and I drove off. My blood pressure boils just recalling this shit. I sometimes have a temper and have hit walls and pillows but never another person. I don't know how the hell I took it so calmly. I think I was in shock about the fact I had let it get to that point.

windycityman · 2014-04-28T20:24:03+00:00

In my college days I was into dating the trashy hot types. They are a volatile bunch. This is the type that the movie "Ted" was making fun of. You know, the blonde bitch that goes off on Mila Kunis because she takes every comment as a slight against her.

Anyway, this girl decided it would be a good idea to provoke a fight in a fuckin bar. She justifies it because some girl who was a friend of my friend kept coming up to us when we were playing darts and she was being drunk and flirty. I ignored her. But the girl I was with didn't see it that way. She provokes a fight with this girl, we break it up and she turns her anger on me. Starts hitting me and making a scene in the bar.

Now you know what happens when a chick starts hitting a guy in a bar? Everyone else who has no idea what led to it starts looking over wondering what did this guy do to this poor girl? Guys start coming over and saying shit like "is this guy bothering you?" And what does a crazy bitch say to that? "Yea I hate this mothafucka." And other crazy shit.

Some guy grabs me and says "hey man you need to get away from her."

The only thing that saved me, since the incident was beyond my control at that point, was I was with 2 friends who intervened. One of them grabbed me and basically dragged me out of the bar. The other guy had my back in case I got sucker punched.

This crazy bitch came running after us and we just high tailed it to the nearest friendly house. Lesson learned. Luckily I didn't have to deal with the cops or get my ass kicked by some white knights in the bar.

nduece · 2014-04-29T04:51:20+00:00

Butch lesbian threw a punch at me for flirting with her gf, I knocked her out. 0 fucks given.

UrNameIsToby · 2014-04-28T20:26:13+00:00

My ex-wife started on me twice. I am a 6'4" former Navy diver. So it's not like she could hurt me. I grabbed her wrists and forced her hands to her side and said 'you are not allowed to hit me'.

It was when she was cracking up just before I filed for divorce. For a while, I did worry that I might wake up with a pair of scissors in my chest.

TheSKSpecial · 2014-04-28T20:40:39+00:00

Been hit by my wife before. Not with a weapon or anything, just fists. In the past I'd just cover up, because I was afraid if I hit her back she'd call the cops. It's kind of funny looking back, a 6' 230 lb man who had been taking MMA classes and doing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu duck and covering from a 5'4 100lb woman.

Anyway, one day I had enough (this was in the beginning of me learning about TRP). We were in the living room arguing and I just started walking away and into the bedroom because I knew if I stayed I was going to knock her the fuck out and end up in jail. So she comes behind me and starts hitting me in the head.

I turned around and hip-tossed (harai-goshi for the Judo folks amongst us) her onto the bed and held her in side control until she realized she couldn't move and I wasn't going to let her up. Never actually struck her, all I did was lean my body weight on her.

Then I told her she would not hit me again.

I think the combination of me being completely calm, never raising my voice or showing emotion while looking her in the eyes, and the implication that I could easily fuck her up and she'd be completely helpless to stop me made her realize she only got away with hitting me because I let her do it. And I wasn't going to let her do that anymore.

Keep in mind I'd never actually harm her, but that day I put the fear in her mind that I easily could and would if she crossed that line again.

Yeah, I lost frame by reacting to her actions, but I think that was one of the big turning points of the RP-ization of my marriage. And if she was only a girlfriend I would have left.

2014-04-28T21:14:52+00:00

An ex girlfriend of mine she was a hot goth girl and a fucking awesome root but she was mental. I guess goth guys are a push over and from what I saw of the scene I would have to agree. Reason we ended was I couldn't stand what a hypocritical double standard bitch she was.

Things were ending and she got all "suicidal" which made things linger on more than they should have. I was at my house when she suddenly rocked up with two goth guys intending to beat me up which was kinda funny as they were scrawny and I was fit and lean and she damn well knew I did mma. I told them to kindly go fuck themselves and she launched at me. Now make no mistake the amount of rings she wore made getting hit was a very scary prospect indeed you could lose an eye or easily have permanent scars.

Dodged the first attack spun her around and pushed her over then the other guys who were just standing there because they hadn't processed what had happened yet I quickly hit one in the nose and the other in the chest winding him then shut my door.

