Is it always your fault?

SaaSWriters · 2024-06-06T19:20:00+00:00

When a woman shows disinterest, you leave her alone. Then you don’t have to deal with any situation that arises from that. If you choose to pursue you her, who should take responsibility for the outcome?

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-06T18:57:19+00:00

Yes. It is always your fault. And thats great because if it's your fault, you can fix it

onefornought · 2024-06-06T14:27:54+00:00

You've heard the expression: "It takes two to Tango."

Both partners need to do their own part, but they also have to be in sync with each other.

All social interactions are exactly like this.

bigdawg363 · 2024-06-06T21:46:17+00:00

Functionally it doesn't matter. Either way you face the consequences. Treat everything like it's your fault and act accordingly. Is it fair? No. Is it better for your game? Yes.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-06T15:01:10+00:00

There are a lot of things going on here. So I will need to break it down.

On one hand, you have this very typical male trait of “I HAVE to be able to seduce every single woman I encounter”. It is driven by ego and by neediness. Telling yourself you need every single woman to admire you in order to feel good about yourself or that you need to be able to seduce every single woman so you can be happy.

That is inherently very needy and will not only prevent you from having good results, but it will also make you depressed more often than not.

Then you have another problem, which is you are continuously getting the same negative reactions from women. Women are always trying to manipulate you or they ghost you, act disinterested, etc. If that happens in the majority of cases, then chances are it is your fault. Meaning you are doing something to cause these reactions. So you should investigate and solve the problem.

Finally, you have the case where this happens to you every once in a while. But let’s say out of 5 women you talk to, only 1-2 give you a hard time, then who cares? It’s obviously them, They have some kind of an issue that has nothing to do with you. Even if they are purely not attracted and just acting bitchy, tell them “I don’t know who pissed on your Cheerios this morning, but I assume you, it wasn’t me”. Then just walk away.

If you are needy and attached to needing to always get a positive response form women, then you will end up blaming yourself for every negative interaction and this is not good for your mental health or confidence.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-06-06T13:33:49+00:00

A woman's personality can be totally different for different guys. I think it's all energy when I read about some guys experience with women I feel they looking in a different world to me.

Powerful-Ad9392 · 2024-06-06T20:55:18+00:00

Blame is what losers do so they can feel justified about not fixing anything.

punktfan · 2024-06-07T00:14:51+00:00

I don't know. I rarely feel manipulated by women. If I do feel manipulated by them I stop seeing them immediately. No time for bullshit.

I'm absolutely sure that women aren't innately difficult and manipulative, and probably any man who thinks so is the type of man who allows himself to be played.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-06-06T15:41:08+00:00

Where do you fall on this question, or do you neve believe it to be this black and white?

Those guys are idiots and get nothing about women . Let’s have some empathy for once and :

Imagine
You give a 2 a chance and they proceeded to fuck it up .

The thing is you wasted your time with that 2 . They/It (I don’t know what you call aliens) fucked you out of something you can’t get back (time).

Further more the aliens stoped the 10 hot 8s (they all really wanted to come and hit on you , you can tell ) from coming to talk to you .

And finally IT LOWERD you social value (A thing more prized than emotions ) (in the man case took you favourite car and house +50% of what you own )

Of corse you would want at least something in return . That thing basically fucked you over for the night

Title	Is it always your fault?
Author	appolonysian
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	June 6, 2024 1:11 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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