I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mind

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Redboy333 · 2024-06-05T08:12:54+00:00

This is definitely a fake post

xcoreflyup · 2024-06-05T07:40:43+00:00

You mentioned you did so much self improvement.

What kind of self improvement? What exactly did you do

Based on what you wrote so far. I don’t see it.

XYROTHEGOD · 2024-06-05T07:38:45+00:00

Nigga what the fuck did I just read

BigBlueWaffle69 · 2024-06-05T07:58:45+00:00

Years and years of therapy.

punktfan · 2024-06-05T08:47:05+00:00

It's gotten to the point now where I have fantasized raping some random chick.

Whoa bro. You say you've done self improvement, and yet somehow you're saying shit like this. It seems to me that you have a fundamental problem of thinking that sex is about YOU getting what YOU want, and not thinking at all about what the other person wants. If you want to have sex, you need to think about what the other person wants, because sex is a mutual exchange.

I also can't offord escorts because they are way way too expensive.

Get a job?

they won't even let you do bareback

Yeah bro, because they're having sex daily for work and not using a condom puts them at risk for life threatening diseases. What the fuck is wrong with you that you don't care AT ALL about the wellbeing of women?

What kind of society is this

Not one where men get to take for free anything they want without thinking about others.

all the jobs are picky too about who they hire.

Bro, listen, NO ONE owes you ANYTHING. You need to think a lot more about what you are willing to give in exchange for the things you want in life. No one is just going around giving things for free to assholes who aren't offering anything in return.

I drove home all depressed and felt suicidal.

Because you couldn't touch boobs? Bro, come on. Where is all the "self improvement" work you said you did? You are falling apart because you can't touch boobs?

Anything I can do?

See a therapist. Get a job. Be willing to give something in life, and not expect free handouts. Learn how to respect others instead of just thinking about yourself all the time.

You're honestly pitiful.

assukkar · 2024-06-05T13:03:01+00:00

Stop making it a priority. Even Mark Manson says to stop making sex a priority.

Why? You look and smell desperate to women. Occupy yourself with hobbies.

And to be honest. If you're not deeply in love with a woman, that post nut clarity will hit you like a freight train.

Zenji_YT · 2024-06-05T09:19:58+00:00

Average porn addict.

OwOvOwO · 2024-06-05T14:09:51+00:00

Talk to a therapist please

The_Core_Shadow · 2024-06-05T08:35:05+00:00

Im not an expert but Im pretty sure raping women wont increase your success rate at all. They usually dont appreciate it much.

Also, why would you even do it? The best thing about sex is the mutual affection. If your goal is just to put a penis into a vagina just get a hooker.

Rape will ruin your life and also the girl's life and the only thing you get out of it is 5 seconds of orgasm. Not worth it, bro. Not worth it.

Content-Might-2101 · 2024-06-05T11:13:54+00:00

Have you read models - attract women through honesty by mark manson? Give it a try , it’s a very helpful book . I guarantee if you read it and implement its uses , you’ll get a girl

DependentAd1504 · 2024-06-05T07:59:55+00:00

Tell us the things you did on your self improvement journey...so that we can help you out

epimpstyle · 2024-06-05T09:12:26+00:00

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Boosteddreamer · 2024-06-05T15:02:49+00:00

Go get some mental help, you’re fucked.

Koramelmuscle · 2024-06-05T17:53:00+00:00

Take your meds

alexmaycovid · 2024-06-05T08:06:19+00:00

Men, at this point you need mental help ASAP! But overall you just need to save money for a hooker. It won't help you seduce women but at least you'll experience this. And don't do it raw with a hooker it's overrated but possibility to get STD is much higher

DependentAd1504 · 2024-06-05T08:04:40+00:00

Tell us how you cold approach girls and what do you say mostly,so we can assess the reasons and help you out.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-05T11:47:03+00:00

This is a joke, right?! Right?! Dear god, please tell me this is a joke post.

P.s. How did you get herpes? Inquiring minds want to know

emilmaster11 · 2024-06-05T11:53:40+00:00

The way you are behaving here it is no wonder that no woman wants you, get out of the victim role take responsibility and get your life under control, go to the hairdresser buy some cool clothes start exercising get fit eat healthy and during this time fuck women and focus on yourself and the rest will come by itself afterwards

Zenji_YT · 2024-06-05T09:17:42+00:00

Pay and lose it, go to Guatemala, Venezuela , Brazil . Will be less expensive and better for both

Reasonable_Mail_3656 · 2024-06-05T16:15:35+00:00

“Why do i have to rape a chick” wtf….. Well your brian is the number one reason why you’ve not gotten pussy. Also you sound like you have a very sour attitude which is going to mane any woman dry as fuck around you. Trust me they can sense those desperate “rapey” vibes.

Seriously dont talk like that lol that mindset is the main reason why guarantee it

mancozbi · 2024-06-05T19:16:24+00:00

How does someone get -9 karma? Oh, maybe someone who thinks rape is a possible solution.

Allergic_to_Au · 2024-06-05T19:33:55+00:00

Okay... I'm going to try to put it in a way that might hopefully make it clear to you. Nothing in this life is free. People do not give $$$ to you for sitting in a chair and redditing and nothing else. In the same way, women do not give you sex just for coming up to them and saying that you want it.

Have a little empathy: would you be okay with random people came up to you and said they're really interested in your wallet? And that they won't do anything for you asides from taking bills and credit cards out of your wallet?

That's what you're doing with the jobs and women. You are essentially believing you're owed value and things without offering anything in return

Escorts have a price because that's what the market dictates is the value for their services. Even if you're only looking at women as sex-carrying products, you still have to realize that they place a value on it and that they're not going to discount it for you based off of a cheat code

A man is not great just because he's was born with a cock and balls. He is everything that he is made of. What are you made of? Do you have muscles? Money? Items? Funny stories? A caring smile? Wit?

What you do need greatly is therapy. If you keep going down this path of believing you can take without giving, and you do end up trying to take without paying... (robbery, rape, etc.) then society will take its toll from you regardless (jail, fines, etc.). You can choose the pain you want to suffer, or life will choose for you

No_Opportunity_5783 · 2024-06-05T10:34:45+00:00

Just go to Mexico or Thailand. You can get laid for $100 USD.

belisaj · 2024-06-05T08:12:42+00:00

Bro, seriously? Save your money and go to SE Asia, Thailand or Philippines. $100 gets you full service from a high-quality escort.

Only expensive cost is your flight there but it's worth it. And you can get the flight for free if you use credit card rewards points properly.

At 38 there's seriously no excuse to being a virgin unless you purposely are doing it to save yourself for marriage.

DiegoTrevi6 · 2024-06-05T08:19:19+00:00

Brother, can’t say I wanted to call you that but I recently lost my virginity I’m 18, look it doesn’t look like you tried self improvement, especially you resulting to “toys” but sex is overrated, it’s not something that you get with a girl for. You want to get with a girl to get loved and cared for with a perk of having pussy. I don’t want your copy and paste response to this. Raping is not something ethical no matter how tried you really are, I get it I’ve been there, wanting to fuck someone, before my girlfriend. But you need to understand that sex isn’t life. It’s a gift from god. How would you feel if some 30 year old looked at your nonexistent daughter and say I want to get her, grope her, and rape her? How would you feel? Exactly not good. Obviously you’re getting rejected, because you’re being quick and not having the confidence of being able to handle that. Don’t resort to an escort either. Go to the gym, look better, feel better. Become better and trust me. Pussy will come your way.

Title	I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mind
Author	americanguy110
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Comments	54
Date	June 5, 2024 7:27 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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