Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?

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ChicoBrillo · 2024-04-10T14:46:47+00:00

"we're both looking for casual encounters"

Sounds like she is but you're not. Isn't the nature of a casual encounter to be something either one off, low stakes, no strings attached etc?

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-04-10T15:24:15+00:00

1st - If you did it 4x and she came 1 time - she probably didn’t - probably just wanted it to be over

2nd - casual means just for sex , stop annoying the girl . When she or you want dick or pussy (respectively ) just call .

3rd - yea read a book about rough sex . Try again

doyouknowshmolik · 2024-04-10T14:53:36+00:00

If she told you she’s looking for casual relationship, then this is what she means by it, she means you are not being in contact until one of you want to fuck the other again.

If you want to fuck her again, just say it to her and don’t overthink it.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-10T15:11:53+00:00

You just weren't very good at it. Just take it as a man.

CompleteEducator2966 · 2024-04-10T15:37:51+00:00

Guys, if you have sex with a woman and she starts ghosting and acting different and uninterested after having sex it generally means that the sex wasn't that good or you did something weird/off putting before or after. Women (and people in general) don't have sex with a person once and not want to see them ever again if the sex was really good and they are attracted to that person.

Miguell7 · 2024-04-10T16:19:10+00:00

If you are young, you are probably very bad in bed.

513bae · 2024-04-10T14:47:50+00:00

it probably wasnt what she expected & if u have to think if she came she didn’t.

fromthahorsesmouth · 2024-04-10T17:21:05+00:00

If you had sex 4x in the same encounter, it still counts as a ONS and not 4 different sexual encounters.

Just let her be and have her get back to you. If she liked the sex, she will.

OKKira · 2024-04-10T19:55:42+00:00

I think guys, especially younger guys, don't understand how much attention we receive, especially if we're attractive. We are just as horny as you guys, the difference is that we have fwbs on rotation.

Sudden-Conference-65 · 2024-04-10T15:30:43+00:00

Be chill and focus on other women. Send her a text that’s not serious in a few days. Comedowns are the worst. She’s prob catching up on life and not in the hookup headspace just yet so don’t smother her

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-04-10T17:24:52+00:00

unlikely since we did it 4x, she came once I believe

That's why she lost interest.

Work on your bedroom skills.

bluekid3 · 2024-04-10T14:37:19+00:00

she found someone else

bobyd · 2024-04-10T16:45:04+00:00

If both said casual what do you expect?

Additional_Don · 2024-04-10T18:18:20+00:00

No strings attached, accept, move on.

Videogamesarereel · 2024-04-10T19:20:54+00:00

You are more than likely coming off as too needy.

I would move on focus and on other prospects.

Ok-Class-1451 · 2024-04-10T23:49:26+00:00

Sounds like the sex was disappointing. She probably has a lot of other options.

Comprehensive_Slip61 · 2024-04-11T00:46:55+00:00

Sounds like you had sex 4 times and she faked an orgasm

MrAnonPoster · 2024-04-11T01:01:43+00:00

You suck in bed

SirJerALot · 2024-04-10T15:53:43+00:00

This culture is so fucked!

SaltoDaKid · 2024-04-10T19:13:22+00:00

OP you are naive, she wants a relationship probably fallen for you and give up her body for you. She probably not feeling any love from you. Yet you say “not being needy” like what does that mean. She a women you had sex with, any women you have sex with you should bare the responsibility of caring for the women cause if she ends up pregnant your HER BABY FATHER. I feel like you need understand being a man isn’t putting your dick in girl doesn’t make you a man. Caring protecting and loving other make you a real man. Talk to her and let her know you are a man she can rely on or just admit your true intentions.

NewOCLibraryReddit · 2024-04-10T23:46:47+00:00

Bro, she is a pump and dumper. This is what I try telling you guys. There are only two types of women, like night and day. A high value woman will put in effort to be with only one man for the rest of her life. She will have much more to offer than looks and WAP. These type of women are rare, but there.

Keep it moving. Text her/call her in a few days to reconnect, but keep it moving.

Title	Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?
Author	IsThi5Now
Upvotes	30
Comments	48
Date	April 10, 2024 2:29 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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