How would you approach a girl at a train station?

ratfooshi · 2025-06-16T15:50:51+00:00

Yup, ol reliable:

• Go before I give myself time to think of the consequences.

No hesitation, because she senses I acted on impulse, and she reflects the same.
Just a comfortable and relaxed air. And it's like we've known each other for years.

No setup, no overthinking, just a natural superpower we all have that I practice tapping into everyday.

TakeAChillPill99 · 2025-06-16T17:13:13+00:00

Just don’t try it late at night when the train feels scary. It can be a unnerving place for women, a lot of characters at the train station or on the buss ya know

darkphoen1xx · 2025-06-16T17:31:17+00:00

Watch Before Sunrise for tips

2025-06-16T19:38:44+00:00

Small talk and not really giving a fuck one way or another. Once they make a point of sitting across from you, on a table seat, when there are plenty of other seats, you know its on.

However, the key is to not give a fuck. Once you care, you have lost.

There is however, no magical method, or definite way of approaching at a train station. Learn to not give a fuck, learn that rejection means fuck all, learn to understand social cues, be able to hold a positive frame. That is the only method i know. Everything else is just a training wheel.

epimpstyle · 2025-06-16T20:15:57+00:00

At a train station it's the same as in any other situation. There is no need to impress her with your knowledge or to use clever openers, in fact the simpler it is, the better. If you say something clever, she might not catch the joke, and it doesn't look good. Immediately after, she might think you are too smart for her, and the pressure will be huge.

A routine is a Plan B for when you literally have no idea what to say, or when a moment of awkward silence appears during conversation. At that point, you can use a routine to create a topic for discussion.

You need to learn 3-5 short funny/interesting stories and find a natural way to include them in the conversation. For example, you could say: "do you see that guy? He reminds me of... [insert a funny story here]."... later, if needed, you could insert another story like: "BTW, did I tell you about the time I was in XYZ-city/country...? [insert another funny story here]" - things like that.

UrbanUnrivaled · 2025-06-16T16:03:29+00:00

Find something interesting to make a witty comment about

Extreme-Yoghurt-7055 · 2025-06-16T18:13:46+00:00

Ask for change

southparkslope · 2025-06-16T18:27:01+00:00

“Choooo choooo” walk up to them “What’s up with Choooo”

BravoPUA · 2025-06-16T20:29:24+00:00

Observation opener about something I noticed. About her or the environment.

Of just 100% direct. Like this guy.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK2QqTbMjEa/?igsh=dDE4dDFyemFycGxx

Works basically everywhere.

No_Internet908 · 2025-06-17T00:43:04+00:00

The girl at the train station knows you want to fuck her. Why? Because she’s a girl and you’re a guy. She’s not stupid.

If she wanted to get with you, all she’d have to do is walk up to you, and ask if you wanna go out. She knows you’ll say yes.

The fact that she hasn’t done that means she’s not interested.

Find another way to talk to her, somewhere else, in a different context. This won’t work.

LucaCoco_ · 2025-06-17T03:33:22+00:00

Hi. Do you like trains?

ContentMonitor93 · 2025-06-16T16:37:53+00:00

I wouldn't.

Grapefruit-Smooth · 2025-06-16T16:50:48+00:00

I wouldn’t. there are other reliable locations to meet women why are you looking for them at the train station? 😂

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-06-16T17:01:29+00:00

Place is just a noise most of the time. Imagine playing a game where the setting can be changed to summer or winter, or in a jungle or within city blocks. But the principles and routines are pretty much the same.

What you need to pay attention more is in most places you only have 10-15 mins to do a set, from opening to earning trust and gaining her interests. Regardless you’re in a gym, a grocery store, on a public transport, or in a bar. If she’s attracted to you that time can extend organically so you can close on her. Practice it with your friend first as if you both don’t know each other, can you make the convo flow within that time frame?

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-06-16T17:07:50+00:00

I know the feeling , I spent like 4 hours lmao ;

Zaroosky · 2025-06-16T17:39:37+00:00

I think that generally most ppl don’t want to be hit on on public transit, especially on the way to or from work. It’s not like they have anywhere to remove themselves from the conversation if they feel cornered because they’re “trapped” on the train with you.

Maleficent_Tackle805 · 2025-06-16T19:40:47+00:00

My game sucks but I just say hello and ramble if there's a vibe go for the number no vibe it's just chat than be nice and friendly build comfort

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-06-17T16:06:01+00:00

Get in field of vision
Walk directly to her in a straight line
Get her attention
Say direct opener
Cold read to countinue the conversation.
Sit or stand next to her in a way where she can "escape" while talking.

*on her perspective, safety her end is important. self eject if she seems uncomfortable (not smiling)

Weary-Wasabi1721 · 2025-06-16T16:11:36+00:00

Hi, you look nice, want to go out? (I'm a Redditor not a man that drowns in women spare me pilx)

ePlayablez · 2025-06-16T16:53:59+00:00

Ask her if the train is going to whatever stop you’re going to. Take it from there.

ElusiveAbs · 2025-06-19T07:40:56+00:00

Get in her FOV, if she looks, bam smile, approach if she smiles back.
Go up to her and talk about how this train is always late/crowded/walking there is tough/if she’s wearing something nice can also lead with that

nobody__butpratyush · 2025-06-22T17:26:17+00:00

In the train what I usually do is

Take out my phone. write on Google Docs. Hi I think you look really cute so I just thought of saying Hi to you

Then tap on her shoulder and show it to her

If she shows interest, I go ahead.her.

Or else I drop the set

Title	How would you approach a girl at a train station?
Author	rockstarflo
Upvotes	21
Comments	36
Date	June 16, 2025 3:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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