What's exactly charisma?

-nuuk- · 2024-07-12T04:30:24+00:00

It’s a dump stat for Barbarians.

Maninthepenombra · 2024-07-11T22:17:44+00:00

the ability to charm people around you, make them see you in a favorable light with your demeanor, actions and words.

Cipamanz · 2024-07-12T13:21:41+00:00

Charisma is a blend of various traits that makes someone captivating and influential. It’s not just about seduction but about being someone people are naturally drawn to. Charisma involves confidence, humor, unpredictability, and giving off a vibe that people want to be part of your reality. It’s about making others feel good and wanting to be around you.

**Examples:**

**Confidence:** Walk into a room like you own it.
**Humor:** Playfully tease someone in a fun, light-hearted way.
**Unpredictability:** Do something unexpected when least expected, but not too extreme to seem unstable.

Don't worry if you don't *feel* charismatic; what matters is how others perceive you. Sometimes, just owning it makes a huge difference. For more tailored advice, reach out to www.datingtips.ai.

Gov_Grov · 2024-07-11T22:47:22+00:00

Authencity. Authencity and looking people in the eye.

I have met lots of friendly people. I have still only know two genuinely charismatic people. What made you want to be around them differed.

Will looked you right in eye and asked you about yourself and made you feel like the only person in the room.

Ally did not make you feel like the only person in the room. Ally did make you feel how authentic she was. Which was always super refreshing.

In a world full of phony people. In a world full of social anxious people repressing their real personality.

She was fearless in saying what first comes to mind. She didn't try to be cool. If she wanted to smile from something, she did. Bubbly.

Viktor2500 · 2024-07-12T11:54:17+00:00

Have you ever met a person that you liked immediately? Not necessarily because of the way they look, but rather the way they carry themselves and interact with the world. That's a charismatic person.

hisgreatness64 · 2024-07-12T03:30:34+00:00

Charm is making people feel desired

Charisma is making people feel important

lets_be_truant · 2024-07-12T09:50:20+00:00

Warmth + competence = charisma

Amaran345 · 2024-07-12T14:35:54+00:00

Charisma has a component of social skills, but it's also a lot about liking people, the secure attachment, you like yourself and you like people, this puts you in the sweet spot where you are not needy (because you like yourself), and also are not an avoidant (because you like people).

A charismatic guy is not fake because for example if he's feeling tired or down, he's not going to hide that (because he likes himself, he acts like himself), but this doesn't mean that he's going to suddenly avoid or treat people badly (because he likes people), the result is that he may look just a little bit down, while still being effortlessly socially effective and attractive, meeting himself and people at the middle, he has no anxiety because he's not bottling or hiding anything, and also he doesn't have anxiety because he's is not feeling insecure around people.

A charismatic guy can say "my girlfriend left me, i feel a bit down" and people will still like him, women will want to console him, some may make fun of him, but he doesn't mind that, he actually enjoys the attention, and gives some by joking back a bit too, and women like this, a vulnerable man, that's remains plenty effective as a man

OppositeDamage · 2024-07-11T23:23:52+00:00

Charisma is the dimensionless definition of how easily your personality is remembered by other people.

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-07-12T17:38:32+00:00

If you want to get deeper understanding of Charisma, I will recommend reading “Charisma Myth” by Olivia Fox

CypherMX · 2024-07-12T18:56:23+00:00

Reading this thread I am even MORE confused about what charisma is then I was before lol

MozlemBoy · 2024-10-31T11:21:19+00:00

Man judging from this thread nobody in this fucking sub knows what charisma is 😂

Dewey_Rider · 2024-07-11T22:05:24+00:00

Quiet confidence

No_Hat9118 · 2024-07-11T22:17:13+00:00

Al Pacino

BarryBold8 · 2024-07-12T20:01:34+00:00

siegold · 2024-07-12T23:52:53+00:00

Its used for Enchantment and Illusion Magic often times

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-07-11T22:26:19+00:00

Robert Downey jr

TRTGymBroX · 2024-07-11T23:40:18+00:00

I can tell you it comes from genuinely liking yourself and liking other people. The most charismatic people are those that have those two qualities.

BonjourComeBack · 2024-07-12T07:36:45+00:00

Charisma IS a mix of :

presence : being focused on the person ___
warmth : making the person feeling important, welcome ___
Strength : look like strong, (physical), (psychological) being confident and assertive, socially (statut/money), other (skills etc)

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-11T22:27:43+00:00

compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others.

2024-07-12T03:49:22+00:00

being handsome

PrinceDestin · 2024-07-11T23:58:27+00:00

Charisma is you at its most authentic purest form, It is the spirit of your game, you personality your awkwardness your charm, you selfishness and your selflessness , how you carry yourself how you dress and how you walk

IT IS YOU! You handsome beautiful complex human being God has created and don’t let anyone make you think otherwise

HyperByte1990 · 2024-07-11T22:35:56+00:00

Rizz

The it factor

sentientsea · 2024-07-13T10:04:23+00:00

Oh my God. You mean "What is charisma, exactly?" A real grammar nightmare there.

Never-the-less, charisma, exactly, is the ability to attract and influence other people. That's why it's so hard to define.

It's not a behavior, it's not a mode of expression, it's not a technique or something you can do. It's not actually even really an ability.

It's a description of a result.

If you can attract other people to you and influence them, you have charisma, or rizz, if you like.

It's kind of like asking what "the best" is.

Just like any number of factors can contribute to you being "the best", any number of factors can result in charisma.

Does that make sense?

captainawesme · 2024-07-12T01:44:19+00:00

It’s the same thing as rizz

cowboy_roy · 2024-07-12T04:21:39+00:00

RIZ is simple- its confidence and approachability meeting in one

BigVisual5833 · 2024-07-11T22:43:22+00:00

Being handsome. As someone who has most handsome/cute from 14/16 to ugly due to puberty doing invasive things to my face. Charisma is all looks.

Title	What's exactly charisma?
Author	SituationOk6836
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Date	July 11, 2024 9:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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