The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly

Excellent_You5494 · 2025-01-16T17:25:37+00:00

Feminists and Feminist groups have a long history of lies and revisionism for the sake of maintaining control.

63daddy · 2025-01-16T17:54:43+00:00

Feminists often justify discrimination against men based on alleged discrimination against women in the past.

I see at least 3 problems with this idea:

Discriminating against men doesn’t undo any discrimination that allegedly occurred to women over 100 years ago. It simply creates more discrimination.
Much of the alleged discrimination against women is either fictional or blown out of proportion. For example the pay gap doesn’t compare equal work as feminists claim. Claims women couldn’t vote prior to 1920, couldn’t bank, couldn’t run businesses, etc are simply false.
If past discrimination justifies reverse discrimination now, then by the same logic for the next 250 years only women should be eligible for military draft. It used to be a husband was responsible for his wife’s debt, so by the feminist argument, moving forward, a wife should be responsible for her husband’s debt.

EriknotTaken · 2025-01-16T17:29:19+00:00

Wait, you mean the solution for a destructed village is not to destroy another one?

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-01-16T18:01:41+00:00

"Why can’t some move on to reality and see their privileges ?"

Because they don't want to move on. they want power. Simple as that. And these are a very specific demographic of women.

The solution is to stick with women who like men. They tend to not have the mindset you explained.

DizzyAstronaut9410 · 2025-01-16T20:13:26+00:00

I'd argue life was probably worse for like 95% of men. Raining kids at home, cooking, and cleaning, sure isn't glamorous but it beats the hell out of going to war constantly or breaking your back working all lit hours of the day.

I'd imagine life for the upper classes of men was better than the upper classes of women, but that's such a small minority of the population, and both of which were wildly better than being in a working class.

Reality is life was terrible for almost everyone historically. But as always, only women can suffer or be victims.

EaterOfCrab · 2025-01-16T18:41:28+00:00

Ah yes, retroactive vengeance

LivingMaterial2089 · 2025-01-16T19:20:09+00:00

Oh the idiots think it's some sort of revenge. If they admit they have privileges they're shit scared to loose them

Grand-Juggernaut6937 · 2025-01-16T19:33:13+00:00

The celts were attacked by the Anglo-Saxons in the 6th century so that means all Irish people deserve reparations

And rome attacked Gaul so all Italians owe Germans reparations too. #gaullivesmatter

Ok_Night_7767 · 2025-01-16T18:58:01+00:00

Those same people are conveniently ignoring some of the injustices of the past that applied to men.

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2025-01-16T22:33:22+00:00

Women weren't even opressed in the past, and even if they were the argument wouldn't make sense anyways.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2025-01-16T18:44:20+00:00

Look, whenever someone gaslights you like this feminist nonsense, they're doing it for their own purposes. That is not logic, it's bullsh&t. See it for what it is.

Plus-Obligation-6162 · 2025-01-18T04:40:47+00:00

When I consider someone for a serious relationship, I literally tell her:

"You should feel loved, appreciated, safe and heard. I want you to always feel that you can come to me with anything. And I promise I will always be there and will do my best to sincerely hear you. But there is another part to this contractual agreement: (A) You are responsible for your words, so measure and use them very carefully. It's easy. Do what I do and think before you speak, knowing you'll have to be responsible for verbal behavior. You do not get to insult, degrade, bait, lie, cause drama or drive wedges in other relationships. (B) I'm the kind of guy who 'fesses up when he makes a mistake. If I put a dent in your car, I accept responsibility, apologize and will work tirelessly to remove the dent. But I will not be responsible for all the previous damage to your vehicle from 'previous drivers."

It's the Golden Rule, but for whatever reason, "treat others how you wish to be treated" does not seem to apply when a woman is "processing" to "her man." (venting with absolutely zero awareness, compassion, control, or accountability)

Being a good man is the opposite of weakness. Be the kind of guy who owns his mistakes and fixes the damage he causes. And don't be another shit-head that hurts a woman. But by God...do not be the guy who spends every dime and 30 years, trying to accept responsibility for crap that was not your problem.

Remember, you absolutely deserve a partner who has their shit together enough and is mature enough to be a partner, not an invalid or rescue animal.

I have survived a few crazies, and man....at one point, I had to tell my ex: "I'm not sure how it was in your home growing up, but I was not able to speak to anyone like that. There is only ONE man in your life who is expected put up with your tantrums and deal with your inner-teenager, and then immediately show you unconditional love afterwords. That man is your father. I am not your father, I am your partner."

TinyBlonde15 · 2025-01-16T18:16:10+00:00

What way are women treating men badly or removing rights to gain their own? Genuinely curious bc we are just trying to get the same ones men have had, not take away any from men. Like true human pursuit of what they wanna pursue. Not rights like "having a gf or a bf" bc that's not anyone right... all I see men complaining about is free market process of women not dating them due to different standards. But I don't see any part of this removal of social and civil rights and I'd be happy to learn I'm just unaware. I see gay rights to marry being rolled back but men still can marry women. I see rights to medical care for women being rolled back but not men. I'm just wanting to see what's happening to men so I can help.

Title	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly
Author	Fffgfggfffffff
Upvotes	148
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Date	January 16, 2025 5:03 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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