We’ve been separated since January 2024. We have 3 kids 10, 8, 3. Married for 11 years. We are generally co-parenting pretty well but she’s using a joint credit card and the house i bought and finished myself to bring back random dudes to screw. She has every right to do it but it just rubs me such the wrong way.

I know I should just let it go but another side wants to burn the world down and if neither of us escapes with a dollar it’ll be ok as long as she has nothing that was once mine/ours. I kept the joint card for her to charge kid necessities to, obviously that’s now cancelled. She threw a fit and I told her she can fund her own dick encounters.

She thinks she’s going to keep the house. I’m giving her the house as the equity offsets my other investments but know she won’t be able to afford to refinance it. It pains me my kids won’t be in that house but brings a smile to my face that she won’t have her beloved $1M McMansion.

The sad thing is the more I’m away from her the more I miss being with the family as a whole and even her. Things weren’t absolutely shit and the two of us could have probably fixed our issues but neither of us really tried. It’s really the clarity that I needed but I think she’s finally showing who she truly is and I should just keep moving forward.