Sadly this event happened several times and they started bringing more people and ambushed me but luckily for me goth guys can't fight for shit and just aren't aggressive at all but I suppose she was paying them off with her pussy as I am sure she was fucking two of them. Both of them wanted a relationship with her though :P.

esco_ · 2014-04-28T21:49:30+00:00

drunk feminist friend suprise attack throttled me as she thought i had eaten her food (somone told her it was me). It was kind of in jest, she wasn't going 100% and it didn't hurt, although it was annoying

I just laughed it off. Looking back, i should have just disabled her attack (would have been very easy) in a way that let her know she went overboard.

I'm not normally one to hate on feminism, but damn... "we should all be treated equal in every facet of life" vs "im a girl so i can throttle you if i want".

vengefully_yours · 2014-04-29T00:30:43+00:00

Multiple times, ex wife, some girlfriends, and a couple drunk twats. I'm a muscular man and wrestled for years, so I could have stopped them. Problem is if I act in kind, or leave a mark defending myself, I go to jail for a long time. If I could stop them I would, so I would try to leave or restrain them just enough they couldn't hit me anymore.

The cops never cared about what happened to me, only if I hit or harmed her.

Meatclap · 2014-04-29T02:23:02+00:00

Many times, by women I knew and women I didn't. It's totally okay, because they have a vagina so the law says they can be violent toward me because I am an adult with a penis. It's happened a lot so listing them all would take up way too much time. I will give a few examples:

Girlfriend grappling and pulling at me when I didn't play her game and beg her not to dump me when she did. I just started to walk away and it got ugly, went from touching my shoulder to trying to pin me. I wound up walking away from that once I talked her down.

A jealous female friend losing her shit over a girl I was dating. This girl was visiting with me for a weekend and the friend showed up, tried pushing through me to kick my door in and fight the woman there, who by the way was scared out of her wits. Talked her into leaving, she later expressed shame for her unbelievable action.

Jr High, I waved at a girl i had a crush on, and a girl that was a friend and had (unbeknownst to me) a crush on me, was sitting beside me, so jealous that her face was red the whole time. My waving at the cutie down the bleachers was too much, she lost it and slugged me in the balls. I didn't say anything, I just sat there for bout 15 minute trying not to barf, had some cramping pains in my sides and in my thighs for a while, and eventually managed to get up and leave. She was friends with my crush as well, and convinced her I was a dog. Never saw them again.

leaving out the shit about being beaten as a child and being violated, all by women. Don't want to go into that or into anything much worse than I've written about. Suffice to say they happened, it was all really awful, and in most cases I was too young and powerless to do anything but endure until I could get away. In nearly every instance people belittled me for it because boys/men cannot be victimized by women. I'll say no more on that bullshit.

2014-04-28T21:14:37+00:00

of course, on multiple occasions, but i really don't have the energy to recall those stories again. young women think that the law doesn't apply to them, and in practice, that's true.

2014-04-28T21:51:03+00:00

My ex that was the catalyst to me becoming fully red pill used to wail on me like a fucking crazy bitch

mikelovesvegas · 2014-04-28T22:14:16+00:00

My wife playfully poked me in the side to get a reaction when I was ignoring her (I was reading a book and she "wanted to talk"). I snapped and went all champ on her.

I didn't technically hit her. I grabbed her wrists and made her hit herself while laughingly asking "why are you hitting yourself?". Sex was had. I think she likes the reminders that I can physically overpower her any time I please.

bradyo2 · 2014-04-28T22:22:13+00:00

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2014-04-29T00:29:59+00:00

Why do y'all wait for the cops to show up when you get into a fight? Every alteration I've ever been in, me and whoever I'm with scram before police even get called.

trpdr · 2014-04-29T01:34:36+00:00

Fuck, I got physically assualted last week.

long story short, I was hanging out with some friends. Normal 5 flirts, I ignore because I would rather not stick my dick into a trashbag full of chicken noodle soup. She ups her game. I make fun of her. She thinks it is going well. I turn it unkind, and call her fat. Bitch tries to grab my throat. I deflect without putting down my beer. She gets super pissed. She goes for a right whatever those bullshit punches that start in the elbow are called. BOOM. Arm lock, leg sweep, ground. Ensue hamstering.

Her: "You're assaulted me!":. Me: "No, you tried to assault me. I am defended myself." Her: " I was defending myself. You VERBALLY assaulted me" Me: "I guess you don't understand the law. Let's call the cops and explain what happened." (pick up phone) Her: cries)

Plate begs me to not call. Two hours later plate comes over and asks me to apologize because I hurt her feelings. I ask plate if I missed something: I make fun of girl, she tries to hit me, I stop her twice without hitting back, and she wants me to apologize? Everyone backs off.

A week later (sunday) fat girl apologizes to me.

