On child drop of days we meet at a public place. We are midway thru the one year separation and things are downright toxic.
I’ve respectfully asked her via parent app to stay away and out of my car/personal space during drop offs. She refuses to. Going back-and-forth from each side of the car to the kids twice after they’re in the car seat seats just to annoy me. She’s now accusing me of closing the door on her while she’s trying to do this and abusing her. It’s fucking nuts! Any advice on dealing with this? I’ve thought about getting a body cam and or setting the meet for the local police station, but on days where she has the kids she’ll never agree to meet me there.