I finally did it, I had my first and a successful cold approach. Went to chick fil a and saw this girl way out of my league in line, I wanted to talk to her but couldn’t find the opportunity. She got her food and left, then I got mine and went outside and to my surprise she was sitting alone at the first picnic table. I went over and asked if the spot in front of her was taken and we ended up talking for two hours. She even asked for my Snapchat before I got the chance to ask. She also was the first to being up meeting again. That was the good news but here’s the bad Later that day I text her and we set a day to meet. (We met Monday and are set to have lunch again Thursday). Yesterday afternoon I sent a “hey” message to her snap and haven’t heard back. She posted on her story a few hours after my message was sent about it being good to be back at the gym. Currently it’s on delivered for 18hrs. At this point I don’t expect a reply, though I’m gonna go to the spot we agreed to meet at the designated time as a Hail Mary + it’s at a chick fil a so I win either way. Lesson of the story, as a 4 you CAN approach 8’s and could hit it off but it won’t work out everytime. Though if you can work up the courage to approach an 8 as a 4 then you can approach anyone.