Got a girls number at the bar, how long should I wait to write her, and what should I say?

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-04-07T04:23:59+00:00

Did you at least talk to her for at 20-30 min or more, physically escalate, dance with her, make out with her, etc. Did you actually develop a connection with her? Most bar numbers are meaningless once the liquor wears off.

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-04-07T04:23:07+00:00

Bruv text her immediately but have a plan with the text you want or covey what connected you to each than ask her on a date it’s really simple you don’t want to hang around you need to know if she’s down , but this is also why you put in the work when you meet her so texting is just about seeing her again , if you didn’t make a good connection with her getting the number is like picking up lint

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-04-07T04:32:01+00:00

When I get a girls number I usually text her back that same night. the magic of the interaction gets lost if you don't respond back fast.

432olim · 2024-04-07T04:34:48+00:00

The conventional wisdom is absolutely do not make her wait and get back to her asap.

Migluee · 2024-04-07T04:46:42+00:00

When I get a girls number in person I take a selfie with them and send it to them. Sometimes I don’t remember what they looked like, and it kinda eliminates the whole when do I text them thing

shittybillz · 2024-04-07T04:34:35+00:00

We need some more context. How long did you spend with her, was there any physical contact, kissing etc.

Regardless don’t wait too long. The contents of the text will change based on how things went concerning the above questions though

OriginalAZVIC · 2024-04-07T04:51:25+00:00

The next day before 11 am.

toporagno13 · 2024-04-07T09:16:58+00:00

text the next day; write something funny or flirty related to something you experienced together the day before so she will recall the moment and remember more about you.

My experience: once I found this girl eating an ice-cream on a bench. I started talking to her and she stopped eating the ice-cream, which was melting. She gave me her number and the day after I texted her with "feel sorry for that ice-cream. I think I owe you one now :)".

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-07T11:36:10+00:00

If you really think you are THAT unremarkable that she will forget your existence in an hour, then you have higher problems.

IamWisdom · 2024-04-07T20:06:34+00:00

The next day bro most likely she doesnt care and won't respond dude. No matter what strat you use.

HentaiMD · 2024-04-08T04:07:27+00:00

There’s always next year bro

atomant88 · 2024-04-07T10:01:53+00:00

Text the next day 'so nice to meet you. Are you free this weekend? I'd love to take you rock climbing*"

*or whatever date you want to take her on

Title	Got a girls number at the bar, how long should I wait to write her, and what should I say?
Author	Alfaromero97
Upvotes	13
Comments	29
Date	April 7, 2024 4:18 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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