Anyone ever meet with their elementary kid's teacher because of poor behavior - and have that meeting with their Ex. Specifically an ex that has used (even post divorce) anything and everything to weaponize against me. Because of that, I rarely speak to her. Communication is limited to texts about pick ups, and drop offs.

Curious if any advice on this meeting. Is it best to just be relatively silent? Point out to the teachers that she is the primary custody parent? Or tell them we will discipline our child appropriately - and we'll work on this together?

Obviously the latter is best, my only concern is her "using this" to attempt to modify custody. Just curious of anyone's experience.