One thing I've noticed when men are speaking/debating with women is that they often affirm the women's feelings even when she is wrong. It's a common counter that women deploy against men that works way too often as it should, it often goes like: "So you're saying you're ok with women getting xyz..." And men, even though that's obviously not what they meant, will reaffirm with "of course not but..." Stop doing that! You're reaffirming them, and it spoils them to acting like children! Stand up for yourself in these types of debates and don't fall for the guilt trip. That's all... just wanted to get it off my chest.