Time for a dating coach?

Scared-Masterpiece98 · 2024-06-01T21:51:02+00:00

keep thugging it out man it’s not easy, work on your looks social skills and finances for at least 6-12 more months then reassess weather or not you need a dating coach.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-01T22:21:35+00:00

You are going out to get something. That’s an inherently needy frame and very unattractive. If you want to skyrocket your “game”, change the reason you go out. Stop going out to pickup women and get them interested in you. Start going out to have fun and be the life of the party. Women are infinitely more interested in men who are leading fun and adventurous lives than men who are desperately pursuing them so they could make the woman their adventure.

Jironasaurus · 2024-06-01T22:03:18+00:00

I started out without a coach, self taught for 2 years. I learnt way more in 6 months, with a good coach and support system... than I did in those 2 years. 3 of my buddies got themselves the same coach before I did, and they turned out to be superstars after that. 2 of them became coaches, and were very good at what they did.

A coach will always be able to see your blindspots. So I reckon if you got the money, go for it.

DMaN4245 · 2024-06-02T12:14:08+00:00

I am sorry to say, but dating coach will not give you any miracle information/solution that will change your life at once and make you a chick magnet.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-01T22:31:22+00:00

I’m a Daygame coach. How about a risk free 2 hour coaching session where i teach you step by step how to pick up girls through cold approach during the day (daygame) to build sexual tension, get them romantically interested, and get same day lays. You even get a special money back guarantee to reduce the risk. Let me know if you want more detail through DM about this.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-06-01T22:46:12+00:00

Do not pay for a coach, u don't need it.

It can be unfathomable how far you can get with a woman with just regular conversation.

Get the term "approaching" out of your vocabulary. Just meet people and talk to those who you find interesting regardless of gender and all other variables. If one of those people just so happen to be an attractive woman that you happen to hit it off with then so be it.

AdministrativeAd7167 · 2024-06-02T12:29:48+00:00

Listen to Robert Glover on modern wisdom podcast

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-02T15:41:18+00:00

Upset_Painting3146 · 2024-06-02T17:31:41+00:00

Tell jokes, make her laugh, compliment her, don’t show desperation/neediness by being overly sexual/touchy. Apply these fundamentals when approaching before paying $$$ for a coach to tell you the same thing. Life’s stressful right now for everyone and women are looking for that dude who makes them feel relaxed and entertained.

Defiant-Past6997 · 2024-06-02T17:34:34+00:00

unless you have SERIOUS issues where you literally can't hold eye contact and stuff, its just a massive waste of money. There's no magic lines and tricks etc to force attraction in a girl.

epimpstyle · 2024-06-02T19:40:54+00:00

Yes, a dating coach will see what you are doing or not doing and will tell you, but as I read from your post, it looks like the women you are talking to are just being polite and they are pretending to pay attention to you, but I doubt they are actively engaging in the conversation.

If they engage in the conversation then your escalation chapter (KINO) is missing because without escalation you just make a platonic friend.

It is impossible if you make them laugh, feel good, make kino and they are not interested in you... no, there is no way! If all goes well, you can end up with an instant date, but of course you have to create that opportunity and an instant date is what you should aim for every time, if it is not possible later, just postpone it to tomorrow, if not tomorrow after... and so on... the sooner the better but aim high to have enough room for negotiation.

It is hard to explain what to do without seeing what you are doing, but a dating coach or someone else with enough experience will see if you are doing something wrong or if maybe it is just bad luck.

bluealphaNL1 · 2024-06-01T23:52:51+00:00

I feel like I always do it wrong

I always approach the wrong girls, the ones “out of my league” the ones who clearly don’t seem interested, the ones who by society’s standards of today are simply too tall for me (not taller than me, but nowadays if a girl is of the same height as the guy then she’s already too tall for him, if you know what I mean🤷😓and I’m 175 cm, same height as many, many girls in the West) and at the same time, since I get so frustrated with the aforementioned girls, I tend to avoid the other type of girls altogether, the ones who smile at me, send me “signals”, are shorter than me (which by society’s standards of today means I automatically have more chances with them than girls as tall as me or taller🤷) It’s also that I just don’t have so much energy for this to care and pursue this the whole time, so I only approach like every tenth or fifteenth girl I come across in my everyday life throughout the week, and when I get rejected I reduce the frequency like to every twentieth girl I see and so on😓 and when I comr across a girl of the second category, the frustration is so big and the motivation so low, that I say to myself, whatever, she too will reject you as well. So in summary, I seem to always approach the wrong girls and avoid the right ones (for me) 😓 I get energy out of nowhere to approach girls clearly not interested in me and out of my league and then I become the weakest and shyest person ever when I run across someone who clearly seems more interested and more within my league than the first person

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-06-02T01:25:13+00:00

I watched Netflix's Indian Matchmaking.

One woman took a guy out to a furniture store for a date. He was so confused the entire time. She said she needed her future husband to know the right furniture to pick out.

This young good looking woman got asked to a social gathering by this guy. At the social gathering, she ends up making out with another guy. So those two started dating. But then he later broke up with her. She started crying;. Then she asked the dating coach to match her up with another guy but the coach told her, "You need a break from dating for now."

All of the people on the show are millionaires

IamWisdom · 2024-06-01T22:08:26+00:00

No it's not time, women right now specifically are literally impossible to please, and we are expected to please them on a fucking date. Like bitch, it's not my obligation to impress you and please you on a date. FUCK EM

Title	Time for a dating coach?
Author	mojelb7r
Upvotes	14
Comments	38
Date	June 1, 2024 9:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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