A lot of women, especially ones you meet in bars, clubs, etc, will say these things about you as an insult. Often it’s in regards to appearance (physical or in terms of clothing), since that will be 90% what they are judging you by. I’m a woman, I know.

Right, so how do you actually deal with this?

Don’t put up with that shit. For the most part just don’t play along with it, whether that means finding another girl who doesn’t do that (there are a lot) or making it known you have self respect and won’t tolerate berating shit like that.

You know how many times I’ve seen a guy crumble or play along with it? A lot. Playing with it can work sometimes, if the girl wants to be the more dominant force, but for the most part it makes a guy look unattractive in that he’ll appear weak.

Being able to joke about things when thrown your way is good. Being able to take control of a situation is good. But being insulted? That girl will unlikely last a long time.

Note the difference if she’s just a playing around vs if she’s actually insulting you. If she’s playing around then she’s good. Relationships and hookups are better when you get along with the person. Don’t put yourself down for someone else. It’s not all about shit tests, because “playing the game” is fucking stupid.

TLDR: Have self respect or you’ll look weak. Shit tests are usually from shit people.

Edit: Guys, I’m not the fish. I’m Bisexual. I’ve caught your damn fish. 2: Guy, chill. Women are people too, not objects.