Meglomaniac · 2014-04-29T02:52:49+00:00

I definitely have, multiple times in work at the bar as a bouncer.

One time I stepped in between two girls fighting in the parking lot and one girls friends all turned on me and I had about 1

2014-04-29T04:04:11+00:00

Both of us wasted. She really wanted some dick. The only condom I had broke and I had in my head that i was not going to bare back her. She flipped shit, started pulling my hair and punching me in face. At first, it started off playful, but quickly escalated to some pretty forceful blows. I had to physically subdue her and tell her to quit. After a while, she relented. After sobering, She had no justifications, only that she sorry for going nuts and cried a little bit. Did not think of it at the time, but had the roles been reversed, my life would be destroyed if she took me to court.

bgny · 2014-04-29T04:07:25+00:00

In a volatile relationship when I was 18. There was an argument, and she punched me in the face with a cigarette in my mouth, which exploded in sparks all over me and in my eyes. In a blind rage I grabbed her arms, and as she was still trying to hit me, I swung one of her arms to the side and meant to slap her with an open hand. The heel of my hand connected with her jaw and she crumpled to the ground unconscious. I had never hit a girl before and never did again. You can do real damage to a women even if you aren't trying, especially if your adrenaline is flowing. Luckily she never called the cops. But the second one did.

Argument ensues, she starts punching me, she's done this before. I usually cover up and let her punch my back. She gets a good shot on my spine so I grab her arms to stop her. She is struggling wildly and there are bruises left on her arms., she gets them easily. She knows this. After I let her go she calmly goes to the phone, whips up some hysteria and calls the police. I am arrested on a Friday night, and get to spend the weekend in jail for defending myself. If you've never slept on a stainless steel bench with no pillow or blanket, it's not the best night's sleep you can have. She eventually drops the charges,and the judge tells me I'm lucky. Right.

So now I avoid women who get violent at all cost, and never retaliate. Just walk away (run if you have to) and leave.

TheIronViking · 2014-04-29T04:37:52+00:00

Basically every girl I've been involved with has struck me at some point beyond the playful slapping that you'd expect. I'm talking fully chambered punches and kicks meant to cause injury. Usually during a verbal argument or some random drunk asshole.

I lift a lot and would qualify it as my main hobby. On first appearances, it's highly unlikely I'd get singled out for an easy fight, even for in-shape dudes.

I get the feeling girls hit because they think it's ineffective for injury, thus it's permissible. Sort of like a punching bag to vent on. I consider it a deal breaker. Neither gender should have to put up with abuse.

Story: I was with a girl I was dating for roughly a month at a party along with some friends of ours. At some point in the evening I must have said or done something to piss her off because she very rapidly became cold and distant with me. I'm barely even buzzed (I tend to drink less to keep watch over my friends.) I confront her in private and ask her why she's acting so mean.

She's trashed and belligerent.

She slaps me after saying what I believe was "fuck you, if you don't know then your an even bigger asshole." She runs out of the run I took her to in order to talk shit out in private, and back out into the party. I follow her and try to calm her down. She whips around and plants her fist straight into my left cheek.

About 1 nanosecond after landing the hit her face goes from angry to terrified, as I barely even acknowledged the hit. (I conditioned and boxed with my brother growing up, and this chick was a tiny little vegan.) I knew if I even showed the slightest anger I could end up in a white knight brawl or in jail, so I just remained stoic and told her to walk away and rejoin her friends. I just gave her an empty stare, not even an angry one. Just empty and unyielding. She did and I left. I deleted her number on the walk home.

2014-04-29T07:16:22+00:00

When I was 12, I went on a trip with my mother to China. She has never treated me well and she was basically the definition of a spoiled woman in America: entitled, selfish, abusive, and never listening to anyone. Chinese customs are a lot more blunt compared to American ones. I didnt really speak much Chinese while she was completely fluent. So while we were touring a city, someone cut in line for a restaurant. So what does she do? Ask me to defend her. A 12 year old boy who didn't even speak the language of the city.

I was really furious. Throughout the trip, she was always saying what a horrible child I was and always yelling at me, as if the trip was her excuse to berate me and the exchange for me being on the trip was her priviledge to abuse me even more. That's when I had it and I finally told her to shut up and stop being so obnoxious and to leave me alone because she was abusive (in English, of course). But that only angered her some more and she proceeded to embarass me in line with Chinese that I could barely understand (something along the lines of "you can't defend your mother. I give you ---- life. Why don't you protect --").

