Background in link, below.

STBX and I communicate almost exclusively via text since she left the house in late July. Mostly about co-parenting logistics and the divorce.

One of the problems in our marriage was I had the audacious temerity to be concerned about her drinking and its impacts on her health. About six months ago she started taking adderall for her ADHD which was good initially but, IMO, exacerbated her erratic decision-making and accelerated the disintegration of our marriage. Moreso because she refused to stop drinking and adderall and etoh are explicitly contra-indicated.

She texts me last night showing her Blood Pressures from the day. Apparently she's having vision issues and had high BP at the optometrist.

She spiking 163/108, FFS.

Gee, if only someone had warned her about her drinking and adderall.

I wanted to tell her to go to her boyfriends with this shit, it's really not my problem.

Trust me, lads, I ain't buying what she's selling, we are never, ever getting back together, like, ever. IDGAF what health issues she's bought herself.

Here's my initial rant, for the curious:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1ff9g2k/fuck_you_im_still_standing/