The point of this post is to point out the difficult challenge of overcoming barriers to existential problems of seduction and how the result is worth it.

Recently, someone posted the result of increased female attention after becoming more fit. His argument is that the response to the result may be negative and resentment.

You could be the most evil human being on this planet. You could be a saint. You could be rich, and you could be poor. Yet, the difference in your social and sex life could be just a difference of 15KG. Of course, I'm using an arbitrary number to express a concept.

Does it bother you that so much of what you imagine comprises you as an individual has to take a backseat to your physical presence? If it does, you're not alone. It doesn't change how nature and human behavior work, unfortunately.

Now, what if it were true? What if it was true that everything you want in a relationship, from the women you want to date, the friends and family you have and how they treat you - was only 15KG? I'll take your denial and excuses in stride and consideration.

I imagine you'd be angry.

How could you treat me this way?! I'm still the same person. What if I lost muscle/gained weight again? Are these people going to be back to treating me as before? Women are ridiculous!

The truth is - it is innately human to do so. You may find yourself treating others differently in the mere balance of just 5-10-15KGs

The better question is - is it worth it?

Is it worth it to put on an extra slab of 15KG of muscle on yourself? Is it worth it to shed 15KG of fat to see the difference in how you are treated? Of course. The answer is, "Of course." The difference in a life and death situation are sometimes a few seconds, a few nanoseconds. The difference in your life turning around and getting what you want out of it could be a mere 15KGs. It is absolutely worth it to find out. It is absolutely not arbitrary.