That's when I jabbed her in the gut. Just once. She stumbled and immediately, I was grabbed by everyone in line. They wagged their fingers at me and yelled at me in Chinese about how I shouldn't hit a woman, even though they all saw her yelling at me. I shook them off and ran as fast as I could to an arcade in the city and hid out there, playing some games. At around 10pm, I went back to the hotel and did not say a word to her. I slept in the same hotel and we have not talked ever since.

I think she finally understood that her attempts at brainwashing me weren't working. Her overagressive behavior to try and manipulate me into being against my dad (she is a divoricee) finally backfired. She began to treat my sister much nicer since then and she doesn't like our dad. I dont think I have mommy issues since I hold no malice towards her. I simply pity what a pathetic control freak she is and how desperate she was to try and subjugate me to what was essentially the blue pill.

Acksiom · 2014-04-29T01:27:00+00:00

When I was just a boy, my mother shoved me onto the filthy floor of a movie theater and put her foot on my neck to keep me there, because she was "ashamed to be seen with me."

About ten years later at the end of my first summer back from college she snatched a carving knife out of the dishrack and tried to gut me with it.

Special twist ending: my father was in the kitchen doorway watching her try to push my buttons and failing, and after I had dodged and taken the knife away from her, he finally moved between us to protect her from me.

jonesbusiness · 2014-04-28T19:33:02+00:00

I've been on the receiving end of it. Basically she tried to slap me. I grabbed her and told her I wouldn't let go until she calmed down. She did and I promptly dismissed her. That was it. If you're a dude and she swings, if no blood is shown from her hit and you retaliate, you're toast. Forget it. She'll win in the courts every time.

Menadian · 2014-04-28T20:25:51+00:00

I have. My ex got very angry at me once or twice because I did not agree with all the shit she spewed out and I am and was way more articulate than her, which ended out in her pushing/hitting me. First of all - I do not take shit like that. Second of all - I had been martial artist teacher for 2 years at that time and knew very well what I was allowed to do and what not. I responded by using a very defensive move and turned her attack away (painfully for her, but totally justified). She quite quickly found out I would allways respond with greater power than her. Never start out, but allways respond and ofc never in the same track as her.

2014-04-28T22:01:50+00:00

A few years ago a friend lit my hair on fire. I put it out quickly, so no actual burns, just an apartment that smelt like that nasty burnt-hair smell. She was thrown outside for about 10 minutes and then was forgiven by everyone there because "no harm done".

gprime312 · 2014-04-29T01:15:57+00:00

When I was in grade 4, some fat bitch pushed me from behind because I was talking to her friends or some shit I don't remember. After I got up, I managed to get a knee in the crotch (I was a little bitch back then) before the fight broke up. The cunt smiled at me in the office as she was wiping away her crocodile tears. I got sent home for the say and she got off scot-free even though she fucking started it.

2014-04-29T01:57:28+00:00

My coked up ex punched me about 20x the day I finally left her. Best day of my blue pill existence - a real reason to leave.

FloranHunter · 2014-04-29T04:00:42+00:00

I was attacked when I was a teenager. She was just mad that I wouldn't give her my lunch money (seriously). This was a grown-ass woman too, not some kid bully.

2014-04-29T04:54:36+00:00

I tried to break up a fight between my friend and his girlfriend. She punched me in the face. I just starred her down as she high on pills and I did not want to make things worse. Overall I knew what I was getting into when I tried to break it up.

wttr · 2014-04-28T18:17:48+00:00

What happened:

My ex punched me once while I was falling asleep. We had gotten in a fight earlier over some stupid shit and I didn't want to continue the pointless drama so I went to bed, jolted awake by a fist to my back. She said I didn't respect her enough to listen to her argument.

How I dealt with it:

I rolled over.

gt35r · 2014-04-28T19:17:53+00:00

The girl I was under the radar dating/fucking for about 4 months used to think it was funny to punch me and other guys in our circle in the balls. Her bf before let her do it to guys when they were in like a 3 year relationship and never corrected her so I assume that's why she continued. On the night of my birthday we were getting in the car and she hit me pretty good right in the boys and it was a really severe pain, worse than ever. I told her multiple times to not do it and to stop with the kindergarten shit. Got back at her by sticking it in her ass a few times on "accident" but I was under a spell with her so I almost let it happen. To clarify she thought this was just funny to see our reactions. Not at all was it funny any time.

I know it's not as bad as her kicking my ass/stabbing me. But looking back, that is very fucked up and can cause testicular problems very quickly and I will never let it happen to me again.

MrStinky · 2014-04-28T22:36:34+00:00

I had an ex who hit me. Many times. Bite, scratched, punched, kicked, slapped. All pre-red pill. I was very blue pill beta.

Post-red pill = you touch me once, we're through!

pushajudas · 2014-04-29T15:02:41+00:00

I've had three physical altercations that stick out in my mind. Here's the first one, pre-RP.

I was at a small "party", which was pretty much just for our circle of friends and no randoms walking in. There was one girl who was mates with the hostess, some mammoth broad that was probably 5'11" and weighed at least 18 stone. She was drunk out of her mind on PJ. She had been eyeing me all night, which I ignored since I was trying to smash the hostess and wasn't completely devoid of dignity.

Everyone is getting drunk and having a good time. I completely screw myself over with the hostess, so I start taking shots and recalibrating myself to just have fun getting shitfaced (ie to get out of my bitch-born funk). The mammoth of a woman comes over and starts taking shots with me and two of my mates, flirting heavily with me. I still ignore it, hoping she would give up. Eventually I started to try to turn her down as friendly as possible, to no avail. I text one of my female friends and tell her to pull me out of there, so she comes over and pulls me away for a smoke.

Apparently that's not okay, cause this large broad decided to come after us and attack us for embarrassing her (although I was trying to avoid embarrassing her in the first place).

Despite being a beta faggot, I rejected feminism already and was a firm believer in self-defense. She came at us and swung at my female friend, but I got in the way to take the hit. She quickly got away and stepped behind some other guys, while the hambeast kept attacking me. She was doing some terribly-executed martial arts and tried to roundhouse kick me. I caught her leg and leaped towards her without letting go of the leg, which ended with her falling on her ass and me barely resisting the urge to step on her.

My mates backed me when the hostess found a wailing beached whale on the ground. The female friend who I asked for help saved me, since she was the hostess' best friend and vouched for me.

All in all, my dick was dry that night and my fag burned me on the arm, which I didn't notice due to almost being trampled by a mammoth.

2014-04-29T16:15:21+00:00

Physically beaten - Yes Sexually assaulted - Yes

In the former case the justification was that it was a laugh to beat up on a guy cos i was a "loser" and couldn't hit them back. Literally.

In the case of the sexual assault it was simply "fuck off you loved it"

aBitClearer · 2014-08-19T22:37:22+00:00

My EX-wife used to slap me in the face for no reason whatsoever. Sometimes she would lie in wait and surprise the shit out of me, sometimes it was a slap while passing each other in the hallway, and then there were the times in the kitchen while my hands were full. The slaps were not particularly hard, nonetheless, I developed a kind of tick, where I would anticipate the slap, but none came. She would say, "What the fuck are you doing, did you think I was going to slap you?".

Other times, she would make the move, then pull her hand quickly down with a "see I made you flinch" maneuver.

As a total BETA, I would be more butt hurt over it, asking why she would want to slap me in the first place. It is not like I "deserved" it.... She would say, "Take it like a man! Don't be a baby!", and the like. She said that a woman needs to beat-up her man every now and again and he should be able to take it.

It just blew my mind that she thought it was ok for her to hit me, but MOST CERTAINLY NOT TO HIT HER BACK! Not that I would have, but it was her sense of entitlement that twisted my mind.

Toward the end of our horrible marriage, she started sleeping apart from me, not b/c we were fighting, just b/c she knew it bothered me. So one night, I got up to look for her, saw her on the couch, turned around to go back into the bedroom and WHAM....a full wind-up, closed fist punch to the back! Knocked the wind right out of me.

Said she was sorry for that and would not do it again.

Should have called the police and had her arrested, but real men don't do that, right?

yea_tht_dnt_go_there · 2014-04-29T00:51:09+00:00

I was slapped in the face by my ex. I was being a dick but hitting me was uncalled for.

analrapeage · 2014-04-29T05:30:00+00:00

I really dislike where this thread and angle of RedPill is going. Listen I believe in hypergamy and the fickle nature of women as much as the next guy. But I also believe in never raising a hand to a woman and that yes, sometimes they do hit, but usually not enough to cause damage. Guys on here need to stop crying about rape and getting hit by women; were much stronger than they are, if they hit you just walk away it isn't a big deal. Tired of some dudes adopting this feminist butthurt mentality of crying victim to stupid shit. Accept that we are in charge, have responsibilities (that we deserve) and as a result must put up with annoying shit from time to time. Dudes don't get raped by chicks except in extreme situations and the vast majority of those hit come away with 0 injuries. This isn't an issue.

Title	How many here have been physically attacked by a woman?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	29
Comments	110
Date	April 28, 2014 6:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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